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So I've watched alot of porn over the years (gay and straight) and I have come to dislike my cock size. I know every black man isn't 8 to 10 inches but I feel like I should be bigger than what I am. Is there anything I can do to feel comfortable about my cock size. Screenshot_20210706-203225_Gallery.jpg
 

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you must have self confidence . i to am a black man with a average size . When i was younger i use to see guys in the locker room bigger than me. I am 6" hard .average most of my friends where 7" or over that. I learn while i was in college that size does not matter. its you the individual that it is attached to matters the most.
 

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The problem is porn. Porn paints a narrative about certain groups of people to feed the desires of those that are the majority and those that are in power. I don't think you should feel ashamed but I do think the porn industry needs to get away from the stereotypes because while it may be popular, it is also harmful to those in the stereotyped groups that don't fit the stereotype.
 

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you must have self confidence . i to am a black man with a average size . When i was younger i use to see guys in the locker room bigger than me. I am 6" hard .average most of my friends where 7" or over that. I learn while i was in college that size does not matter. its you the individual that it is attached to matters the most.

6” hard is well above average.
 
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So I've watched alot of porn over the years (gay and straight) and I have come to dislike my cock size. I know every black man isn't 8 to 10 inches but I feel like I should be bigger than what I am. Is there anything I can do to feel comfortable about my cock size. View attachment 37771401

What size are you hard? I’m sure you’re fine.
 

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The problem is porn. Porn paints a narrative about certain groups of people to feed the desires of those that are the majority and those that are in power. I don't think you should feel ashamed but I do think the porn industry needs to get away from the stereotypes because while it may be popular, it is also harmful to those in the stereotyped groups that don't fit the stereotype.
Thanks!!!
 
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I know you can't just switch off your feelings, but:
1) your size is totally fine.
2) for the majority of people, size doesn't matter. It could be a problem if you had a micro penis, but that's not the case.
3) porn is just for fantasies, none really expect to fuck their step-whatever, or that any black guy is Blacked size material.

Did you have any sort of complain about your size? I guess not, isn't?
 
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Disclaimer: 50-something white guy, 30+years retired Army. Point being that after you've slept, shit, lived and died with about every variety of human on the planet... you don't give a shit about that stuff. That means you're not offended by it, and often inadvertently offend - particularly in today's climate...

Anyway, sure there's going to be a stereotype, and a fetish, because it's still "taboo" or maybe today it's just "hip". Unfortunately that's probably mostly going to come from people who don't share a similar background as you. If that's who you're interested in, you've got a much stronger likelihood of encountering those looking for a stereotype.

I suspect that black women (and gay black men) have a pretty good idea of what "average" is across the spectrum of black male. I'm pretty damn sure that's going to be the human average. 5 and a half-ish long. 4 and a half-ish circumference. You're probably not going to find a great deal of surprise (and your dick looks perfectly fine to me). You'll both know that you ain't the biggest, but you ain't the smallest either. Just like humans who happen to be caucasian. Us white guys have the same issue. they know there are big white dicks too. I bet a latino will have a surprisingly similar story...

So at the end of the day, it's just a matter of how much awkwardness you want to tolerate.
 

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I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. I think many people feel like you. I wish there were better statistics out there. It might be 100 years from now before there is any real reliable data set that more definitively defines "average" or "common" sizes. By the looks of your penis in the picture it appears to be on the smaller size - maybe 4 inches? I've said before that my 5.5 inch cock has been one of the smallest penises I've encountered in my 60-70 or so cocks that I've encountered. Perhaps my sample is skewed because I tend to look for guys with bigger cocks than me. It's what turns me on. On the gay, side one advantage of being smaller is that you can have an appreciation for a bigger cock and still enjoy a bigger cock of your partner. If you are a bottom, it really doesn't matter that much and sometimes as a top the bottom doesn't want too big of a cock in them. If you are straight, like many others have said, I don't think very many women are size queens and they like more the full package. But those of us with average to smaller penises have to accept reality and it kind of sucks honestly. But on the other hand, I was blessed with good looks and a good personality so I can count my blessings there, too. I do think the human variety of cock sizes is one of God's cruelist tricks.
 

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I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. I think many people feel like you. I wish there were better statistics out there. It might be 100 years from now before there is any real reliable data set that more definitively defines "average" or "common" sizes. By the looks of your penis in the picture it appears to be on the smaller size - maybe 4 inches? I've said before that my 5.5 inch cock has been one of the smallest penises I've encountered in my 60-70 or so cocks that I've encountered. Perhaps my sample is skewed because I tend to look for guys with bigger cocks than me. It's what turns me on. On the gay, side one advantage of being smaller is that you can have an appreciation for a bigger cock and still enjoy a bigger cock of your partner. If you are a bottom, it really doesn't matter that much and sometimes as a top the bottom doesn't want too big of a cock in them. If you are straight, like many others have said, I don't think very many women are size queens and they like more the full package. But those of us with average to smaller penises have to accept reality and it kind of sucks honestly. But on the other hand, I was blessed with good looks and a good personality so I can count my blessings there, too. I do think the human variety of cock sizes is one of God's cruelist tricks.
Thanks so much for this ❤
 

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Thanks so much for this ❤

It is also so weird that cock size is so random. Each of us, just through random luck, could have an 8 inch cock or a 4 inch cock. There is no rhyme or reason. Some are just plain lucky. It is hard to deal with. I struggle to accept my 5.5 incher even though I have literally never had a complaint as they say and have had several lovers say that I was either perfect or even "big." But it is a struggle every day...
 

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Most of porn is racist! Most of it is white guys with a variety of dick sizes. Blacks and Asians are excluded from a lot of it unless you're a big dicked Black guy, 'cause it's some long seated white fantasy/horror racist cliche. And Asians because they are supposedly little dicked! Nothing could be further from the truth, from personal experience I've spent time with dudes from a lot of different races and ethnicities, some are bigger than average and some on the smaller side. My friend the biggest appeal is the sexy confident man with a well thought of personage, well ground and small ego that makes them truly sexy. Fuck a well turned, confident man, with empathy and caring and a good sexual appetite is majorly sexy!
Does your dick work? Do you love to fool around. Hell I get turned on by a sexy speaking voice, a turned out fit dude, a turned out ass, hot lips, a fine neck, pert nipples, a full sac, furry legs, delicious pits all these things and more and of course their dick. So many things for me make a man hot. Your dick is fine and I for one wouldn't turn it or you down unless you were an asshole hahaha...
 
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My two cents has been this as long as it works you're all right.

Things that can make you feel better is prob changing your lifestyle. what you eat what you drink, exercising more. You would be surprised how reframing your body can hav an impact on how you see your self and your dick.
 

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It's actually refreshing to know that people are starting to analyze those implications and stereotypes further. The porn industry is not regulated and nobody has held the industry to task about some of the imagery that they are promoting to their horny consumers. It's obvious that those of the marginalized groups are not the concern for those porn producers and directors that continue to pump out that kind of content. The money they garner from their core audience is what speaks to them but what does that say about people in general that are fans of that kind of porn?
 
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