So my girlfriend, who I adore, really hates giving head. She says it hurts her mouth to stay open that wide and she doesn't enjoy the act itself. I would like her to do it more, once ever several months isn't as frequent as I'd like, but I want her to enjoy it. Can any women relate to this and is there any way to make it more enjoyable for her so that she might want to do it? (I've tried things like 69, to make her have fun too but she still doesn't like it)
Some people do have issues with lock jaw. What I would recommend you do, is get her to give you handjobs with lots of flavoured lube, that way when she feels like putting it in her mouth it will be more appealing to her. Worst case scenario you get a wicked handjob that you would probably not be willing to do yourself.
thats really good advice! I never even thought of flavored lube. Has anyone tried it? Does it taste good actually?
well i can relate to getting a really sore jaw. but i love giving head. i don't care much for flavoured lube, never tasted one i like. i did some reading in the book, the guide to getting it on, which is an amazing resource. but from my own personal investigation. she doesn't necessarily have to be deep throating it the whole time. using her tongue, sucking, adding pressure, and using both hand and mouth can all help. guys seem to like when i suck on the soft fleshy area, or quickly run my tongue on the tip. i haven't had any complaints... best of luck
Perhaps suggest she add some things to her diet. For openers: bananas, zucchini, carrots, cucumbers, hot dogs, egg rolls and Kielbasa. Don't forget to garnish with: new potatoes, rice balls, eggs and a couple of zingy-hot radishes.
Didn't mean to have it be 100 percent gay, but I fixed it so now its correct! And in response to Penisdoodler, she cant deepthroat, its more an unwillingness to perform any kind of an act. She says she knows of no woman who would enjoy head but I think it may be that there is just something we are missing to make it more enjoyable...
