Like the title says I know this is a bit off-topic, but this is my favourite site for advice and mature responses, and it may get a few people saying they have the same situation.
This has been on my mind lately, and I am noticing it more and more. It could be because of me, or is it other people? I have no idea. The issue is simple, communicating with people. The same happens on nights out, wherever I am, even with friends. I feel as though if I want to talk to people I have to talk to them first, organise to do stuff with them or they wouldn't ask me.
I know I sound like a loner lol, but as soon as I talk to them they're fine, or up to do stuff. So what is it? Why do I always have to initiate conversation with people, am I being paranoid, or perhaps something about first-impressions I give off.
Does anybody else share similar stories (now they mention it) or perhaps in reverse, do people usually wait to be talked to rather than talk to.
This has been on my mind lately, and I am noticing it more and more. It could be because of me, or is it other people? I have no idea. The issue is simple, communicating with people. The same happens on nights out, wherever I am, even with friends. I feel as though if I want to talk to people I have to talk to them first, organise to do stuff with them or they wouldn't ask me.
I know I sound like a loner lol, but as soon as I talk to them they're fine, or up to do stuff. So what is it? Why do I always have to initiate conversation with people, am I being paranoid, or perhaps something about first-impressions I give off.
Does anybody else share similar stories (now they mention it) or perhaps in reverse, do people usually wait to be talked to rather than talk to.