Biggest turnoff (men)

A man who doesn’t take personal pride in his appearance. An unkempt mess.

Doesn’t have to be a gym rat or look like he stepped off a magazine cover but just a man who gives a shit about how he presents himself to the world.
 
I may catch some grief for this but not really interested in guys who have more feminine traits. I'm not a lumberjack by any means but part of my attraction to men are traits that are typically associated with masculinity. A couple of months ago I had a few dates with a guy who wore women's underwear. I don't think there is anything wrong with it but when I saw him in a pair of black silk panties it was just a turn off.
 
"sexy underwear" makes me cringe. This because when you are sexy, even sloppy briefs will not make you less sexy. But when you are not so attractive, wearing premium brand "sexy underwear" only highlights the sorry state. Spare the money for Aussiebums, Andrew Christians and the whole bang. It will definitely not make you sexy when you are not sexy.
 
First and foremost, bad oral hygiene. I don’t care if you’ve got a messed up grill, as long as it’s kept clean, and your breath doesn’t smell like a poop sandwich, I’m good. Also not a fan of body shaving of any sort. Naturally smooth is fine, but if you’ve got hair, leave it there. And wearing women’s panties is fine for some people, just. It for me.
 
"sexy underwear" makes me cringe. This because when you are sexy, even sloppy briefs will not make you less sexy. But when you are not so attractive, wearing premium brand "sexy underwear" only highlights the sorry state. Spare the money for Aussiebums, Andrew Christians and the whole bang. It will definitely not make you sexy when you are not sexy.

:-( damn. i look good in gregg homme leather boxers though.
 
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Beards turn me off big time .

I got dimmed by a bearded guy once and it was torture - the most uncomfortable feeling - I don’t ever want some harsh bristly beard near my most sensitive areas ever again !

Felt like a Brillo pad , I was sore after .

Also tight briefs, panties and thongs - a dick needs to breathe - I don’t like sweaty junk .
 
Beards turn me off big time .

I got dimmed by a bearded guy once and it was torture - the most uncomfortable feeling - I don’t ever want some harsh bristly beard near my most sensitive areas ever again !

Felt like a Brillo pad , I was sore after .

Also tight briefs, panties and thongs - a dick needs to breathe - I don’t like sweaty junk .
Well, tastes are different, I mean the exact opposite. A beard can be a very big stimulation when getting rimmed. Maybe in your case that beard was too scruffy. You should try it again sometimes, Have fun anyway! Cheers Ted
 
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