yeah...that good morning sprout.... I prefer my LEFT hand reason no answer..... forget looking forr a gel or Vaseline, nor even KY.. after many times & trys it seems to always end up good ol' warm~spitwet...a~sip~of fruit juice & palm lick on left hand....grab a grasp....just right~& sliddde thos fingers..uu "listen"...spit~slop~yess slapslopslapslopslap slopslapslop...uuu yess spitslopslap....oooo yess mmmmm slop almost almost slapslop mmm closer this is great...+ STD SAFE mmmm slopslop best part nowwww~~wow