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My personal experience (and please don’t consider this the norm) but I’ve naturally reached a level of where you just start avoiding stuff, like...
  • Random hookups- avoid
  • Locker-room showers- avoid
  • Random situation where you might end up naked- avoid
  • Overly aggressive people who show “out-of-the-blue” sexual interest- avoid
  • Drunk coworker sex convo- avoid
  • #1 -Let no one in your immediate social circle see, know, or get confirmation on how small you are.

Man, don't let it bring you down. Are you THAT small, first of all? Sorry to emphasize but, just like dysmorphia (where people see them as fat when they totally aren't) the way you see your penis is probably not the same as someone from the outside would. I'm sure it's just fine.
 
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Man, don't let it bring you down. Are you THAT small, first of all? Sorry to emphasize but, just like dysmorphia (where people see them as fat when they totally aren't) the way you see your penis is probably not the same as someone from the outside would. I'm sure it's just fine.
I'm in the same position as him...small(er) dick black man...it's not about how you perceive yourself, but how you are perceived by potential partners. I live by all of those rules and a few more. And I don't need you to go look at my dick pic and tell me my 5 inches is avg and this and that...Because that is not how it is being PERCEIVED in hookups, etc when they wrap their hand around it and just a head (if that) is sticking out
 

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I'm in the same position as him...small(er) dick black man...it's not about how you perceive yourself, but how you are perceived by potential partners. I live by all of those rules and a few more. And I don't need you to go look at my dick pic and tell me my 5 inches is avg and this and that...Because that is not how it is being PERCEIVED in hookups, etc when they wrap their hand around it and just a head (if that) is sticking out

Well, these potential partners are stupid then. Honestly, I've seen a bit of everything in hookups. Smaller, and bigger. I don't look at that or FOR that, it's always "make the best with what you have at hand" (so to speak) and a connection with someone. But I guess I'm in the minority. And by the way, I liked your dick pic.
 
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Well, these potential partners are stupid then. Honestly, I've seen a bit of everything in hookups. Smaller, and bigger. I don't look at that or FOR that, it's always "make the best with what you have at hand" (so to speak) and a connection with someone. But I guess I'm in the minority. And by the way, I liked your dick pic.
yes...thank you...that is YOUR experience. It however, has not been MINE. What you're saying is a lot of that POSITIVE talk that ppl spew when a small dick black man is being discussed. That is simply not our reality. It's just not. I've been in relationships with women liked me for me, as ppl say I should look for...but sooner or later, my short dick size came up as an issue...sooner or later
 

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I'm not denying your experience, and I'm not spewing stuff randomly as you seem to infer, I'm aware of that reality thanks to my best friend. Okay, that's not ME; but I've learned a lot about that pressure and reality through him. As I was saying, born and raised in Africa, by African parents, and under 6 inches. So needless to say what is usually expected of him.
 

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yes...thank you...that is YOUR experience. It however, has not been MINE. What you're saying is a lot of that POSITIVE talk that ppl spew when a small dick black man is being discussed. That is simply not our reality. It's just not. I've been in relationships with women liked me for me, as ppl say I should look for...but sooner or later, my short dick size came up as an issue...sooner or later
Okay, so you've obviously got an answer to refute any and all suggestions anyone can offer. Your dick will end any relationship, no matter what. Sounds like game over.
 
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Still relevant. If every single relationship, casual or otherwise, you end up treated poorly... Maybe the common denominator is you. You may have some really garbage taste in people. That doesn't excuse anyone treating a person poorly, or justify shit behavior. What it is, is if you keep picking people with the same negative crap, change your behavior. I would have zero tolerance or interest in someone burdened with self-loathing. That crap isn't healthy or pleasant to be around.

It's like the people who flash their money and expensive shit to attract someone, then complain about gold diggers.
 

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As long as it works, every guy should be happy with what they have. I understand why it can be difficult to believe it if you're smaller than average but seriously guys, it's you we pick not your cocks.
These guys never fucking listen. It's an emotional disorder. Or the lamest possible troll for SPH ever.
 

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i have to admit, after all the hours i have spent in the internet searching for dick pics: it looks so unusual, like a contradiction... yet only because this "industry" and the media created that image of large cocks on black guys in all of us. man he looks so damn sexy!
 

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As long as it works, every guy should be happy with what they have. I understand why it can be difficult to believe it if you're smaller than average but seriously guys, it's you we pick not your cocks.
But your tag line says "size queen by experience" which seems to contradict what you are saying here. Size queens by definition value penis size as an important if not necessary characteristic. No?
 

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It's mixed bag.

Size doesn't matter in BF material. Never has and never will.

If I'm looking for a fuckbuddy it might be different. It depends on my mood. Sometimes I just pick a guy because I like him. In that case size isn't important. Sometimes I just want raw sex with a hung guy - and then size definitely matter. In the latter case I'm still drawn to him for other reasons but I check the goods before I take the next step.