BJ's - Am I not doing something wrong?

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My BF and I have been having issues when I give him BJs.

Alright, so he's hard. I go on about using bj routine. I start increasing suction.. then he pushes me away cuz piss starts coming out, which right away kills the mood.

He says BJ's arent about suction... just the up and down movement.

Here I was thinking suction was good...

Am I doing something wrong?
 

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Who would lay down the law about the "right" way to give a BJ? If it's right for him and you, it's right. If it's not right for you both, it's not. Suction certainly suits some guys, just not this one. I'm sure there are guys who would just LOVE piss to come out.
 

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as far as I am concerned BJ's are all about licking, sucking, wanking and deepthroating. maybe your bf likes it in a different way and you can find out how he likes it by having him serving you ;Þ
 
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I know you don't want to ask about past partners, but what has worked in the past?

Also, if piss comes out, he may have a medical issue... I am not a doc, but if sounds odd to me.
 

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Make sure he pisses before you start. Suction is a personal choice. It is more about the tongue and bobbing up and down, If you rotate and lap your tongue up and down right behind the head, he should come pretty quickly.
 

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Absolutely not normal, he really should see a doctor. I'm not sure where technique comes into it though - if you're not doing it right, he pees, and if you are, he doesn't? In any case, everyone's different in their blowjob preferences. I myself need the up and down motion - so hand(s) and mouth twisting together, ideally. There isn't enough stimulation for me to cum otherwise. Never took a leak in a girl's mouth before though, even if she happens to stink at giving head. :tongue:
 

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I'm not sure if the "peeing while getting head" thing is a medical issue or not, but it certainly is odd. Might be a mental thing. Who knows. Most guys enjoy suction while giving head, but if he doesn't, then don't do it. There's no right or wrong way to give a blowjob. There's what works and what doesn't, and that's different for everyone.
 

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For me it's all about tongue, though I do love my foreskin to be suckled.

I've never heard of urine literally being "sucked out" by BJ so not sure what's up with that. I agree, a trip to the urologist is warranted.
 

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I have given a fiar few bjs, and I have NEVER seen urine come out. As others have said, it might be worth consulting a specialist about that.

Is suction the right way to do it? Depends on the receiver. Some have loved suction, others have hated it. You need to adapt your technique for each person you are with.