Big Penis: Impact On Your Life

[Big_a_20]

I didn’t realize I was hung until I started having sex with men. The couple girls I was with never said anything and we took things slow since they weren’t experienced either. The first guy I hooked up with (drunk and at a house party) let out a pretty loud “Fuck!” and I thought something was wrong. He just smiled and said “No, there is DEFINITELY nothing wrong” and proceeded to suck me dry lol. A lot of dudes my age didn’t want to get fucked by me so I found some older guys that did and they taught me everything.

Like the previous poster said, a big dick isn’t gonna get you a job, win the lottery, or do your taxes but when you realize that you have something a lot of guys and girls want; it gives you a certain confidence. It’s just part of your body and there’s no shame in hiding it.

The only negative is that when someone finds out you’re hung and you become a human dildo for them and they think that’s all you bring to the table. Or worse, that your not as big as the last guy they were with. It sucks and can bring up a lot of self esteem issues and lead to performance anxiety (The worst six months of my life! I was a fucking mess). You have to realize that you are more than your dick.

Yes being hung is nice but it’s a bonus, not the whole deal.

It’s just a great bonus.

 

[bravesoldier]

Even though I'm not all caught up on size I recently experienced the power, lure and addictive properties a truly large cock can have. I hooked up with a guy from work, a guy I'd know for about 30 years who has the "perfect large" (7 x 6 1/4) penis. I was mesmerized the first time I felt one that large in my hand and felt my mouth stretched around it. My desire for truly large cock has only grown since then, as the last time I was with him I sucked him off and on for at least two hours, feeling in my mind like cocks that size deserve to be paid that kind of attention. I actually got caught up in a frenzy and could not stop sucking this guy's cock. Usually my jaws get tired after a while, but not in this case. I'm glad I have experienced a truly big cock in my life.

Even so, guys with much smaller cocks are just as hot to me and I'm so glad of that.

 

[auncut10in]

Good answer. I'm actually okay with my erect size. I've gotten mostly compliments about either the overall size, thickness, fat head, or the feeling it has brought some partners in the rare instances I have topped. I also had sex with women who were younger and never had one negative comment. Women don't care as much. But I've had nice compliments from gay men. I've also had a couple of negative comments which I found quite hurtful but they were from casual people. My flaccid cock when at its smallest is quite tiny due to shrinkage. I'd be more than happy if my flaccid cock was about the same or just a little smaller as my erect cock - would make being in locker rooms and naked pool parties with the gays more fun and comfortable.

I replied Very Positive. And I think a lot of that has to do with the fact that my dick is very big, between 7" and 8" when I am totally soft. I haven't won the lottery or gotten a raise, but I have had a lot of really fun adventures, some of which I have posted. Here is the link if you are interested.
I only post true experiences i have had.

Stuff has always just happened to me pretty constant all of my life, starting at an early age. Sex comes easy and often. Yeah sometimes the situation starts off as me just being a human dildo, and I am ok with that, because sometimes the other person is just someone to get off with. But it usually becomes much more than that. I often hear guys say that they really like me and not just because I have a big dick. Because I, like most guys, are more than just our dicks. But hey, isn't wagging a big dick one of the most effective ways to catch something fun and unexpected to make the day just a little more enjoyable?

 

[1046769]

For me it has given me the confidence to be naked without any hang-ups in the appropriate situations (as an adult, in spas, when growing up, the communal showers never had the terror that they seemed to have for some boys). And in the bedroom, just knowing that size is not going to be an issue is a plus.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

For me it has given me the confidence to be naked without any hang-ups in the appropriate situations (as an adult, in spas, when growing up, the communal showers never had the terror that they seemed to have for some boys). And in the bedroom, just knowing that size is not going to be an issue is a plus.

Those are both good points. But i think especially since when I shrink up to my smallest it looks pretty small (even though erect is fine) it really negatively affected my athletic desires and development. I really decided to not play middle school and high school sports where you end up in a communal shower after. It inhibited my development of good athletic habits I think.

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

I replied Very Positive. And I think a lot of that has to do with the fact that my dick is very big, between 7" and 8" when I am totally soft. I haven't won the lottery or gotten a raise, but I have had a lot of really fun adventures, some of which I have posted. Here is the link if you are interested.
I only post true experiences i have had.

Stuff has always just happened to me pretty constant all of my life, starting at an early age. Sex comes easy and often. Yeah sometimes the situation starts off as me just being a human dildo, and I am ok with that, because sometimes the other person is just someone to get off with. But it usually becomes much more than that. I often hear guys say that they really like me and not just because I have a big dick. Because I, like most guys, are more than just our dicks. But hey, isn't wagging a big dick one of the most effective ways to catch something fun and unexpected to make the day just a little more enjoyable?

Wondering if you qualify for:
The $10,000 10-inch challenge

 

[fournineteenfiftynine]

For me it has given me the confidence to be naked without any hang-ups in the appropriate situations (as an adult, in spas, when growing up, the communal showers never had the terror that they seemed to have for some boys). And in the bedroom, just knowing that size is not going to be an issue is a plus.

link
The $10,000 10-inch challenge

 

[auncut10in]

Wondering if you qualify for:
The $10,000 10-inch challenge

I wish. I am not quite 10".

 

[pwrdick]

Yes, having a big penis has had a positive impact in some parts of my life. I've certainly taken advantage of it when I want to hook up, or in sex parties. Having a bigger dick gave me the opportunity to scratch appearing in porn off my bucket list. And I'm certainly more confident in gym showers or at nude beaches or, heck, just working nude in the garden when I know my neighbors might just come through the garden gate. And it is damn hot seeing how great my dick (and body looks) in the mirror or on jerk off cams as a 61 year old man!

But there are SO many other personal attributes that have made a MUCH bigger impact on my life that gave me confidence, that made me attractive to sexual partners and friendships, that made me feel good about myself. Step back and ask yourself the question - "If you have what you perceive to be a ________, how has it affected your life" and insert some of your own blessings. Like having a good family to have grown up in, being talented in a specific area, being optimistic, or having a good education or career etc. You'll quickly see how diminutive the relative impact of an endowment (or lack thereof) really is. My friend, always focus on and accentuate your own positives and make the most out of them!

 

[GODHEAD PLATINUM]

Lol, and yet you havent picture 1 up here..... hahahaha

 

[LilJock]

This poll is very revealing. To all those guys who've claimed having a big cock isn't that important to them, the poll shows something a whole lot different.

As of right now, 83.5% of guys with big cocks feel it's positive in some way, with almost 30% saying it's very positive. Only 16.5% feel it isn't: 12%, not in any meaningful way; only 4.5% feel it's actually a negative in some way.

As an outsider, that's pretty much what I'd expect. To all those who aver it's no big deal, I've called BS and felt the dude "doth protesteth too much." Don't get me wrong. I've nothing against a guy being glad he's got a big cock. It comes in handy sometimes. There's nothing wrong in being happy about anything, even if you can't claim responsibility for it. I feel pretty lucky having good looks and a great body. And don't forget modesty. It's called "counting your blessings".

Of course, there's a difference between being happy about having a big cock (or good looks) and being an asshole about it. But false modesty isn't the cure for that.

 

[Triasco]

This poll is very revealing. To all those guys who've claimed having a big cock isn't that important to them, the poll shows something a whole lot different.

As of right now, 83.5% of guys with big cocks feel it's positive in some way, with almost 30% saying it's very positive. Only 16.5% feel it isn't: 12%, not in any meaningful way; only 4.5% feel it's actually a negative in some way.

As an outsider, that's pretty much what I'd expect. To all those who aver it's no big deal, I've called BS and felt the dude "doth protesteth too much." Don't get me wrong. I've nothing against a guy being glad he's got a big cock. It comes in handy sometimes. There's nothing wrong in being happy about anything, even if you can't claim responsibility for it. I feel pretty lucky having good looks and a great body. And don't forget modesty. It's called "counting your blessings".

Of course, there's a difference between being happy about having a big cock (or good looks) and being an asshole about it. But false modesty isn't the cure for that.

lol, I don't think the poll shows anything different. That is to say, just because the majority of respondents felt comfortable simply answering the poll without posting their views doesn't invalidate the words and perspectives of those that did.

 

[mako shark]

Might have impacted my sex life and relationships but it has never impacted anything else that I'm aware of.

 

[Shining]

I've found it's less the dick, since I'm a grower over a shower, but more the balls; I have some pretty big ones and they always get in the way

Having a big dick is nice though, if not just for the comments from my partner.

 

[LilJock]

lol, I don't think the poll shows anything different. That is to say, just because the majority of respondents felt comfortable simply answering the poll without posting their views doesn't invalidate the words and perspectives of those that did.

I agree. My thoughts were in response to the poll results themselves and comments I've heard over the years, not to any of the previous posts. I was writing blind you might say, just looking at the poll. Many of the previous responses explained differences, partial or complete, with the prevailing trend, or explained where the binary nature of polls didn't allow for capturing the full range of their thoughts and opinions. I was not intending to invalidate anyone's viewpoint.

 

[Slothbear753]

I was average before. I have a mental satisfaction of now being above average though exercises (supposedly superiority complex if you will).

What was your routine?
Asking for a friend...

 

[lowhangers]

Big dick and balls. The balls are the problem.

 

[notN2pussy]

I didn’t realize I was hung until I started having sex with men. The couple girls I was with never said anything and we took things slow since they weren’t experienced either. The first guy I hooked up with (drunk and at a house party) let out a pretty loud “Fuck!” and I thought something was wrong. He just smiled and said “No, there is DEFINITELY nothing wrong” and proceeded to suck me dry lol. A lot of dudes my age didn’t want to get fucked by me so I found some older guys that did and they taught me everything.

Like the previous poster said, a big dick isn’t gonna get you a job, win the lottery, or do your taxes but when you realize that you have something a lot of guys and girls want; it gives you a certain confidence. It’s just part of your body and there’s no shame in hiding it.

The only negative is that when someone finds out you’re hung and you become a human dildo for them and they think that’s all you bring to the table. Or worse, that your not as big as the last guy they were with. It sucks and can bring up a lot of self esteem issues and lead to performance anxiety (The worst six months of my life! I was a fucking mess). You have to realize that you are more than your dick.

Yes being hung is nice but it’s a bonus, not the whole deal.

It’s just a great bonus.

Very Well Said

 

[HorseHung40's]

Because society values a big penis on men, having one is preferred to not having one.

In my case, it has been easy to find very willing sex partners, some of whom have been very generous. It also is a source of overall confidence.

 

[creek47]

Because society values a big penis on men, having one is preferred to not having one.

In my case, it has been easy to find very willing sex partners, some of whom have been very generous. It also is a source of overall confidence.

Well said and I believe this is true