BJ with a condom

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condom for a BJ? wtf? youre oviously getting with some very dirty people if you need a condom for a BJ. not sure about gays, or americans. but for us straight guys in canada we dont got to worry about shit like that!!!

Oh, so they don't have diseases in Canada? Or could it be that you're just naive? The only safe sex is sex with yourself, kids. Anything else has a degree of danger to it, regardless of whether you're having sex with a guy or a gal, or whether you or the other person identifies as gay, straight, or bi.

When people say BJ or "oral sex," they could mean any number of things. The most important aspect is whether there's ejaculation into the mouth or throat. The tissue there is pretty resistant to HIV infection, but that doesn't mean that there's no risk. This is because there can be tears in the throat lining, cuts and abrasions in the mouth, and/or sores on the mouth gums, or lips. And any opening to the bloodstream can lead to HIV infection.

As for oral sex without ejaculation to the person's mouth, the CDC (Centers for Disease Control) here in the U.S. deems a "theoretical risk." That's because pre-cum contains HIV as well, albeit lower levels than in ejaculate or blood.

Anyone who has sex with someone without testing, and/or who engages in such idiotic behaviors as unprotected sex, is asking for trouble. And no amount of comparing national trends, or self-describing as heterosexual, is going to save you once you're infected with HIV.
 

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blah blah blah, taking a shower with a raincoat, blah, blah, blah

uninformed and ignorant is no way to go through life

I didn't say raincoat, or blah blah blah dipshit, keep your mouth shut.
Furthermore, don't reply to my posts and take a pleasure cruise for YOUR uninformed, useless, shit spewing, defenseless, over confident cocky sorry ass so I can take pleasure in sinking the ship.
 

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It's easier to have a physical orgasm if you train yourself to have a mental orgasm. You achieve mental orgasms by focusing on (or "imagining") the total-body sensation of a physical orgasm, and you let it spread throughout your body. Mine begin near my medulla oblongata at the base of my skull ("brain stem" as Pinkie says) because it's such a cluster of basal sensate neurons. Experiment with your best spot of neural origin. I assure you most multi-orgasmic women have figured this out.
 
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STI-wise, it's the safe thing to do... But sexually, it doesn't work. Especially if you're using normal non-flavoured condoms.

I would never volunteer to get a tongue full of condom.
 

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As the master of your own body and dick-sucker, you are in complete control--when he's hard, slap a condom on and start sucking. If he complains, stop sucking. When he then complains you've stopped sucking, begin again. But stop each time he bitches. If there's a stalemate, leave. There are plenty of other, more safety conscious dicks around to suck.



I used whatever condom was available. I've always heard my bjs are amazing with a condom and that's due to technique, which, like intercourse, is something you can impress with while using a condom or not.


Great advice and insight thanks.
 

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I don't get why people are hating on BJ's with condom on. I always did it without condom, but then caught a nasty STD and started using condom. I have done it 10+ times through gloryholes now, and one asshole got the condom off of me (he wanted to drink my sperm I guess) by pulling out my skin so that the condom came of - and I didn't notice untill afterward! So now I have to regularly feel if the condom is still on because frankly the difference is not that big if you have good, fitting condoms on. And the knowledge that you are playing safe is always a plus. But I agree that vaginal and analsex feels worse with a condom on, unfortunately, but the risks are also greater which warrants the use.
 

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As the master of your own body and dick-sucker, you are in complete control--when he's hard, slap a condom on and start sucking. If he complains, stop sucking. When he then complains you've stopped sucking, begin again. But stop each time he bitches. If there's a stalemate, leave. There are plenty of other, more safety conscious dicks around to suck.

I used whatever condom was available. I've always heard my bjs are amazing with a condom and that's due to technique, which, like intercourse, is something you can impress with while using a condom or not.

I'd rather get a BJ with a condom than not get one at all! I've had some great BJ's with a condom when the woman (like exotiKittie) knows what she is doing! :069:
 

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I'd rather get a BJ with a condom than not get one at all! I've had some great BJ's with a condom when the woman (like exotiKittie) knows what she is doing! :069:
Smart man... in more ways than one. :wink:



tgirlsrgreat......exitoKittie......BayAreaGuy...

Exactly!!! Well said!!! :yup:
:yup: Yes, kudos to tgirls and BayAreaGuy!
 

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I was just thinking about posting this same thread. I religiously use condoms if I don't know the guy really well. I learned the hard way you can catch an STD from head. It doesn't feel as good as bare skin, but it still feels better than jackin. It feels good not to have to worry about the possibilities and just enjoy the work of a good cock sucker. I won't suck one without a rubber either, I'm too important to me!
 

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condom for a BJ? wtf? youre oviously getting with some very dirty people if you need a condom for a BJ. not sure about gays, or americans. but for us straight guys in canada we dont got to worry about shit like that!!!

Cripes, this guy's attitude is scary....did you pay ANY attention to anything you were told in high school? Do you read books, magazines, the newspaper? Do you watch the news? Basic Knowledge: Most diseases pass from person to person via direct mucus membrane contact. This means: dick/dick dick/pussy dick/anal dick/mouth contact (or any combo of these) or by bodily fluid contact with any mucus membranes, and in some cases (like genital warts) skin to skin contact can be enough. So any part of your body that is naturally moist can conduct pathogens into your body very easily. So yeah, mouth, nose, eyes, asshole, vagina, dickhole....all these can conduct diseases. This is how people contract viruses and diseases.

So in the same way that you don't know your ass from your elbow, viruses and diseases don't know the difference between, say, your asshole, pisshole or your mouth....so if they come into contact with any of these, that provides a direct pathway into the body for infections.

So when you are sucking that guys dick in the club bathroom and he cums all over your mouth/face, it doesn't matter how hot/cute/studly he is, if he fucked a person in the past who had any kind of disease, guess what? Now you could have it.

Be careful out there. There's no such thing as too paranoid.

<<end of rant>>
 

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Having a fetish for condoms, I love giving guys a blow job through condoms. Not that they are dirty or exposed to aids or STDs, I just really enjoy sucking a condomed cock.
Fortunately I have never had anyone question as to why I am unrolling one on their cock, or refuse to let me continue.

After I make them cum, I enjoy still sucking until I get off, although I realize some people are sensitive on continuing after climaxing.
 

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i dont se the point, and personaly never done it,

much rather nothing,

pluss with a condom , no action at the end for me. lol
 

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I have very rarely used a condom for a blowie. I missed the semen. I missed the skin! Still, sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. If the partner is a stranger, bring your own flavored condoms (I like cherry) and put it on him yourself. It's hotter (but trickier) if you use your mouth to apply it. Do not use flavored condoms for intercourse.

Lifestyles makes a 12+1 variety pack with Thyn and Skyn condoms, flavored condoms, a lube sample, and some other stuff. I have the pack, and love it.
 

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I am quite shocked that a couple of people here don't realize that STDs can be transmitted through BJs.
 

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So when you are sucking that guys dick in the club bathroom and he cums all over your mouth/face, it doesn't matter how hot/cute/studly he is, if he fucked a person in the past who had any kind of disease, guess what? Now you could have it.

like I said, I am straight and im a canadian from a small town, its a differet world up here than it is in the overpopulated cities of the USA. and I dont think I ever gotta worry about sucking some dudes cock in the fucking bar bathroom and letting him cum all over my face (wtf is wrong with you guys??!?).

like I said, seems like only gays and americans gotta worry about that shit. me nor my 1000+ straight friends have ever used a condom for a BJ, and none of us have ever gotten an STD from a girl sucking our cocks. give your head a shake!!
 

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like I said, seems like only gays and americans gotta worry about that shit. me nor my 1000+ straight friends have ever used a condom for a BJ, and none of us have ever gotten an STD from a girl sucking our cocks. give your head a shake!!
You don`t have cities in Canada??? :wink: