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wranglersRbad: Has anyone had this problem? And how do you deal with it? I am 17&1/4 inches long and 11&1/2 inches around, the problem is this: Because of the size, I can rarely get a full erection during sex. This means that I am not very stiff and have a real hard time stuffing a somewhat limp penis (head is about the size of a softball) into a hole the size of a lime? When I do rarely get a full erection, we can almost never get it in anyway. For now, my wife and I just spend alot of time "fooling around". :-X
 
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bif5x5: Welcome to the LPSG, WranglersRbad. Your problems are exactly why this board went from being a practical joke to a very welcome place to come for help.

I make my own cock ring out of a strong, yet soft piece of cloth. A handkerchief works best for me.

Most of the time I tie it between my ball sack and my body. But I always use a bow tie so the pressure can easily and quickly be released.
 

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Wranger, I'd start with a complete physical, then I'd take the results to a good urologist.

Any number of things besides size could be causing a less-than-rock-hard erection. High cholesterol, smoking, alcohol consumption, medications or even an easily-corrected medical problem could be the cause.

For your own peace of mind (as well as your wife's) get yourself checked out. You'll be glad you did.
 
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hung: Also, look lower on this page. Under "The Healthy Penis" Someone recently posted about erections and colestrol. I sincerely believe there is a real connection with healthy hearts and blood vessels and a firm, fighting ready, erect penis. In my own case, the Lipidor has helped me achieve a much firmer erection. About five years ago, I even purchased one of these "Rejoin" plastic sleaves that wrapped around the base of the penis and a very small strap that buckled behind the balls. Of course you were encouraged to wear a condom so that the whole device would slide in. Needless to say this was a turn-off during sex; however it did enable me to be relatively firm.

Now, after becoming more heart healthy I can achieve an great erection and enter without any mechanical aids. In summary, see a doctor and get the assistance you certainly deserve. A healthy body allows one to enjoy the fun of life to the greatest extent possible. I am glad I visited my doctor and am on the road to maintaining a healthy heart.
 
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Donk: I was the one who started the cholesterol thread and can confirm that this could certainly be a factor.

But, is it just me, or does anyone else think that it might be even more difficult to stuff a fully erect 11.5" girth penis into a human vagina? Not to be a wet blanket, wranglers, but just saying you (and your wife) might want to be careful what you wish for because it might come true.
 
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Jimbo: Wrangler:

It appears that huge dicks such as yours can be more prone to erectile dysfunction at a more accelerated rate as we age.  I recently was in contact with a early 30's year old LPSG'er over 13" who had been losing erectile strength since late his 20's and not because of any cholesterol,  low testosterone or other ancillary problem. As we age, the erectile tissues become less elastic and physical mechanisms responsible for erection may not able to create that state as easily as in our youth. This aging process can be more pronounced/severe in the unusually large all else being equal.

I once helped a man your size (also 30ish) but not quite as thick (about 10.5 around at his thickest) such that after we communicated about the severity of his problem was back to his full erectile capabilities by applying a regimen of manual exercises and a custom-made vacuum pump. The vacuum pump was applied with low suction just enough to force blood into his penis to bring it to full expansion, then the manual exercises were applied.  His doctors up to that time precribed Viagra and/or direct injections to the penis (Caverject?) but neither gave satisfactory results

Depending on the severity of  your problem, the exercises alone may do the trick as with the13+ guy who after a month was "back in the saddle".  

Rather than discuss specific details in this forum, send me a private message or an e-mail so i can understand your general state of health, what you have tried, the severity of your problem, etc. to determine if this approach will help you and assist in custom designing a program that will help you "get your groove back"  ;).
 
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gigantikok: You've just posted many topics about how you hardly can even fit into your wife when you are soft. Would u really WANT to become harder? It would just make it even more difficult to have sex for you :-/
 
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wranglersRbad: Jimbo
Good points. I am now 34. The person you were referring to...(the pump) where was he able to get a pump that size?
 
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Ineligible: By my calculations, making the (admittedly rough) assumption that a penis is a cylinder, the difference in volume between wranglersRbad's erect size (17.25" × 11.5") and his soft size (about 11" × 9.25") comes to 1.75 litres. (Please check my calculations.) By any standards, that's a lot of blood to find.
 
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Jimbo: Wranglers:

I sent you a private message.


Jimbo
 
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wranglersRbad: Ineligible
I think you have an idea of what part of the problem is. It takes alot to keep that much blood in my penis, and because foreplay has to take so long with us, I just start to lose the erection. I guess it really doesn't matter, either way it usually doesn't fit anyway. My wife just enjoys seeing my penis fully erect even if she can't use it :p
 
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bustyredhead: This might be an odd question, but do you ever get light-headed a little after you have a full hard-on? I suspect that you may just need to get your body more used to being hard, though it does sound like your wife's gonna be overwhelmed in any case.

- Nene (Says Keep It Up)
 
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wranglersRbad: You know I have been lightheaded more than once, but attributed it to heavy breathing ;)
 
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Jimbo: Wranglers:

I answered your private message, please check and acknowledge receipt. Thanks

Jimbo
 
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missvelvet03: [quote author=Ineligible link=board=sex;num=1059819687;start=0#8 date=08/02/03 at 19:46:43]By my calculations, making the (admittedly rough) assumption that a penis is a cylinder, the difference in volume between wranglersRbad's erect size (17.25" × 11.5") and his soft size (about 11" × 9.25") comes to 1.75 litres. (Please check my calculations.) By any standards, that's a lot of blood to find.[/quote]

hey ineligible, i got about the same results (my inner math geek coming out!) that IS a lot of blood -- 1.75 liters is almost 4 pints. the average human body contains only 8 pints of blood. losing 2 pints of blood will send the average person into shock...

xoxo,
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The penis is not just an empty tube that just fills up with blood. There is alot more inside it so your calculations need to be modified to reflect that. There are corpora cavernosa, corpus spongiosum and urethra that take up all the space in there. It is like a sponge.
 
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Ineligible: Of course that's true, but they are also present in the flaccid penis, and allowed for by subtraction of the flaccid volume from the erect volume. The only extra thing added to turn a flaccid penis into an erect one is blood, so the difference in volumes must be all blood.
 
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AnonyMs: Granted, I am not a math geek and did not read through the threads too closely but if you are going to be calculating volume, then, shouldn't the calculation be on the difference between flaccid and erect and not just erect? I am in shock thinking half of this man's blood is going into his penis at time of erection. It might be that he has a larger volume of blood just in general.
 
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7x6andchg: Well and if he has had the XL equipment all his life you're probably right, Nony. I mean, the same blood-needing cells are in there regardless of its turgidity...if they weren't getting at least SOME blood, they'd (cover your ears if you're squeamish) become gangrenous and die of necrosis. Wrangler - don't suppose you feel like taking some detailed measurements in the interest of science? :D

(Warned ya about that gangrene bit, btw.)

7x6&C
 
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Ineligible: [quote author=AnonyMs link=board=sex;num=1059819687;start=0#17 date=08/05/03 at 17:22:48]. . . if you are going to be calculating volume, then, shouldn't the calculation be on the difference between flaccid and erect and not just erect?[/quote]
That's what I did.