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Okay so my friend (I'll call him Jake) is bi. I know and he's told me before that he's somewhat attracted to me. So there was this whole series of events that ended with my gf worried and another friend irritated but that's essentially blown over now but I still like Jake (as a friend) and still want to be close to him and I don't feel weird about his attraction to me but my gf doesn't quite understand how Im not uncomfortable around him so I have two questions; one, would you be uncomfortable around a friend of yours like Jake and two, how can I explain to my gf th at Im not uncomfortable around Jake? Sorry for such a long post you guys but to those who take the time to read and provide an opinion thanks alot.
 

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I see it as a Trust issue. I have gay friends, and I hang with them, at the same time Ive been "alone" with them and I they know where I stand......but hey if they want to do things to themselves infront of me, meh.....im still married to a lovely trusting wife who enjoy my gay friends too. In fact our open conversation on the most recent antics of them is only be entertaining to us.
I wonder how people can stay in relationships if sex is the one issue that divides them. If you are firmly committed is a good person and have proven your fidelity with all the temptations around you, wtf?