BigTopMen.com meetup - New York City

[BigTopMen]

Thanks to all of the guys who have come to see me on Sundays! Lots of good cock and hookups! Wooo Hooo!

I'm inviting guys who like to show off on camera to invite to some upcoming erotic photo and video shoots in New York City. I’m doing these shoots with guys who have big cocks and bottoms who can take big cocks. The shoots are for my sexparty website: welcome to bigtopmen.com - private events for HUNG gay & bi men


You don’t have to have your face in the photos or video clips. Guys who participate receive select photos and video clips from the shoots for your own use, and of course you can attend the allmaleparty.com and bigtopmen.com parties I host for free!

You may email me directly via my website: www.bigtopmen.com

To all of you fun guys on LPSG, you can also meet me in person at my weekly meetup – to either get your free invite to my parties or if you want to also show off on camera.

2009 is really gonna be the year of the orgy, that's for sure!

to the new members of www.allmaleparty.com and www.bigtopmen.com

WELCOME

to the current members ... looking forward to seeing you again!

The sunday hangout has been lots of fun, so i'm gonna continue it and see where it goes... The location has been really fun to work with, and the guys love it (im guessing it's the cheap drinks LOL) Even though it's not a sexparty (it's a bar... no sex allowed at the bar), the guys have been enjoying all of this:

HORNY GUYS !!!
hang out, drink, flirt, makeout and cruise!
it's been a fun mix of new horny guys who will be coming to the parties,
... some guys who will be filming some porn for our new filmed parties
... and some party regulars who love being around sexy guys!

CHEAP DRINKS !!!
its $3 drinks / $2 beers all night from 10pm - closing!
horny guys and cheap booze! what a combo LOL

ENJOY SOME FUN RETRO TELEVISION AT 11:30pm...
... they now show episodes of the Golden Girls, Love Boat, and Dynasty!

THE NEXT HANGOUT IS:
DATE: EVERY SUNDAY (until further notice)
TIME: 10pm - 2am
LOCATION: section * 8
ADDRESS: 218 Avenue A (between 13th and 14th streets) / New York, NY (in the East Village)

STOP BY AND SAY HI or you can also signup for membership or renew your membership (if you are already a regular member)

if you're coming to see me about the parties, be sure to ask the bartender for Mr G.

i will be there from 10pm - 2am



SEE YOU THERE!

 

[power.pac]

I noticed on the website that an appliction/joining fee applies. What fees apply for visitors from out of the country who would like to come to one or two of these parties whilst in town ? The annual fee seems a bit steep for one visit!

 

[eddyabs]

$350 dollars for a membership!! That's ridiculously steep. Also, your site claims that members of your sister site xxxmen.tv get free membership....unfortunately right now xxxmen.tv is a dead link.

So what exactly does one get for $350 when he turns up at one of your events?

Why bother paying when all you have to do is use gaydar, dudesnude or any of the numerous FREE websites that allow you to link up with other very well endowed dudes.

Also, why no pictures of any of the events on your site?

Sorry, but smells like spam to me.

 

[BigTopMen]

thanks for the interest in the parties guys!

to answer both queries... since you're not in nyc and can't meet up with me in person... i'm happy to answer your questions...

to power.pac - guys visiting from europe can attend FOR FREE. you still have to signup for a membership (as it's a private party), but its a free membership. you still have to fit the criteria to attend, but if you do, it's all good. (if you dont fit the criteria for the bigtopmen parties, you can attend the allmaleparty and it will still be lots of fun)


to eddy abs - $350 / 12 = $29.16 here in nyc, most parties are $30 at the door, this is just a membership that covers the full year.

both allmaleparty and bigtopmen events are monthly. they are not just ways to "hook up"... its a group sexparty. things like personal safety, safesex, personality, and sexual interests are all important to making a great group. the parties i do are 25 - 50 guys an event, depending on the theme, which can range from gangbang, bukkake, uncut, rimming, asian, redhead (those are the ones set up for 2009 at this point), and of course some regular good old fucking and sucking....

(just to give you a barometer, the str8 swinger parties in NYC usually charge anywhere from $200 - $300 per couple, per night... there is one that charges $650 per couple for the night's party entry... and keep in mind that at most str8 swinger parties guys can't attend without a female)

since you're just looking for a one-on-one hookup, thats cool, you simply arent interested in a group thing. no big deal.

these are private members-only events. which is why the parties are NOT filmed. unless of course, you are looking to pose for some pix. i will be in the UK in april. just because you can't steal some free porn, doesnt mean it is immediately spam. the xxxmen.TV events are for guys who are interested in being on camera. also, you can note, that with a domain name like that... there are no popups that usually accompany that sort of thing...

ill even put up a page with your name on it to show you its real site... check it out... http://www.xxxmen.tv/hm/eauk09lpsg.html
say HI eddie!

of course, you didnt mention the site that IS up, and the main set of events...
www.allmaleparty.com

and if it was spam, this about this... there is no way to signup online for the parties.
all of those spam things require some sort of online signup.

these are private membership events, so it's all done in person, at the membership interview. several of the guys from LPSG have already met me, thats due to the fact that they actually live in New York City.

also, when guys email, they get my phone number to call directly.

this is how we run it, and it works just fine for us. if you dont get how it works, thats ok too. you dont have to attend.

feel free to ask me more questions, im happy to answer them... and for those who are interested in coming to the parties, i look forward to meeting you soon!

PS.. thanks for giving me the opportunity to answer these basic questions on the forum. most guys usually PVT message me, so i havent been able to address questions like this on LPSG yet..

 

[BigTopMen]

also.. you are forgetting that guys from LPSG get to attend the parties for free. that is for both the top and bottom guys....

see you guys tomorrow!

 

[hud01]

the xxxmen.tv shows it is a placeholder, not an active site.

I understand that it is better for you to collect upfront, but never having attended an event like this and not being sure how often I will want to attend, as my bi side comes and goes, it is a lot of money.

I would rather spend $50 or $60 for a one time pass.

 

[BigTopMen]

ill say it again... guys on LPSG get a free membership.

free = you dont pay for the membership, and you dont pay a door donation to attend.

you simply signup with me for a membership (provided you qualify to attend), and then you get invited to the events.
that simple.

no one asked for any membership fees for my party from guys who are on LPSG.

if you want to donate the 50 or 60 bucks towards the party, i guess thats fine, but
since you are on LPSG, you would be able to get in for free.

this is the only site i have extended this to, since the topic is big cocks...

the guys from this site who have come down to meet me have been lots of fun, and they signed up for their free membership.
its a lot easier than you may think LOL..

anyway, hope that clears it up, and hope to meet up with you soon!

 

[EdWoody]

God, I miss New York.

 

[BigTopMen]

nyc misses u too

if u get to portland or seattle, we might be doing a party there in summer '09

 

[BigTopMen]

thanks for the emails. hope to see some of you guys tonight!

 

[matthew1985]

would if i lived nearer,lol

 

[flame boy]

Do you measure the people to make sure they are actually over 9"?

Sounds a bit dodgy to me.

 

[EdWoody]

nyc misses u too

Oh, I could always be found at Tim's Brooklyn party, or I tried the FireHose party a couple of times. One on 16th street once too, just near xl. Got slammed by a tall skinny blond guy with about 10 inches. I think he was a waiter at elmo or something.

And then of course, Daniel Nardicio's parties. That guy was just so on my wavelength.

Didn't like the west side club or that one on 28th street. Too skanky and too much unsafe sex going on.

 

[BigTopMen]

to flameboy - yes the guys are measured to make sure they are over 9" in length OR 6" in thickness (it's a big cock party after all)... even the bottom guys have to show their skills with a big cock to get invited.

those that aren't that large or can't take the really big ones can always attend the other parties i host.

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to lvsxy808 - there are a couple of thin blonds who are VWE (very well endowed) who attend the parties. maybe your encounter guy is one of them . guess meat is on the menu at elmo LOL


to everyone else... hope to meet even more of you tonight!

don't forget, it's at:

section 8 (a small gay bar)
218 ave a (between 13/14 streets)
east village/manhattan, nyc

i will be there tonight (and every sunday) from 10pm - 2am...
*be sure to ask the bartender for Mr G (me) when u arrive so u can signup for the upcoming parties

$3 well drinks / $2 domestic beer, so at least stop on by, say hi, and get your drink on!

 

[Superthroat]

can anyone comment? how was it?

 

[BigTopMen]

lol... its a MEET UP, not an actual event. guys come to signup for their membership (remember... LPSG guys get a free one if they fit the criteria), and hang out and drink, make out, etc... its not an actual erotic group event...

though i will say this... 4 guys from LPSG came by to get their free membership... and yes, there are some fun HUNG guys in manhattan!

----- the next one will be sunday february 1

(... i'm taking off this weekend, since it's my 40th birthday, and i am having my own private birthday sexparty weekend both in nyc and atlantic city... the guys from LPSG who will be attending have already received their invitations to those parties... see you there!)