bisexual 3some

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  1. doncab

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    Why is this the hardest thing to make happen? I have fantasized about having a Bi 3-some for years, have hooked up with plenty of girls and guys seperately, have had my dick sucked by a woman with a couple of friends watching in the room, but have never been in a situation where I suck dick and fuck a pussy at the same time. All I can do is watch shitty bi porn where the actors are either 100% gay, or gay for pay, which doesn't do it for me. Please god, if you can hear me, please make this happen, or members of this board if you have some solid advice.
     
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    A relationship with other swingers might get you closer. Most guys don't mind the occasional "bump" in the night but if the wife or girlfriend is hot and likes it the other guy might go along....
    Also, Hot tubs are a great starter...
     
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    Thanks for the advice. I know myself well enough that this situation will only work when I'm not in a relationship. I've tried answering ads on craigslist to no avail, albeit I'm not surprised. Any advice on how to instigate a fwb 3 some would be greatly appreciated.
     
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    It does seem like it's a hard thing to accomplish. I had two 3somes over a weekend some years ago. One with two women (totally hot...I was exhausted), the other with two guys (they kind of irked me). Deeper than the sexual aspect, I don't think that this is 'the year' of the bisexual. I've spoken to several bisexual friends about the different things that come up in our lives. One thing that we have noticed is that gay people seem a bit more famous today than the bisexual person. We don't identify as gay or straight; we're both. Perhaps the problem with getting the bisexual 3some off the ground is the speculation of the integrity of the other person? Then it may be that those persons involved might not be a true bisexual.

    True bisexual (my definition): An individual that has the emotional capacity to be intimately involved with both men and women.

    Being a true bisexual is a heavy load. Any one of us will agree...I would hope. With my definition being in the simplest of terms to me, I'm not really sure that most people can dive that deep into actually living a bisexual experience. You might have a better chance at realizing one of your sexual dreams if you knew more about the bisexuals you dealt with and how deep they are in their own sexual existence. They might not be as bisexual as you. Investigate more, voice your sexual desires more, and hopefully, you'll get your reward.
     
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    Wow, that was a really good response. I agree with what you say, that's why I'm hesitant to try and get this going while being involved with a lady, most people can't wrap their brains around a male that like to bump uglies with both genders. A solid threesome with 2 ladies is a common fantasy, but 2 dudes that get down with a lady present seems to be a little too off the wall still.


    With that said I couldn't see myself having emotional feelings for a male, I think my intrigue is a dominant/submissive role you play when tapping into this taboo subject.
     
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    It's just not our year=) But now do you see how your bisexuality may differ from others?
     
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    im more on the gay side and have also fantasized a ton about trying a bi threesome... dont know if itll ever happen though :\
     
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