With regards to size I have seen all kinds of individuals who were gifted with something extra. If the size increase took place early some kids are just as merciless with making fun of or creating a disaster with the monster dicked kid as they are with the one entering puberty very late. It can go either way.
I do not believe that the real word is respect. A better term might be mental exploration for most. It does not really matter what size we are, most of us at times fantasize what it would be like to be a great deal larger. When we encounter a male in our own age group who is, we wonder what is different about his life because of this factor than our own. We as a general rule do not know if he has an advantage, but we fantasize and wonder if he really does.
I was staying at a KOA when I was about 17-years-old back in the late 1960's. I was in Salt Lake City, Utah at the time on a family vacation. I was using a public shower at that campground rather than filling the holding tank of the RV we were in. A blonde haired blue eyed kid who was within two years of my own age came in, peeled off his shorts and totally by accident I saw the largest phallus I have seen to this day. This was the "elephants trunk" type and hung down over half way to the kid's knees. He was my height, the penis was uncut and the foreskin was partially over the head. The testicles were large enough to make mine look small and mine are well above average. This was the largest set of genitals I had ever seen at age 17 and I remember this well to this day. My thoughts were all relating to the differences in sensation he would have compared to me in different acts. I did not really think of it as jealousy, or envy, I thought of it more as curiosity at the time. If he had approached me I would have at that age probably been embarrassed.
This young fellow did not earn any respect simply by the result of a genetic anamoly that gave him something that maybe one in 10,000 men have. He did not earn respect, he just simply peaked curiosity in a manner making any discussion at minimum awkward or weird.
I could never have questioned this fellow about his experiences simply because I would not know what to say.
This is in fact what most experinece, but are not easily able to place into words. It simply makes people different and diverse in a manner in which few of us are able to question or verbalize and not sound very strange.
Something did change. Respect really is the best word. It's not unlike the respect given to people who are very tall, or naturally athletic in bodyshape. Or who have a totally natural aptitude for a particular sport without doing any real training. Or being able to sing well in a local band. Many of these things come without the need for training (like having a big cock!!) but inspire respect. Because they are attractive to the opposite sex, I suppose. Although I do not have a really big erect cock (it's bigger than average at around 7.5), my soft penis has always hung about the same length, so it always appeared that I had some awesome endowment in comparison with most of the others. In sports situations at school I was treated almost like a freak, as if I was hung like an elephant, and because no-one saw me erect, they assumed I must have a hardon about a foot long. In fact it got so ridiculous that the boys went round telling the girls I was a foot long and I cannot tell you how often I was hit on in subsequent months.
