Bisexuals Can't Be Faithful

Do you think that bisexuals can be in a committed relationship?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 83 82.2%
  • No.

    Votes: 18 17.8%

  • Total voters
    101

EagleCowboy

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I am a bi guy and I can safely say that I've never cheated on my girlfriends or boyfriends. Funny thing is, all but 2 have cheated on me. Must be something written on my forehead. As far as I'm concerned, if I choose to be in a relationship with someone, be it a guy or girl, then I will be faithful to them. That IS a part of an exclusive relationship isn't it? Or did I miss something? When I'm in a relationship with someone, I only want what I have. Not something strange.

Now I have observed that those that are 100% gay or str8 and like to bitch about us bi people not being faithful are the *VERY* first ones to cheat. Even when they're dating someone else that's 100% gay or str8!!

Of course I've had people from both groups telling me straight up that they would never date bi people because they're cheaters or they will cheat at some point. Ok. Fine. They have just done me 2 favors.
They've effectively weeded themselves out of my potential mate pool.
They've also proven to me that they would be no fun in and out of bed because of their narrow-mindedness.
 

Standard Deviant

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I'm bi and have been faithful to my wife for all 30 years when it comes to not being with another FEMALE, which I could tell would hurt her. When it came to being with other MALES, she was the one who prompted me to act on my fantasies after I was with her for about 9 months. She found it exciting! I still was hesitant, and went long periods without, even though I was a young hottie and pursued by many attractive men.

My wife persisted in wanting me to have a male partner (or both of us having a 3rd person--a bi male who would be with both of us) for many years. I finally said, "Forget it, it's obviously not going to happen if it hasn't by now." This was after a number of years of trying to find someone compatible. It's hard enough to find ONE person who is compatible with ONE person in your whole life, much less TWO who are compatible with TWO MORE each.

My last sexual encounter with a male was in 1983 until someone "perfect" came along in 1990. We gave it a try with him and found he was not perfect, after all... We had just a few fun times with him over a period of three years, and called it quits.

So since 1993 I've been only with my wife. And I have to tell you, there is nothing harder than being a monogamous bisexual! The conflicts are tremendous. I wish I had some healthy way to express the male/male side of my personality. This is where LPSG could be a true support group! At least knowing another bi male who is like me might help...to talk with, since I can't imagine risking disease or hurting my wife's feelings. The frustration of having such a long period of imbalance is tough.
 

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i had to smile while remembering two boifriends that went back to the home country to "live normally"
both went and got married, had kids and both are divorced and paying thru the ass for child support.
that makes doing me a favor to buy catfood for my boicat such an affordable little venture to remember!!
but thats the doldrums of ex married for you!
whats laughable is that i get to send them money often to help pay for the support.
see, you dont have to be mean to be insulting! generosity can be VERY INSULTING!
lash at them with kindness!!