For a long time I conflicted with myself and my sexuality, growing up I was straight, and as soon as I got older, I lost who I was because I was different. And the world didn't mind telling me I was. I never felt I was different, I always felt "normal." But, we are all different. And What I have finally concluded about myself, and a principal of the world is that we are all bisexual to a degree. Weather we accept it now or later. The same way we can love the sex we are mostly attracted to, is the same way qualities in a person of the same sex can attract us. That's why we have friends, and best friends and so on. To deny is just to lie, because that's what I did for many years now I have allowed myself to not be defined by anything except how I feel in the moment. One minute I may have sex with a guy and the next a girl. Sex is sex, nothing more nothing less, when we allow ourselves to live our desires we won't feel so confined to have to believe this or that and truly will be free like we were meant to be.