Whenever you meet someone new, wouldn't the question of disease be brought up before you decide to play together? I'd like to get to know someone, or at least know if they're clean before anything happens. I wouldn't meet up unless we're both comfortable with the situation. I know sometimes it's hard, but you can never be too careful. It's best to know what you're getting yourself into, to be safe, rather than just letting your dick take over. That's my opinion at least.