bisexual attractions
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I'm not sure how to classify this, but I like pretty, girly faces on women and ordinary, manly faces on men. I like women who have feminine shapes, either normal weight or thin and look young, and I like beefier, heavy, more middle-aged guys. I don't care about tit size but I really, really care about dick size. I'm am not really bisexual, though, I'm a gay man who also likes to fuck chicks.
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My husband is Bi and his past girlfriends were shorter with big hips and smaller boobs. Not fat per say but thicker. He was a skinny nerd (About 125 lbs) I am a hairy giant over 6'6" and thick.
Strange, I ask him all the time what types attract him and he say's he has no urge for pussy. He says cock in his ass has always made him more happy.
The insecure guy in me is waiting for him to go back the other way. The kinky guy wants to watch him work a chick. He rim's like a champ and claims the only way he could get her off was with his tongue, He fucks like a pornstar. The jealous guy says it would really hurt our relationship.
Think I will keep it the way it is. Just a fantasy and hope I can keep him satisfied.
Strange, I ask him all the time what types attract him and he say's he has no urge for pussy. He says cock in his ass has always made him more happy.
The insecure guy in me is waiting for him to go back the other way. The kinky guy wants to watch him work a chick. He rim's like a champ and claims the only way he could get her off was with his tongue, He fucks like a pornstar. The jealous guy says it would really hurt our relationship.
Think I will keep it the way it is. Just a fantasy and hope I can keep him satisfied.
I'm really attracted to people's eyes. There have been guys and girls I fell for when on first glance didn't realize anything, then I saw they had crazy intense eyes and it was a different game.
That being said, most of the girls I've been with have been bigger than me. They're not fat, but certainly not very skinny or short. I love big boobs, so much, but not the ones that are so big you can't reach a person. I don't have so many specific physical requirements for women though, as I really am more attracted to personalities and attitudes.
For guys, it's much more physical for me. I see a guy with muscles (not huge ones, but athletic fit) and that's the biggest turn on for me. When I want a soft woman, I want a hard man. I like pecs and biceps and abs, and not the huge ones but I still want to see them defined. That and a little scruff will get me off so good--I like the rough kisses.
That being said, most of the girls I've been with have been bigger than me. They're not fat, but certainly not very skinny or short. I love big boobs, so much, but not the ones that are so big you can't reach a person. I don't have so many specific physical requirements for women though, as I really am more attracted to personalities and attitudes.
For guys, it's much more physical for me. I see a guy with muscles (not huge ones, but athletic fit) and that's the biggest turn on for me. When I want a soft woman, I want a hard man. I like pecs and biceps and abs, and not the huge ones but I still want to see them defined. That and a little scruff will get me off so good--I like the rough kisses.
I'm really attracted to people's eyes. There have been guys and girls I fell for when on first glance didn't realize anything, then I saw they had crazy intense eyes and it was a different game.
That being said, most of the girls I've been with have been bigger than me. They're not fat, but certainly not very skinny or short. I love big boobs, so much, but not the ones that are so big you can't reach a person. I don't have so many specific physical requirements for women though, as I really am more attracted to personalities and attitudes.
For guys, it's much more physical for me. I see a guy with muscles (not huge ones, but athletic fit) and that's the biggest turn on for me. When I want a soft woman, I want a hard man. I like pecs and biceps and abs, and not the huge ones but I still want to see them defined. That and a little scruff will get me off so good--I like the rough kisses.
That being said, most of the girls I've been with have been bigger than me. They're not fat, but certainly not very skinny or short. I love big boobs, so much, but not the ones that are so big you can't reach a person. I don't have so many specific physical requirements for women though, as I really am more attracted to personalities and attitudes.
For guys, it's much more physical for me. I see a guy with muscles (not huge ones, but athletic fit) and that's the biggest turn on for me. When I want a soft woman, I want a hard man. I like pecs and biceps and abs, and not the huge ones but I still want to see them defined. That and a little scruff will get me off so good--I like the rough kisses.
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Rachel McLish!!
OMG!!!!!!!!
What a babe!! The fantasies I used to have about her!!
I still have the muscle mag that she was on the cover of! :biggrin1:
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WOMEN:
Smallish and short...healthy but not over weight, can have some good muscular features
(more toned), but not hard. I like women to be soft and feminine, with a strong voice
instead of a sweet, whiny one. I tend to be drawn to dark haired or red haired women
rather than blonds. They do not have to be of great outward beauty, but have an inside
beauty and warmth. I am more turned on by an open and inqusitive mind and a fun personality with empathy for people and animals, and one that enjoys life to the fullest. I do NOT like the shrinking voilet type. I like shaved pits, and trimmed pubes. Size of boobs is not important....I like them all.
MEN:
Short or tall...makes no difference...they don't have to be all that muscular with shaped in stone abs and muscles that are hard to the point of not feeling real, etc...but must be in good physical shape...not too young (although 20s are not discoundted) but 30s & 40's upward....dark, blond, or
redheads..but silver/salt and pepper is a plus...body hair and pits hair a plus...trimmed pubes, clean
shaved balls. Again, outward beauty is not at all necessary as long as there is an inward beauty
and there is a quick and intelligent mind, full of varied interests, loves sports (especially NY Yankee
baseball) has empathy for people and animals, is fun with a warm personality, and enjoys life to the
fullest.
I like my men tall, beefy and young... say like college football players and my women tallish feminine but not plastic looking. But being a top I like a gorgeous bubble butt on both every time. I do prefer my women waxed and a smooth hole on the dudes
I tend to like a wide variety of men - classic good looks, fitness models, alternative "artist" types. It's more about the overall package than any one particular feature. Sometimes I'll look at a guy and everything just clicks (and springs to attention); other times, I'll look at a guy - and he'll be hot by any objective standard - but I get nothing. The same is true of women.
That's the physical side of things. What I drool over. There's also personality. Of course, if I'm not looking for a relationship, I can usually ignore personality for a night, but if there's any chance of me seeing the person ever again - even if we end up as friends - then personality trumps looks any day. (Within reason; I tend not to get turned on by extra limbs, horrid flesh-eating skin diseases, or odors so strong you can use them to clean glass.)
I also notice that my attractions go through cycles. Sometimes I'll be so focused on men that I think, "Well, I guess that 'bi' thing was just a phase," and then a little later all I can think about is sex with women. Even in the "I guess I'm turning straight" part of the cycle, my fantasies never stay "women only" for very long - they usually start off that way, but inevitably a guy (or two, or three...) joins in, and well, I just have to help out my buddies...
Oh, and Shinato - you'd definitely be on the list of guys I click with! Too bad you already have a hot bf and live 1,000 miles away. Story of my life...
That's the physical side of things. What I drool over. There's also personality. Of course, if I'm not looking for a relationship, I can usually ignore personality for a night, but if there's any chance of me seeing the person ever again - even if we end up as friends - then personality trumps looks any day. (Within reason; I tend not to get turned on by extra limbs, horrid flesh-eating skin diseases, or odors so strong you can use them to clean glass.)
I also notice that my attractions go through cycles. Sometimes I'll be so focused on men that I think, "Well, I guess that 'bi' thing was just a phase," and then a little later all I can think about is sex with women. Even in the "I guess I'm turning straight" part of the cycle, my fantasies never stay "women only" for very long - they usually start off that way, but inevitably a guy (or two, or three...) joins in, and well, I just have to help out my buddies...
Oh, and Shinato - you'd definitely be on the list of guys I click with! Too bad you already have a hot bf and live 1,000 miles away. Story of my life...
I tend to like a wide variety of men - classic good looks, fitness models, alternative "artist" types. It's more about the overall package than any one particular feature. Sometimes I'll look at a guy and everything just clicks (and springs to attention); other times, I'll look at a guy - and he'll be hot by any objective standard - but I get nothing. The same is true of women.
That's the physical side of things. What I drool over. There's also personality. Of course, if I'm not looking for a relationship, I can usually ignore personality for a night, but if there's any chance of me seeing the person ever again - even if we end up as friends - then personality trumps looks any day. (Within reason; I tend not to get turned on by extra limbs, horrid flesh-eating skin diseases, or odors so strong you can use them to clean glass.)
I also notice that my attractions go through cycles. Sometimes I'll be so focused on men that I think, "Well, I guess that 'bi' thing was just a phase," and then a little later all I can think about is sex with women. Even in the "I guess I'm turning straight" part of the cycle, my fantasies never stay "women only" for very long - they usually start off that way, but inevitably a guy (or two, or three...) joins in, and well, I just have to help out my buddies...
Oh, and Shinato - you'd definitely be on the list of guys I click with! Too bad you already have a hot bf and live 1,000 miles away. Story of my life...
I like this thread BTW. Thanks to Shinato for posting it. I'd say that I agree with phillyhangin (love your sn) completely. To me attraction is something that seems to change over time in each person's life. I look at the boys I was attracted to in high school and wonder what I was thinking. It wasn't until I had an affair with another woman that things seem to make more sense. She had a masculine side to her that is hard to put into words. She didn't look masculine but was very aggressive in her personality and presence. She was also very intelligent and beautiful. Maybe she expressed the best qualities of both a man and a woman in one person, so that's why I fell for her. She was a thoughtful and generous girl.
My boyfriends have been like her in many ways too in that they appear more assertive and aggressive in their personalities but are actually gentle and vulnerable one-on-one. I think that if guys could experience how my boyfriends or men like them treat me and how sweet they are privately, there'd be a lot more bisexual men in the world. This is one of my theories. I guess it's a little off-topic but it's something I truly believe.
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Shinato, this was a great question!!
I like a lot of the same stuff in both men and women. First of all, I really only go for smart people, whether men or women. Not necessarily super-educated; just naturally SMART. I like them proportional when it comes to height and weight, and generally like taller folks but it's far from a deal-breaker. I'm generally attracted to blond(e) people with great honest smiles and a sense of fun, but the blonde thing is not a deal breaker, either ... I've been attracted to Black, Hispanic and Asian folks who fit all the above stuff, too.
One other thing ... a pair of strong, sexy legs is a big boon, too!!
I like a lot of the same stuff in both men and women. First of all, I really only go for smart people, whether men or women. Not necessarily super-educated; just naturally SMART. I like them proportional when it comes to height and weight, and generally like taller folks but it's far from a deal-breaker. I'm generally attracted to blond(e) people with great honest smiles and a sense of fun, but the blonde thing is not a deal breaker, either ... I've been attracted to Black, Hispanic and Asian folks who fit all the above stuff, too.
One other thing ... a pair of strong, sexy legs is a big boon, too!!
I like guys who are quite built. Gym goers. Strong looking.
As for women, I like to look at all types, but don't find myself sexually attracted to 'girly', overtly feminine women. I like women who look like they are not afraid to get their hands dirty. They can be slim and toned like me, or bigger. Just not shorter, though I'm really short, so that's unlikely. I dislike fully waxed or shaved pubic regions on both sexes. Hair is a turn-on.
As for women, I like to look at all types, but don't find myself sexually attracted to 'girly', overtly feminine women. I like women who look like they are not afraid to get their hands dirty. They can be slim and toned like me, or bigger. Just not shorter, though I'm really short, so that's unlikely. I dislike fully waxed or shaved pubic regions on both sexes. Hair is a turn-on.
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i like ultra feminine girls and extremely masc men...no butch girls or fem boys.. i like to be an aggressive guy with either sex in a masculine way, smooth bodies on both (if the guy is very hairy im not too attracted) but im more into personalities and how nasty both can get..light skin and dark hair for both..asses are a must...breast and cock size arent too important but the bigger the better... any1 want to respectfully analyze this fee free too
I find the older I get, the more my tastes change. When I was younger (in my late teens), I found myself more sexually attracted to older men and women (established, professional, MILF types). In my 20s, I found myself into really athletic women and men, more around my age and cocky types with guys and outgoing/bitchy/high maintenance with girls. 30s it was more based on a person's sense of self, integrity, sexual prowess and compassion. Now, I find I prefer women and men of all types, ages and lifestyles but I find I attract types that are alot younger than myself. And being mixed (racially), I never really went for a specific ethnic type, but my exploration tended to be more with caucasian, italian and german men and more or less african american women. Still dying to experience a true blonde woman, as well as a man or better yet a redhead!!
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Glad to have stumbled onto this cool thread...
my attractions with women have been:
petite women, that look like they were dancers or a former track 'star'. Eyes are what get me entranced by women and if they have that special sensuality when they interact with others. All in all, I like 'girly' girls a LOT. Regarding the naughty bits: I love beautiful butts, and I am okay with some hair around the pussy...think it visually enhances it.
my attractions with men have been:
masculine, muscular guys that are a bit rugged and have a good heart. Facial hair and chest hair (or on the legs) is something that I am drawn to with guys. Personality wise, must be a thoughtful and empathetic guy. Regarding the naughty bits: I love strong powerful backs, butts & legs! And I discovered that thick cocks (but avg length) are, yet another, weakness of mine.
But the thing that guy or girl must have is being a great kisser, communicative and committed and faithful (monogamous).
my attractions with women have been:
petite women, that look like they were dancers or a former track 'star'. Eyes are what get me entranced by women and if they have that special sensuality when they interact with others. All in all, I like 'girly' girls a LOT. Regarding the naughty bits: I love beautiful butts, and I am okay with some hair around the pussy...think it visually enhances it.
my attractions with men have been:
masculine, muscular guys that are a bit rugged and have a good heart. Facial hair and chest hair (or on the legs) is something that I am drawn to with guys. Personality wise, must be a thoughtful and empathetic guy. Regarding the naughty bits: I love strong powerful backs, butts & legs! And I discovered that thick cocks (but avg length) are, yet another, weakness of mine.
But the thing that guy or girl must have is being a great kisser, communicative and committed and faithful (monogamous).
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