Bisexual Man Who Has Yet To Be With A Woman

[deleted10711701]

Hi there! I’m someone who came to being bisexual later in life (I’m in my late 40s). I have always identified as gay and am, in fact, in a good relationship with a male partner of 11+ years.

That being said... I have never sexually been with a woman. Eventually, I would really love to. I think it would amazing to be intimate with a woman I am attracted to - to bring her pleasure and feel pleasure myself with her. I know a lot of gay men think “ewwww” when they think of a vagina, but I do not at all.

How do women feel about this (a gay man who has discovered he is bi)? Is this a turn-off? Do you think I may stand a “chance” at all?! Haha! (I do have photos you are welcome to browse!)

 

[Holly Doors]

Hi there! I’m someone who came to being bisexual later in life (I’m in my late 40s). I have always identified as gay and am, in fact, in a good relationship with a male partner of 11+ years.

That being said... I have never sexually been with a woman. Eventually, I would really love to. I think it would amazing to be intimate with a woman I am attracted to - to bring her pleasure and feel pleasure myself with her. I know a lot of gay men think “ewwww” when they think of a vagina, but I do not at all.

How do women feel about this (a gay man who has discovered he is bi)? Is this a turn-off? Do you think I may stand a “chance” at all?! Haha! (I do have photos you are welcome to browse!)

Not a turn off for me no, my only advice is to let any potential women know you're bi and what you're expectations of any future relationship might be. If you're just looking for an experience then let it be known you're only looking for fun rather than a full blown relationship, or if you think you might want something more then go for it too x

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

This question has been asked many times in this section, I would suggest utilizing the search function to find some answers we've repeated over the years.

 

[LaFemme]

What you do is up to you. For me, it wouldn’t work. I’m not a test fuck. And I don’t have sex with guys in relationships. On a deeper level, it reinforces the idea that bi men can’t be faithful. I find that problematic.

 

[deleted848353]

No no no and if I was to be willing then still a no especially when your in a mm relationship

 

[deleted10711701]

This question has been asked many times in this section, I would suggest utilizing the search function to find some answers we've repeated over the years.

Tried that and no luck—-? Sorry to be repetitive, but truly, the search function did not bring up anything. I even scrolled through the pages in this forum. @Tight_N_Juicy

 

[deleted10711701]

What you do is up to you. For me, it wouldn’t work. I’m not a test fuck. And I don’t have sex with guys in relationships. On a deeper level, it reinforces the idea that bi men can’t be faithful. I find that problematic.

Totally get it - I understand that perspective.I think that is part of my dilemma, because I am NOT the type of guy who is unfaithful. I just can’t do it. Thank you for the thoughts.

 

[deleted10711701]

No no no and if I was to be willing then still a no especially when your in a mm relationship

I hear ya! Thank you.

 

[Ms.M]

Hypotheticals since I am involved with someone, but. I do not tend to do anything with someone already in a relationship. I would have to be able to talk with the partner and make sure it is all above board. I also do not tend to love to teach people from the ground up/prefer some experience.

 

[Serial Kisser]

Tried that and no luck—-? Sorry to be repetitive, but truly, the search function did not bring up anything. I even scrolled through the pages in this forum. @Tight_N_Juicy

I scrolled through this forum and found alllll of these.
Would You Teach A Gay Guy To Fuck?
Experimenting With A Gay Man That's Bicurious
How Do Women Feel About Bisexual Men ?
How Would You Feel If Your Boyfriend/husband Told You He Was Bi?
Would you date a bi male?
Female reactions to bi-guys
bi gay do you feel ok with it
Why Don’t Women Date Or Accept Bi Men?
would you have sex with a bi sexual man?
Young Gay Guy Wanted To Try Sharing Things With Girls
Wanting To Experience A Women For The First Time!

 

[deleted10711701]

I scrolled through this forum and found alllll of these.
Would You Teach A Gay Guy To Fuck?
Experimenting With A Gay Man That's Bicurious
How Do Women Feel About Bisexual Men ?
How Would You Feel If Your Boyfriend/husband Told You He Was Bi?
Would you date a bi male?
Female reactions to bi-guys
bi gay do you feel ok with it
Why Don’t Women Date Or Accept Bi Men?
would you have sex with a bi sexual man?
Young Gay Guy Wanted To Try Sharing Things With Girls
Wanting To Experience A Women For The First Time!

Thank you much! I'm new to LPSG so I may just be searching incorrectly! Apologies again for the redundancy. I didn't mean to be obnoxious by posting what I did.

 

[Serial Kisser]

Thank you much! I'm new to LPSG so I may just be searching incorrectly! Apologies again for the redundancy. I didn't mean to be obnoxious by posting what I did.

It's all good. I was bored. Good luck!