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my wife does not like to give head cuz she says her mouth gets tired or sore from being opened up or something to that extent,has anyone else experienced this or is she trying to be nice and not say she dont like to suck my dick hahaha also i got to cum in her mouth once along time ago and she said the taste stayed for awhile like a hour or so,just curious,any info or suggestions please
 

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:mad: No fair, k35, in this forum only females are allowed to post answers!

My answer is, have you tasted your own cum? How does it taste? Does it taste as good as your wife's pussy?

Try to see the whole business from your wife's perspective. Deep-throating takes a lot of practice, as well as a wish to learn it. It would be far more common if people didn't make long term commitments to people they don't like the taste of. In a better world, you'd get that investigating done before you marry.

Meanwhile, encourage your wife to lick you and use her hands on you, and be absolutely sure you are clean and fresh for consumption.
 

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Just for "fun", go out and purchase a dildo of the same proportion as your cock. Have your wife wield it for you while you suck on it for the same length of time you would normally want a blow job to last. You will definitely find your mouth going numb, your jaw aching and your throat becoming unbelievably sore. And that's without the taste of cum in your mouth.

Show some empathy and patience. She isn't lying. Some women develop better stamina than others and some men taste better to us than others. She isn't complaining about taste - just that it gets uncomfortable after a while. Let her have full control so she can take breaks so her jaw can relax and maybe hydrate a little.
 

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Absolutely agree with all of the above. guys seem to think sucking a dick is as easy as opening your mouth and keeping it open. Trust me, the jaw gets sore. Plus even with a dildo in your mouth it's not the same. You guys move and thrust and bend and you don't get that it's difficult. I have a really sensitive gag reflex too and as soon as a guy makes me gag i'm put right off. Licking a pussy is FAR easier than sucking a dick and i know from personal experience. Plus when a woman grinds on your face it doesn't make you gag. Men need to realise that if they force the blowjob, we won't want to do it again. Be gentle and don't push. The more you bug her, the more it will become a chore. And you giving her advice like "just relax" or "open wider" doesn't help. You have no idea what sucking a dick is like so until you do you can't hold an opinion.
 

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Awesome,thank you all ladies,this really answered my question.
I will surely listen to what she says about sucking now that i know others feel the same way.
And if im lucky maybe she will let me suck her sean davis dildo:)
Thanks
 

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Awesome,thank you all ladies,this really answered my question.
I will surely listen to what she says about sucking now that i know others feel the same way.
And if im lucky maybe she will let me suck her sean davis dildo:)
Thanks

So.. you want to suck cock?

And from reading your other posts - you like to keep it in your wife's mouth till you fall asleep? That would annoy the fuck out of me.
 
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I agree with what everyone else posted but seriously, I like doing it at least as part of foreplay. I just like the control and knowing I'm making him happy, it's not like she has to do it until its completely uncomfortable for her if that's the issue? Maybe she is a little insecure about doing it? It is kind of a really personal thing and it's wierd doing something while he is just enjoying, it's kind of like being judged so maybe she feels that way?
 

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I agree with everyone here... good advice.

There's more to a good BJ that just sucking. And YOUR attitude plays into her enthusiasm as well.

I totally LOVE fellatio, but, I can see your wife's POV and I think she is being honest with you.
1) Make sure you are clean before you give her your cock
2) Ask HER what feels good to her (yes, BJ's can feel good to a woman too... I love them and they get me wet.)
3) Tell her what feels good to you... and IF you say "I want you to suck me til I fall asleep" ... then I agree with SK... (that is such a bad attitude)
4) Don't forget to take breaks and move to other parts of foreplay...

as for your taste? ask her... does it leave a bitter aftertaste? then eat more fruit like pineapples, juices, or strawberries... just for starters.

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