Bigger man equals using toys less?
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Ehhh...dunno. I'm the biggest my gf's ever had, and she plays with her toys more than she did with any previous man. Then again, her ex bfs were very controlling and never let her masturbate, view porn, or allow her to get herself off.
I thought that was pretty awful, and went right out and bought her a 'steely dan' vibrator for when I'm not there, too tired to fuck, or wanting to watch her use it.
I hate repression though. Let me say it again, I hate repression, I hate repression, I hate repression!
I thought that was pretty awful, and went right out and bought her a 'steely dan' vibrator for when I'm not there, too tired to fuck, or wanting to watch her use it.
I hate repression though. Let me say it again, I hate repression, I hate repression, I hate repression!
Short answer: no
Longer answer: Sex with a man; sex with yourself (with or without toys); sex with a woman (with or without toys) are three entirely different things. All needed, all good in and of themselves, all what I always have done and will continue to do.
Longer answer: Sex with a man; sex with yourself (with or without toys); sex with a woman (with or without toys) are three entirely different things. All needed, all good in and of themselves, all what I always have done and will continue to do.
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While we were together and ex of mine started using toys because some times she said she was too tired for "me" at the time. What she meant by this is that it was more work dealing with my size than just using a toy that was around 5 or 6 inches. I was the biggest she ever had and her body was built more for an average or smaller guy. So I guess in tht case toy usage increased because I was big.
Definitely sounds right, personaly speaking, my wife just got into toys with me, and her fantasy is not always as mine (seeing her taking a big one.. more then mine). For her its more of the 'whatever fits perfectly and comfortably'.
Whatever works for her is best for me.
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Yes, toys are used differantly but I usually find that when I am with a large men I crave large toys. When I am with smaller guys then I would not want the large toy because I would know what I was missing.
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I'm one of the biggest my gf has had (not the longest, but fattest) and I love it when she plays with her toys and masturbates. I encourage it! We layed in bed one night and I watched her play with her vibe while I played with her tits. It was so fascinating and fucking sexy to watch her play! I am larger than her vibrator, so I know it's not the case of me not being enough. We are very sexual and love exploring our sexuality and playing together.
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I've had two BFs who were threatened by the one dildo I had at the time because it was larger than their endowment. One so much so that he insisted I throw it away.
I'd say that being with a larger endowed man would be likely to free a woman to use her toys. They'd be less likely to find it threatening or intimidating.
Plus, on the sensation side of things, there wouldn't be a loss going from a larger toy to the real thing.
I can't speak to the idea of a woman dating a well endowed guy but using an outrageously sized dildo.
I'd say that being with a larger endowed man would be likely to free a woman to use her toys. They'd be less likely to find it threatening or intimidating.
Plus, on the sensation side of things, there wouldn't be a loss going from a larger toy to the real thing.
I can't speak to the idea of a woman dating a well endowed guy but using an outrageously sized dildo.
D_Marazion Analdouche
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Or just make one of the "clone-a-willy" kits and be done with it.
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Yes i have to say that i use toys because i enjoy the way they feel, perhaps if i found a guy whos cock could vibrate then i may consider stopping.
- Kat,
I don't think so. My husband is extremely large and I love using toys. All of mine are dildos which are similar in size to him. I have a lot of stamina when it comes to sex (much more than my husband) so we use them initially and when I start getting near the end...he takes me. That is always the best since no matter how realistic the toy, nothing compares to his cock!
kat
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I agree with Kat. My BF may be the largest I've been with and sex with him is awesome. Once in a while it's fun to include toys but I ALWAYS want his cock! I very seldom enjoy using toys alone - I'd rather use them to play together.
D_Marazion Analdouche
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Does a guy stop masturbating because he has a girlfriend? :biggrin1:
I have a hard enough time not putting my hand on top of hers and taking over never mind not masturbating :tongue:
I kid, I kid..........kinda.
