Black and White

[B_smooth_7]

Is there a taboo on white and black guys being together? I love black cock. Last night I went to an all black sex club (that says for black men and their admirers) and was one of three white guys there among about 50 black guys. I was basically ignored. In the dark room guys were feeling their way around and one thing each of them did was go straight to my hair - then move on. I got a blow job but even being in the doggy position almost begging to be f*cked I was ignored.

What's with that?

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

maybe because you're 56? just an honest answer.

 

[B_smooth_7]

You can't tell age in a dark room. As I mentioned, guys would feel their way around, grab my cock and then feel my hair, then stop and move on.

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

you could tell my skin texture.

 

[D_Aurifice_Stupher]

What does age have to do with it anyhow? Look at my pics, do I look bad for being 51? I've been told by several younger guys that I have met that I am hot. I do not think much is going to change in five years. I'll keep up the exercise and eating right, staying away from the sugary drinks, and probably look the same at 56 as I do at 51.

Skin texture? People can feel the difference? I couldn't, my fingers are not that sensitive. LOL

 

[Novaboy]

Your original post says for black men and their admirers. Well that does not mean that the black men there will "admire" the white guys that show up. If I went to such an event I would assume that my role as one of the admirers would be to "admire" and not be "admired" myself. Also, did you where the PA in your photos. Not everyone likes those. If I was at a bathhouse and felt the PA I would move on. It's just not my thing. Sounds like you had a dissapointing evening. Too bad.

 

[MuscledHorse]

I have a huge weakness for black guys so a place like that would be a great find. I have taken (and continue to take) piles of black guys' cocks....but outside of group settings it is one on one and nearly always on the DL.

 

[826541]

Well I have had four black boyfriends in total and we were each of us quite happy and proud to be seen on each other's arm. Just as so many white guys have a thing for black men, so too many black gay men have a weakness for white cock. I have had sexual relations with other black guys down the years and am not at all conscious of any prejudice from "them" to "us". A guy doesn't go with you because he just doesn't fancy you in my experience, not because of colour

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

What does age have to do with it anyhow? Look at my pics, do I look bad for being 51? I've been told by several younger guys that I have met that I am hot. I do not think much is going to change in five years. I'll keep up the exercise and eating right, staying away from the sugary drinks, and probably look the same at 56 as I do at 51.

Skin texture? People can feel the difference? I couldn't, my fingers are not that sensitive. LOL

Remember not everyone ages with grace.

 

[SyddyKitty]

Remember not everyone ages with grace.

Even more true for those that don't moisturize regularly.

 

[B_smooth_7]

I don't believe that I look 56. I've been told that I still look as though I'm in my late 40s so I'll own that! Regarding skin texture, you can feel someone's arm or leg - or ass - and tell if they're black or white, I think. I'm basically hairless - naturally. My ass is as smooth a baby's and so are my arms. So I think that can be ruled out. And yes, there were guys who felt my cock, realized the PA was there and moved on. THAT I understand. But when a guy felt the hair on my head and moved on, I realized they knew who was who in the dark room.

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

I don't believe that I look 56. I've been told that I still look as though I'm in my late 40s so I'll own that! Regarding skin texture, you can feel someone's arm or leg - or ass - and tell if they're black or white, I think. I'm basically hairless - naturally. My ass is as smooth a baby's and so are my arms. So I think that can be ruled out. And yes, there were guys who felt my cock, realized the PA was there and moved on. THAT I understand. But when a guy felt the hair on my head and moved on, I realized they knew who was who in the dark room.

Let me rephrase... Skin color cannot be felt but you can guess how old someone is by the elasticity, does it feel dry and flakey , wrinkles, abnormalities that develop over the years... etc.

 

[kayman]

You know you are in Atlanta, the 1 of the only 2 heavily black gay cities (the other is Washington DC) in the nation, right? I am going to be honest, most black guys here aren't exactly looking to deal with any white guys. There are a few, but usually they are looking for the model type or football runningback or quarterback body type amongst white guys.

Also let's not pretend like there isn't a schism that doesn't exist amongst black gay & bisexuals and the rest of the gay & bisexuals here. Go to Adam4Adam, Men4Now, or even on Grindr and you will see just as many white and other guys with profiles that say "no blacks", thus as result a number of black guys have "no whites" or "blacks only".

Personally, I don't have a racial exclusively habit. However, most of my gay and bisexual male friends here are black. If a white guy is not trying to actually date them then they feel as if they're being objectified for their dick and/or ass. In totality, black guys just tend to stick to themselves for carnal relations. So until this whole "big black cock" phenomena dies then you will find more blacks offput by that one than into it...

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

You know you are in Atlanta, the 1 of 2 of the only heavily black gay cities (the other is Washington DC) in the nation, right? I am going to be honest, most black guys here aren't exactly looking to deal with anybody white guys. There are a few, but they are usually looking for the model type or football runningback or quarterback body type amongst white guys.

Also let's not pretend like there isn't a schism that doesn't exist amongst black gay & bisexuals and the rest of the gay & bisexuals here. Go to Adam4Adam, Men4Now, or even on Grindr and you will see just as many white and other guys with profiles that say "no blacks", thus as result a number of black guys have "no whites" or "blacks only".

Personally, I don't have a racial exclusively habit. However, most of my gay and bisexual male friends here are black and they feel as if white guy is not trying to actually date them then they feel as if they are being objectified for their dick and/or ass. In totality, black guys just tend to stick to themselves for carnal relations, so until this whole "big black cock" phenomena dies then you find more blacks offput by that one than into it...

well said.

 

[mallak]

Don't analyze it too much , at least you got a blowjob.

 

[B_smooth_7]

You know you are in Atlanta, the 1 of 2 of the only heavily black gay cities (the other is Washington DC) in the nation, right? I am going to be honest, most black guys here aren't exactly looking to deal with anybody white guys. There are a few, but they are usually looking for the model type or football runningback or quarterback body type amongst white guys.

Also let's not pretend like there isn't a schism that doesn't exist amongst black gay & bisexuals and the rest of the gay & bisexuals here. Go to Adam4Adam, Men4Now, or even on Grindr and you will see just as many white and other guys with profiles that say "no blacks", thus as result a number of black guys have "no whites" or "blacks only".

Personally, I don't have a racial exclusively habit. However, most of my gay and bisexual male friends here are black and they feel as if white guy is not trying to actually date them then they feel as if they are being objectified for their dick and/or ass. In totality, black guys just tend to stick to themselves for carnal relations, so until this whole "big black cock" phenomena dies then you find more blacks offput by that one than into it...

Thanks for that observation. I lived in Europe for 16 years in a city which was almost exclusively white. When I got back to the US I was just amazed at how sexy black men are. It's nothing about cock size; just an honest attraction. And strangely while I'm attracted to thin white guys, thick black guys make my head turn.

 

[rollerboy]

In Atlanta, too and know several black/white couples!! Keep looking .

 

[Zeeky]

You know you are in Atlanta, the 1 of the only 2 heavily black gay cities (the other is Washington DC) in the nation, right? I am going to be honest, most black guys here aren't exactly looking to deal with any white guys. There are a few, but usually they are looking for the model type or football runningback or quarterback body type amongst white guys.

Also let's not pretend like there isn't a schism that doesn't exist amongst black gay & bisexuals and the rest of the gay & bisexuals here. Go to Adam4Adam, Men4Now, or even on Grindr and you will see just as many white and other guys with profiles that say "no blacks", thus as result a number of black guys have "no whites" or "blacks only".

Personally, I don't have a racial exclusively habit. However, most of my gay and bisexual male friends here are black. If a white guy is not trying to actually date them then they feel as if they're being objectified for their dick and/or ass. In totality, black guys just tend to stick to themselves for carnal relations. So until this whole "big black cock" phenomena dies then you will find more blacks offput by that one than into it...

I mostly agree with this except I will say that there is nothing wrong with a flattering reputation! I do think that the BBC thing does make it harder for white guys looking for black bottoms though because that dynamic hasn't been as promoted although I've noticed that niche is becoming increasingly popular too.

But every race has their own version of flattering sexual "stereotypes". Italians. Latinos. French. Usually with other races, though, its a more general "sexiness" or "passionate" and not limited to one specific thing- which allows a more diverse appreciation of them.

 

[theplayerking]

At sex clubs/parties, the phrase “and their admirers” is always problematic. Parties cater to a particular demographic or sexual practice for a reason: Guys usually self-select when it comes to group sex.

I “admire” white, 20-something, muscle jocks, but I’m not in that demographic. If I showed up to one of their sex parties (and assuming they let me in) I shouldn’t be surprised if most of the guys didn’t want to have sex with me.

Specifically African-American parties often attract guys on the down-low. They have no problem having sex with other hyper-masculine black guys, but fucking a white guy is “gay.” I don’t agree with the rationale, but having group sex with a room full of strangers is not about logic.

I suggest going to a mixed club. The guys might be more open.

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

They have no problem having sex with other hyper-masculine black guys...

lolz