Biggest Age difference?

lapdog2001

Worshipped Member
Gold
Platinum Gold
Joined
Jun 30, 2004
Posts
5,613
Media
15
Likes
13,166
Points
643
Location
Massachusetts (United States)
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Remember to keep all responses to encounter that happened when all parties were 18+ years old!

The largest age gap for me was around 10-15 years when I had some hookup type encounters in-between relationships. As for relationships, the women have been my age or a few years younger. I did have one where there was a 7 year gap, where she was 24. We just 'clicked' and we were both young enough where the gap really wasn't noticeable to most people.
 

derf3

Loved Member
Joined
Feb 19, 2023
Posts
151
Media
0
Likes
558
Points
178
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Honestly, I've always been very attracted to women that are 20-30 years my senior, though it's never gone anywhere ever. Even in my 40's. :'0(

It might sound like famous last words, but: I feel like society has largely brainwashed women into thinking they aren't somehow allowed to date younger guys. I always get the same lines. It really sucks.
 

fuzzyis

Cherished Member
Verified
Gold
Joined
Dec 31, 2023
Posts
60
Media
125
Likes
441
Points
153
Verification
View
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
Honestly, I've always been very attracted to women that are 20-30 years my senior, though it's never gone anywhere ever. Even in my 40's. :'0(

It might sound like famous last words, but: I feel like society has largely brainwashed women into thinking they aren't somehow allowed to date younger guys. I always get the same lines. It really sucks.
If only....
Maybe it's just me....
I'm strongly attracted to women in their mid 40s to late 50s. And all I ever hear is how what they really want is a younger man.
"If only you were younger"
It seems to boil down to chronology. I don't think I look that 'old', and given the opportunity, I don't function like I'm that old. If they know me, I'm not about to have a heart attack on them in the middle of .....
But there's something about an age number. That really bugs me because I'll turn 70 later this year, and I expect the attitude will only get worse.
 
Last edited:

derf3

Loved Member
Joined
Feb 19, 2023
Posts
151
Media
0
Likes
558
Points
178
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
If only....
Maybe it's just me....
I'm strongly attracted to women in their mid 40s to late 50s. And all I ever hear is how what they really want is a younger man.
"If only you were younger"
It seems to boil down to chronology. I don't think I look that 'old', and given the opportunity, I don't function like I'm that old. If they know me, I'm not about to have a heart attack on them in the middle of .....
But there's something about an age number. That really bugs me because I'll turn 70 later this year, and I expect the attitude will only get worse.
Maybe people (and in this case I'm referring to older women) just look for excuses not to be happy. They're still comfortable somehow--with the devil they know.

It's counterintuitive, certainly. However, I've fallen victim to other's self-sabotage about 4 or 5 times in my life to this point, and I'm really don't mind saying that I'm sick of it.

When I was 26, I was too young.
When I was 30, I was too young.
When I was 40, I was too young.
And now I'm in my mid-40's, and I'm still too young. To have a serious, committed relationship.

I'm freaking grey haired and balding! :) But I'm still too young!

Eventually, I do expect what will happen is exactly what you're saying; that the excuse will suddenly turn on its own head. I'll be too old, in someone's eyes; or precluded for some other reason (so-called).

Because when people aren't using a number against me, they are blaming God, or citing some illogical religious conviction.

Granted: humans are complicated. But they also don't mind hurting other people, just to maintain the normalcy of their life.

Maybe misery is just good and reliable; it's predictable.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Nemorex