Bigger Than Big

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by vrod, Jun 8, 2007.

  1. vrod

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    If we move away from the smaller vs. bigger in regard to penis size, let's ask the fundamental question about what is to big to insert inside a woman (practical or pleasurable).

    What is everyone's experience? My girlfriend quite likes it when I fist her, but she can't accommodate it all the time.
     
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    Hmm...

    'Fisting' - I just don't get.

    Do you have small hands?
     
  3. danerain

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    Some people like to feel full
     
  4. vrod

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    No, I can't fuck her with my hand the way I do with my cock. In fact it is such that is wedges into her pussy with a lot of force. She almost looks uncomfortable or somewhat in pain, but she really gets off on it.
     
  5. Mr. Snakey

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    Being a lover of the big vagina. Another member sent me a video of a woman with a soda bottle. she was able to take the whole bottle. Hot and amazing video.:smile:
     
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    Everybody is different so there is no right answer, I've been fisted before and didn't really enjoy it, width is NOT what gets me going, it actually hurts, I like length and lots of it.

    A long dildo 10 - 12 inches and about 6" in girth is the most pleasurable for me, outside of a real penis.
     
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    First of all, I'm a small girl. 5'4" and very petite. There seems to be some kind of stigma attached to the bi/lesbian culture in the south that we all love huge rods in our pussies, so I've had some huge dildos before - 14" or more and as thick as my arm, and they are honestly too big. I think there is a difference, though, between inanimate objects and penises - that's too big for me as a dildo and I'm not a big fan of fisting (or many of the other large toys), but my boyfriend's penis (over 10" and very thick) feels absolutely amazing. I don't know whether it's the emotional aspect of having a person attached to it or the motion that it takes, but (and if you know someone this big, please let me know) I think even a 14" penis would feel better than a 14" dildo.
     
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    I don't think hands are inanimate or toys.
     
  9. B_spiker067

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    I'm suspicious of women who talk about astronomical size needs. I'm just glad I've never met one let alone fallen for one.:cool:

    Deep down I'm insecure.:tongue:
     
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    my fists are 14 inches around,it would take a horse pussy to accomodate,something that size.
     
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    I don't wanna hear more.
     
  12. va_lk_yr_ie

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    Let's move away from astronomical figures for a while and into the realm of reality shall we?

    For my own part - up to slightly less than 8.5" in length I can take after a bit of warm-up and getting used to it. That does not mean a guy of that size will just slide right in to the hilt upon entry - it takes a little while for the muscles down there to relax enough to accept the full length. I know that sex with guys of that length can feel just a bit uncomfortable when it comes to hard thrusting - I am pretty much filled up with what I can take there. I would assume that much more length than that would be a bit too much for me personally.

    In girth - up to 6" is nice, enjoyable and gives a really nice, full feeling. Again here - the closer you move to the 6" mark, the slower initial entry has to be - that's not a small girth to play around with. A bit more than that and we're moving into slightly painful territory, at least initially, and with more than a probable risk that I will be quite sore afterwards - especially with condoms involved as the friction increases. Moving up towards the 6.5" mark and it's likely that it will hurt just a bit too much to actually have sex for any longer period of time, if even possible that day. Depends on level of arousal and exactly where that girth is located - closer to base, will likely work for at least a bit; closer to the head or just below, bigger chances of it not working.
     
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    My friend Cali has a dildo slightly smaller then me, and always complains about having trouble with it. Yet with me, theres never been any problem with sex. I dunno, maybe the thought of it being a real person and not plastics/rubber might help improve the sensation?
     
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    Might also be the fact that a penis can bend more easily than a hard plastic dildo. Also the penis is very warm while a plastic dildo is not.
    MK
     
  15. Elmer Gantry

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    I find this problem with most women. The head of my penis is a good 6.5 inch girth and the shaft isn't much smaller. As a result, most can only tolerate sex once a day at best followed by recovery.

    If they can deal with it at all. Their have been a couple of girls in the past who couldn't, despite copious amounts of lube and play. I didn't realise my girth was the problem at the time as th ethought of it being "too big" didn't enter my mind. Mostly because I'm pretty average in length.
     
  16. flingmeinak

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    I hear ya. This is actually one of the reasons why I signed on here. I'm dating again after 5+ years in a serious relationship and very little sex before that (mostly handjobs in college).

    All 3 girls I've been with in last 2-3 months have had problems (light to medium bleeding) 2-3 hours later. My girlfriend (eh ex-) never had a problem with going all night like a lumberjack and we would get pretty rough but I'm a little freaked out. I'm pretty average length (maybe a little more) but I'm thick (let's just leave it at that) and appearently I'm in the grower catagory.

    I'm a nice guy that really digs foreplay and sweet sex but the young ladies I've hookedup with recently just want to get pounded and might be "writing checks they can't cash" I used lube the last time but that just numbed me up and didnt seem to make a difference for them.

    They were 1 night stands from the bar to get back in the swing of things but I'm looking for something more steady and I'd prefer to not send her to the OB-GYN every time. Ideas?

    I never considered myself big even though I've heard it before (doesnt everyone's girlfriend say that :) ) but I'm 5'10 200#+ (a big guy) so everything seems proportioned. And I only get really big when I'm hard - dah.

    It may just be talk here but lots of the self admitted size queens are talking bout 1/2 foot wide dildos, fisting, and doubling up so ... what's the secret for giving thick and not needing crutches the next day?
     
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    When we see guys on here claiming to have 13 and 14 inches we treat it with the suspicion it deserves, I tend to treat women claiming to be able to take 13 and 14 inches the same way.
     
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