Biggish dick causes your woman pain?

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Hi all,

I recently got married and have a fairly large penis. Whilst the sex is great, sometimes if I go too far in, I seem to cause my wife some pain - I'm no expert on anatomy but basically she says it feels like I hit the "end".

How do you other big guys deal with it? Anything to do other than just resorting to dipping my dick only and not going all the way in?

MSN me at chrimbo7.5 at hotmail.com or reply here.

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hey Bro,move slow and FuCk that ASS.

Great advice...im sure it will make a huge difference-
Like the brilliant advice of "use lube" when it hurts to penetrate a woman. Like we havent seen KY commercials before or something.
 

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hey Bro,move slow and FuCk that ASS.

Being more constructive, it could be a number of things.

It could be you're not giving her enough time to tent out inside so she can accomadate all of you, in which case you really need to devlope your foreplay skills.

She 'physically' need to be seriously aroused before you jump in there.

http://student.bmj.com/issues/00/01/papers/images/sex2.jpg

This x-ray photo shows how a big cock fits in your average muff.

If you're a big lad, and you are bottoming out even when shes completley aroused and tented, then it could be your misses is a small muffed women.

Just like big and small cocks there are deeper and shallower minges, so she may be trying to accomadate something bigger than she was designed to.

Having said that, the vagina has an amazing stretching quality to it. Woman give birth to babies for Chirst sake, so your average snatch has to have some give in it, lol.

It could just be you need to take time and slowly 'stretch' her out so you fit better, but you will have to ask some of the bigger str8 lads for help on that one.

If all else fails, go for the arse, lol.
 

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If your standard wangs about 6x5, 8x6 is big mate, its's BIG!

Well, errr, thank you :)

Don't get me wrong... after years of showering at school and the gym, plus the fact I've stayed in a lot of guys' rooms in youth hostels, means I know I'm a little bigger than average.

But not exactly a porn star either!
 

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Experiment with positions that make you feel like you are going deep when you are not. I find missonary with straight legs good, it gives lots of clitoral stimulation too.

from my point of view a big dick banging hard against the cirvix is not good, but the base of a big dick against your clit is amazing.
 

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Experiment with positions that make you feel like you are going deep when you are not. I find missonary with straight legs good, it gives lots of clitoral stimulation too.

from my point of view a big dick banging hard against the cirvix is not good, but the base of a big dick against your clit is amazing.

Thanks... that does sounds like really good adivce...
 

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Vagina - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

This might help, if not, peraps one of the bigger str8 lads or even the ladies will help.

They all look like the face hugger from alien to me, lol.

Actually, that is the porn star range. What, you think many are bigger?

Post a photo, you'll soon see. It sound beautiful.

Anyways, hope I've been of some help.
 

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Vagina - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

This might help, if not, peraps one of the bigger str8 lads or even the ladies will help.

They all look like the face hugger from alien to me, lol.

Actually, that is the porn star range. What, you think many are bigger?

Post a photo, you'll soon see. It sound beautiful.

Anyways, hope I've been of some help.

OK, enough about my schlong anyway :smile: Thanks for the link and info.

If there are any biggish str8 guys here (which, given the name of the forum I'm guessing is quite likely!) pls let me know your tips too... or MSN me on chrimbo7.5 at hotmail.com
 

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I am a petite woman at about 155 cm or 5'1" (and a half :p), and my husband is too big for me. It doesn't hurt me *usually* when he goes in as deep as he can, but perhaps that is because I am so aroused. He can't fit more than half in me without hurting himself, though. His glans gets sore.

He is not going to ever get any deeper, so he wears a cock ring at the base. He says it gives the sensation that he has pushed all the way in, since there is a gripping sensation from the ring.

When I get that kind of burning soreness from his girth, I spend some time sucking him so I can spread saliva on him, and also work around my own wetness that has collected on the part of his penis that doesn't go into me. It gives my pussy a rest, gives him a lot of pleasure to his whole cock, and excites me because I love sucking him. Then he goes back in me :)

I should add that it took me about a year to get used to him and to learn how and when to make changes when the pain sets in. So, please be patient with your wife :)
 

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Yikes... have never worn a cock ring (or had the courage to buy one :). But it does sound it might be the best of both worlds!!

(Getting the impression I'm perhaps the least knowledgable/experienced person in the entire forum?? ;-)
 

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Being more constructive, it could be a number of things.

It could be you're not giving her enough time to tent out inside so she can accomadate all of you, in which case you really need to devlope your foreplay skills.

She 'physically' need to be seriously aroused before you jump in there.

http://student.bmj.com/issues/00/01/papers/images/sex2.jpg

This x-ray photo shows how a big cock fits in your average muff.

If you're a big lad, and you are bottoming out even when shes completley aroused and tented, then it could be your misses is a small muffed women.

Just like big and small cocks there are deeper and shallower minges, so she may be trying to accomadate something bigger than she was designed to.

Having said that, the vagina has an amazing stretching quality to it. Woman give birth to babies for Chirst sake, so your average snatch has to have some give in it, lol.

It could just be you need to take time and slowly 'stretch' her out so you fit better, but you will have to ask some of the bigger str8 lads for help on that one.

If all else fails, go for the arse, lol.

Welcome! This is a great site with a bunch of wonderful people. Stick around and read some of the forums and you will learn a lot. I see you're already getting great advice though.

Gosh Rugbypup, it sounds like you know your way around a vagina! A face hugger from aliens?:eek: What an apt description.:tongue:
Come ere and let me rub your tummy fur!
 

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Well, as someone once said, "A nice problem to have." But, fully understand where you are coming from. I am not the usual fxckxr in our relationship, and my partner is the very well-endowed person in our relationship. I used to have similar problems with accomodating his penis. We found that me getting on top and regulating the penetration really accentuated the experience for us both. Because I can now regulate how deep he goes, he gets further into 'downtown' because I can take him there in my time, not his deep plunge.

It also lets us add a few more positions to a repetoire that I have never achieved with other partners. Be open and communicative with her and stay open to her feelings, and I am sure your sex life will stay very VERy alive.

Good luck - and welcome to the group.