Bigger penis = more success

Do you think, in general, that confident, successful men have bigger penises?


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I would first require that the word "success" be defined precisely.

Is it happiness?
Longevity?
Money in bank?
Number of sex partners?
Number of times found innocent of sexual assault?
Escapes from high school detention?
 
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Success and confidence are not tied to the size of your penis.

Look at Napoleon.

Or..just about any other person in history. I've known people that were loud and proud about their large cock size, who were financially unsuccessful, and humble guys with average cocks who were in the 1% of society.

It's nice to have a large cock, but it won't help you make it in life. It isn't a Golden Key.
 

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This is extremely subjective and very opinion based.

My personal opinion is, that penis size can effect your overall success in life. But, this also depends on where you are. It also depends on your overall opinion of your self worth.

I can only speak for the USA. We have saturated the media with what the expectations for men are. I can't speak for other countries because I haven't left mine. But our culture revolves around sex sells. Women want size. Men want size. Does this apply to all, no, but it applies to what the media imposes upon us.

I am not sure if there are statistics, but I have a gift for observation.

Penis size effects confidence. This does not apply to everyone, but, think about Big Dick Energy. I have a coworker who has confessed he is pretty hung. He has a strut and confidence and is able to move through life with ease. He's a nice guy with little arrogance. He has ambition and I know he will succeed in his endeavors. I have met men who have average (statistical average 5.5" roughly) and some under average that over compensate. They create an exaggerated image of who they would rather be instead of embracing who they truly are.

I can speak from personal experience. I am half Korean. I am just above statistical average. I have HORRIBLE self esteem. I have little to no confidence because I grew up closeted and exposed myself to whatever gay culture I could. Back then when I was discovering myself, most of my outlets were gay porn. It created a warped sense of what was desired over what was realistic. I grew up thinking I would never be adequate for a future partner because I didn't match what was in the media. I eventually learned to do my research and listen to fact over fantasy... But the damage was done. I've spent the last 5 years working to boost my confidence. I have self image issues and little confidence in my success. I can say with confidence that I have skills, and natural skills that make me successful, but because of my poor self esteem, I cannot achieve the success I have the potential for. I am working to change this. But, I grew up thinking that, because I didn't have noticeable muscle, or a large member, that I would not be desired.

Basically, my success was hindered because I grew up with a warped sense of reality. It impacted my confidence which effected my success.

Now, I am not saying that all the successful men have large dicks. But those who are successful, but humble and confident, exude big dick energy and typically possess one. There are men who are successful, because they recognized their talents and because confident in that instead of using a personality to achieve success.

This subject is a never ending circle. Without sufficient research, this is all a matter of observation and opinion.
 
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Women want size. Men want size. Does this apply to all, no, but it applies to what the media imposes upon us.

No. Even on a site like this one, no. Not even as a generalization. Only as a generally unfounded, shitty stereotype where you believe tropes that pop culture pokes fun at is that anything resembling a truth. The same way one could say all Asians are good at math but bad at driving. The same way one could say all black people like fried chicken. : unamused:

Penis size relating to success? I would say an emphatic no. Confidence and assertiveness having a correlation to success? Yes. Whether you're someone that derives confidence or assertiveness from something like the natural size of a random part of your anatomy, that's another thing entirely. Out of the most self-assured men I have known, one had a micro-penis. An actual, genuine, micro-penis.
 

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My answer is a resounding NO. Unless you are a sex worker/porn star where that is specifically desired/sought after.

In NORMAL, every day life, who the fuck is gonna know what you are packing? Unless you somehow manage to exhibit it/show it. Otherwise, in the REAL world, nope. Doesn't matter. One iota.

I swear this site needs a separate forum for these seemingly SPH-themed threads. How many ways can the same basic question/statement be posed? Sheesh!
 

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No. Even on a site like this one, no. Not even as a generalization. Only as a generally unfounded, shitty stereotype where you believe tropes that pop culture pokes fun at is that anything resembling a truth. The same way one could say all Asians are good at math but bad at driving. The same way one could say all black people like fried chicken. : unamused:

Penis size relating to success? I would say an emphatic no. Confidence and assertiveness having a correlation to success? Yes. Whether you're someone that derives confidence or assertiveness from something like the natural size of a random part of your anatomy, that's another thing entirely. Out of the most self-assured men I have known, one had a micro-penis. An actual, genuine, micro-penis.

My question to you Fade is this. Did you read my post? You have taken something out of context and are expanding upon it. I can only speak on my experiences in the USA. Our culture is heavily influenced on media, on stereotypes, and what is fed to us.

You are entitled to your opinion, but you chose to take one statement from a greater whole to make your point. I have explicitly stated I can only speak from my experience living in the USA.
 
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My question to you Fade is this. Did you read my post? You have taken something out of context and are expanding upon it. I can only speak on my experiences in the USA. Our culture is heavily influenced on media, on stereotypes, and what is fed to us.

You are entitled to your opinion, but you chose to take one statement from a greater whole to make your point. I have explicitly stated I can only speak from my experience living in the USA.

Yes, I read your post. You're speaking as to what women want, as if tropes that pop culture pokes fun at is how people as a whole actually are. By that logic, you also believe the majority or all Asian people are bad drivers, the majority or all black people like fried chicken, that the majority or all gay men are queens, etc.

I'm not saying that media doesn't try to force stupid bullshit down people's throats, but that doesn't mean that all or the majority of people buy into it. Apparently you do, at least to an extent, and that's fine. You do you. That doesn't mean everyone or even the majority does. I'm in the USA as well, I just think it's bullshit that the site makes individuals list their location publicly, and after talking with the site owner about it I decided "fuck it, I'll put a random location".

Edited to add: I'll leave it at the above, as I don't want to derail the OP's thread further.
 

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Yes, I read your post. You're speaking as to what women want, as if tropes that pop culture pokes fun at is how people as a whole actually are. By that logic, you also believe the majority or all Asian people are bad drivers, the majority or all black people like fried chicken, that the majority or all gay men are queens, etc.

I'm not saying that media doesn't try to force stupid bullshit down people's throats, but that doesn't mean that all or the majority of people buy into it. Apparently you do, at least to an extent, and that's fine. You do you. That doesn't mean everyone or even the majority does. I'm in the USA as well, I just think it's bullshit that the site makes individuals list their location publicly, and after talking with the site owner about it I decided "fuck it, I'll put a random location".

Edited to add: I'll leave it at the above, as I don't want to derail the OP's thread further.

I would never actively speak for what a woman wants please understand that. My statement is based on what the media is making us think women want. Do I believe this? No. But I do believe a great number of our populace blindly follows what the media shoves down our throats. I embrace the stereotypes only when it applies to my life personally. (I am asian, I suck at driving, but I am excellent at math and video games) I have personally met successful big dicked men, who had so much confidence and arrogance I wanted to puke. Sadly, the ratio of successful to unsuccessful men (that I have met) leans heavily to the former from just my experience. This is what I can base my opinion on. Can my opinion change, of course! Not all experiences are universal. As we can clearly see, you have had a different experience than I have and that is wonderful. All we can do is express our opinion on this subject because there is no scientific evidence to support this claim on either sides. We can only go off of personal experiences.
 

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Success and confidence are not tied to the size of your penis.

Look at Napoleon.

Or..just about any other person in history. I've known people that were loud and proud about their large cock size, who were financially unsuccessful, and humble guys with average cocks who were in the 1% of society.

It's nice to have a large cock, but it won't help you make it in life. It isn't a Golden Key.

Do you know something about Napoleon that the rest of us don't? I've never heard anything regarding the size of his penis, and supposedly the idea of him being short isn't really accurate and he was actually above average height for the time.

I agree with everything else you've said, though.
 
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Do you know something about Napoleon that the rest of us don't? I've never heard anything regarding the size of his penis, and supposedly the idea of him being short aren't really accurate and he was actually above average height for the time.
The doctor performing Napoleon's autopsy when he died on St. Helena described his genitals as being abnormally small. This is rebutted in memoirs of his aides/marshals that he often appeared naked before his soldiers. No mention is made in these of his having a small cock; it's felt Napoleon wouldn't have done so if he were poorly endowed.

It's been frequently reported that his penis was preserved after death and is now in the possession of a private collector. It is described by the few who've seen it as resembling a small sliver of skin. Whether this is actually his preserved penis has been a matter of some dispute, just as the preserved penis of Rasputin in the museum in Reykjavik, Iceland.

Monica Lewinsky described Bill Clinton's penis as resembling a thumb, and Stormy Daniels recounted Donald Trump's in unflattering terms. Obviously, in their cases, size had little to do with success. The only discernible common denominator for them would seem that a small penis could lead to impeachment?
 

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Just going by my personal experience with big dicked men, nope. They weren’t really that successful. In fact the biggest dick guy I knew expected me to support him.

Most guys are average, so wouldn’t it be that that it’s more likely that most successful men are average? I’ve slept with some very successful men, too. They didn’t seem to be any more endowed than anyone else.

I think it depends on where you get your confidence from - your intelligence, your business acumen, your ability to build relationships, your ability to read people, etc. I find that people whose confidence is purely based on physical attributes might not be all that successful in the long term. Looks fade and it’s expensive to maintain. Penis size? You’re really the only one who cares. If it gives you confidence, good for you, but you better be smart, and good at your job to earn my respect if you’re the head of my division.
 

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Just going by my personal experience with big dicked men, nope. They weren’t really that successful. In fact the biggest dick guy I knew expected me to support him.

Most guys are average, so wouldn’t it be that that it’s more likely that most successful men are average? I’ve slept with some very successful men, too. They didn’t seem to be any more endowed than anyone else.

I think it depends on where you get your confidence from - your intelligence, your business acumen, your ability to build relationships, your ability to read people, etc. I find that people whose confidence is purely based on physical attributes might not be all that successful in the long term. Looks fade and it’s expensive to maintain. Penis size? You’re really the only one who cares. If it gives you confidence, good for you, but you better be smart, and good at your job to earn my respect if you’re the head of my division.

I think any hung stud who isn't a success doesn't want to be a success. Do you remember when I stuffed my pants? I know that story ended tragically, but started out wonderfully. I wouldn't be where I am today without that bulge.

If your ex had put in the most basic amount of effort he could have been a millionaire with ten years or less with no more effort than your regular McDonald's employee. That is the power of a big penis.
 
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I think it's the other way around.
Hung men have one less thing to with about, and in Western culture it's one significant thing.
So that gives a boost for their ego which translates to being more confident.
That in turn probably has some positive correlation to success, but in truth you need skills most of all.
 
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