you must have self confidence . i to am a black man with a average size . When i was younger i use to see guys in the locker room bigger than me. I am 6" hard .average most of my friends where 7" or over that. I learn while i was in college that size does not matter. its you the individual that it is attached to matters the most.
So I've watched alot of porn over the years (gay and straight) and I have come to dislike my cock size. I know every black man isn't 8 to 10 inches but I feel like I should be bigger than what I am. Is there anything I can do to feel comfortable about my cock size. View attachment 37771401
Thanks!!!The problem is porn. Porn paints a narrative about certain groups of people to feed the desires of those that are the majority and those that are in power. I don't think you should feel ashamed but I do think the porn industry needs to get away from the stereotypes because while it may be popular, it is also harmful to those in the stereotyped groups that don't fit the stereotype.
Thanks so much for this ❤I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. I think many people feel like you. I wish there were better statistics out there. It might be 100 years from now before there is any real reliable data set that more definitively defines "average" or "common" sizes. By the looks of your penis in the picture it appears to be on the smaller size - maybe 4 inches? I've said before that my 5.5 inch cock has been one of the smallest penises I've encountered in my 60-70 or so cocks that I've encountered. Perhaps my sample is skewed because I tend to look for guys with bigger cocks than me. It's what turns me on. On the gay, side one advantage of being smaller is that you can have an appreciation for a bigger cock and still enjoy a bigger cock of your partner. If you are a bottom, it really doesn't matter that much and sometimes as a top the bottom doesn't want too big of a cock in them. If you are straight, like many others have said, I don't think very many women are size queens and they like more the full package. But those of us with average to smaller penises have to accept reality and it kind of sucks honestly. But on the other hand, I was blessed with good looks and a good personality so I can count my blessings there, too. I do think the human variety of cock sizes is one of God's cruelist tricks.
Thanks so much for this ❤