BJ question
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D_Doe_Ray_Mi
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I agree with both Pieter & Jon. I need to find something attractive, i.e. even the way she moves, to move onto the possibility of a sexual/BJ encounter.
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As long as you are not shrek or Carol Kane in the princess bride I really don't care.
Some of the worst bjs have been from pretty girls, some of best from average or below.
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You are correct. Allow me to apologize and re-word my statement....
If it was indeed based on race, then it sounds like the guy was a jerk. If it was based on him just not being attracted, then it's just a plain...NEXT!
Of course it matters.
Just...not much.
I mean, if you just want to get off, then having someone else there to do the heavy lifting for you is great! But if you want a real relationship, to have a caring interaction with someone on an emotional level, well, then you can't just stick your dick in her mouth and go to town.
So that perspective of "what do you really want out of this" is VERY important - even more important than the looks. You have to have that figured out first, and then the standards sort of follow that decision.
Just...not much.
I mean, if you just want to get off, then having someone else there to do the heavy lifting for you is great! But if you want a real relationship, to have a caring interaction with someone on an emotional level, well, then you can't just stick your dick in her mouth and go to town.
So that perspective of "what do you really want out of this" is VERY important - even more important than the looks. You have to have that figured out first, and then the standards sort of follow that decision.
Boy, humans beings sure are wired differently. I know a lot of guys here on campus who don't care what a girl looks like at all as far as getting head from her. Just any mouth will do. I STILL can't figure this out. Do these guys think all girls are hot and sexy or is just the blow job enough? If this is true, then what keeps us from getting head from ANY living thing? Goats? dogs? cats? cows? I am crazy to think that attraction is an essential part of arousal??? I guess I'm not as interested in getting the best "technical" blow job I can because without the sexual attraction (in my head), it's all just going through the motions.
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In terms of the gay scene, there are plenty of factors that have nothing to do with someone being actually ugly {however you define that) or not "super hot" (factors such as age [really big issue... just look at personal ads on cruising websites or that freak show called Craigslist...], facial hair or not, hair color, balding vs. full head, race [Yes, race!], height, body shape, etc.) that determine whether someone will let another guy suck his dick.
I have been turned down plenty of times because of such purely superficial factors or preferences, just for the purposes of a blowjob, mind you, not for a relationship, a love connection or anything else "involved".... of course, I'm not wearing a neon sign around my neck that flashes "Deepthroat for XXL cocks with videos and really good references to prove it"
And despite my initial disappointment in situations like this, I always feel truly sorry for those guys who pick the "hottie" twink or whatever strikes their particular fancy, and then have to settle for bad to mediocre head... if they only knew what they're missing
I have been turned down plenty of times because of such purely superficial factors or preferences, just for the purposes of a blowjob, mind you, not for a relationship, a love connection or anything else "involved".... of course, I'm not wearing a neon sign around my neck that flashes "Deepthroat for XXL cocks with videos and really good references to prove it"
And despite my initial disappointment in situations like this, I always feel truly sorry for those guys who pick the "hottie" twink or whatever strikes their particular fancy, and then have to settle for bad to mediocre head... if they only knew what they're missing
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In terms of the gay scene, there are plenty of factors that have nothing to do with someone being actually ugly {however you define that) or not "super hot" (factors such as age [really big issue... just look at personal ads on cruising websites or that freak show called Craigslist...], facial hair or not, hair color, balding vs. full head, race [Yes, race!], height, body shape, etc.) that determine whether someone will let another guy suck his dick.
I have been turned down plenty of times because of such purely superficial factors or preferences, just for the purposes of a blowjob, mind you, not for a relationship, a love connection or anything else "involved".... of course, I'm not wearing a neon sign around my neck that flashes "Deepthroat for XXL cocks with videos and really good references to prove it"
And despite my initial disappointment in situations like this, I always feel truly sorry for those guys who pick the "hottie" twink or whatever strikes their particular fancy, and then have to settle for bad to mediocre head... if they only knew what they're missing
Thank you so much, you have answered my question.
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Umm part of the turn on for me is the person doing the sucking. some ugly troll sucking on my cock is not going to do anything for me. Honestly I am into guys who have cute faces. I don't give damn how hot a guy's body is or how big his bick is...if he has an ugly face it probably is not gonna happen!