Black men who are embarrassed being large

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some comments that my white friends have made have been a little embarassing, and sometimes ridiculous ("C'mon dude, you're black. You have a 12 inch cock!). I never feed into it or agree. But I also don't argue LOL. Those guys are speaking out of ignorance, but I'm sure there is some speculation because I am also very tall with big hands, feet etc. Some of my friends though have heard stories from girls about me, so when they bring it up all I can do is laugh and try to be humble. And when any of my friends DO make a comment about me having a 'big black dick' or whatever, it's never really in a deragotory sense. It's more used as a form of reverence and admiration so it doesn't really bother me too much, but I try to be humble so there is a slight embarassment, but nothing serious.
 
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hope you are not to scared by your step dad.mine was a bastard too.I have tried to reply twice but internet went off as normal as it dose.

all the best Luke in the uk white british.


while its working I was made to wank a man off in the park when i was only 9 years old this has stoped with me all my life i am now 45 I am a shamed of what i have done and i know he his free and i am walking a round with this in my head it makes me feel like durt and now i think i have a small penis its done a lot of thing to me, hope you are coping ok with the monsters in your head hope this goes this time round.
 
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I am not tryin to create any discrimination between the sized of other races or nationailties by comparing the black man's penis being potrayed and sterotyped as always being huge...these elements and issues already exist in our societies enough with discussion.
But, here's my question, I would particularly like to the black guys of lpsg to address:
Black Brothas
Have you ever really been made to feel ashame or embrassed for being well endowed or had real inward hurt feelings in some situations with whispers, comments, jokes,looks and stares because your penis is larger than average standard size.

I'm talkin about a little bit deeper then just shy with fears that you don't or can't measure up to the expectations....on the contrary, you actually do measure up with that 8 inches and beyond.
I know that are some of us (black men) will say: "Man, you trippin
I aint never been shame of my dick being big...I'm black & I'm proud!"
Some will say I tuck it for the element of surprise. I aint an exhibitionist.
Or pass it off as just haters. But has it really hurt your feelings and levels comfort zone enough to think and say damn...why me? You say, No!
Yea Yea right... lier:biggrin1:
But there are some of us that have or had real deep issues of embrassment(s) for some reasons with confrontations about having a larger penis...inspite of all those black brothas that reverted & got sucked into the black men in pron showing their circus sized huge swingin dicks.
I aint mad at them...takes something special inorder to do it besides having a big dick and black.
You may be perfectly honest and say yes I am or have or yes I do.
If you care to elaborate you may.
I know for sure about two brothas here, has had some issues as I have... in experience(s) cause we have shared feelings.
My major issues and scarings came by way of my step-dad who didn't fall short by giving me naked beatens, whippings and punishments in the home basement, because of my manhood endowment ( having larger gentials) And also gettin a baby by 13 yrs old.
He always generally did it when just me and him was home. But, my step brother knew but did say a word.
Step-dad... sounds sick and strange...absolutely !...but back in that day, parents ruled... wasn't no hot line for child abuse or social services; blacks didn't do it that way any hows. You got your ass whipped till you couldn't sit down or hurt so bad you couldn't even cry, you just sucked in air for breath before the next lick across your ass and legs or back. In my case, gentials too.
He made me ashame for having large private parts, but never touched or whipped my step-brothers for any reason(s) to my knowlegde.
Now you may think..that there's more to it then just this...possibly so deeper down resentments.
But, when it came directly out of his mouth and actions he took with me,
he broke me down wrost then any white man would do to his plantation slave.
This was one of the roots of my issues I delt with to overcome and cope.
I've been open.... extreme...yea, but shit happens!
How about you?
I will not excluded any males that have an opinion to express on the trend topic...but share your nationality/race if not black.
I guess this trend topic could have well fit in: Living with a Large Penis.
But I hope I will get some honest feed back, attention or pms even.
Open up Brothas...be real with it! I know you on here!
Thank you lpsg.

I'm not a black man but you bring up an interesting point. Often white people are resentful/jealous toward blacks because they think they have bigger penises. But back in the days of the Greeks, a small penis was considered more "god-like" and therefore better, and since our society is based on Greek society, it makes sense that a large penis would still be frowned upon.

Also stepdad relationships are, it seems to me, almost always abusive in some way. I'm sorry to hear that he did that to you...
 

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white man, Your step father was a criminal, and if he is still living, he could be prosecuted for child abuse. Most states have no statute of limitations on that type of crime. I have always, always admired big dicks, I have a smaller than average one. I am sorry you had to suffer for your gift.
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My dad had me put on basket ball shorts. And told me not to show it for free, but charge them lunch money. LOL.

My step dad on the other hand was concern with me and my brothers getting girls pregant, senior year in high school, all the kids on the block were becoming baby daddies and mothers. So he would give us crewfew and listen to our converstations with the girls and have talk about protecting our bodies, and that having kids isn't the same as having a pet.

But in all seriousness, I think its really hard to have talks. Sometimes meanness is a guy way of getting his point across.
 

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black and in highschool it was really weird the whole big penis thing
its not like it was bad i was just so disporportional
i was so short but yet with this big thing in the middle of my legs
but i enjoyed the comments i guess
but i was still kind of embarassed and i laughed with everyone but still i was kinda like . . . u know just . . . embarassed
i shielded my embarassment with confidence i guess
but i really wasn't that embarassed more just uncomfortable

Short? Big dick? Great personality? Sounds like the perfect man to me as long as you like to cuddle too! :wink:
 

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Whopper-lee, sounds like your step-dad envied you being hung when he wasn't. I'd bet that abusive bastard was just insecure about other guys being more hung than he was.

Sorry you went through that crap. Nobody deserves abuse. I was reading this blog post here on LPSG about how it says "the abuser has a problem that only he can fix". You step-dad certainly needed to take responsibility for his actions, but that bastard never had the balls to own his shit.

Remember, no matter how bad your past was, you can still choose to have a wonderful future and treat others with the respect even if you were not.
 

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So far, most of my prospective sexual parters have expected me to be well hung because of my race - but they still are fairly impressed when they see exactly HOW hung...:p

I've always wondered what my life would be like if I had a small penis - having to wonder "was he expected something bigger?" or "is he disappointed?"
 

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Not quite related but have a very good friend- 6'5", 325,big guy, he is a TRUE grower, looks like an acorn when soft, when hard has a hefty 7x8 uncut (a 'beercan') and huge nuts...a great guy but had a mom growing up who hated MEN. So she would pull down my friends pants (up until he was 15) and laugh at the size of his dick (he never realized little boys ALL have tiny dicks). This guy has battled his weight since I have known him 30+ years.... he is so embarrassed by the size of his dick...and his body- really sad. He is fascinated by my dick (we are old fuck buds) and can not get it thru his head he is 'hung' too. He once told me he thought rubbers were supposed to hurt to 'hurry up' sex (he has big hands so to him his dick is small also)...

Thankfully I have never met his sicko mother... poor guy....he can't see what a great (hung) guy he is...
 

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I'm in quite a different predicament. I'm the only black guy in my social group (mostly arabs and asians) and my friends and I share a lot of banter and ethnic jokes with one another. They've started to comment a lot (almost every day) about my supposed large black penis in jokes at first it didn't bother, I would talk about how 'small' indian/asian men are etc but it's beggining to piss me off. I've let them know this and the response has been ok but chill what's wrong with having a big dick take it as a compliment.

I think maybe the real reason I don't like this is because I don't measure up to the stereotype, irony is that one of my friends told us his measured size approx. 8" and I'm barely 6.5" but still talks about my massive cock.

Definitly prefer being known for a large penis than a small one but not sure how to handle the situation now... I'm doubting my confidence now everytime it's brought up

As you can tell from being on this site this topic fascinates me and would like to know how everyone in the group compares just wish they'd start talking about their own dicks as much as mine; wondering how to do this without appearing to be gay.
 

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i feel excited looking other dick, if they large feels better. I think there are no reason to be ashame for it, if you give some pleasure the others.
 

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Whopper-lee, you've spoken to me and I've read about what your step-father did to you and I'm so sorry you had to be treated as such. That monster deserves no less than to be drawn and quartered by motorcycles and have the remains tossed in an unmarked grave. My experience growing up in a predominantly black/latino area is that having a big dick made it clearly evident of your manhood. Growing up I didn't have anywhere near the size I do now and as a result I was treated by some peers as a freak or weakling. One kid I knew, 16 y.o. Kenneth Hardy had easily the biggest penis I had ever seen amongst my other classmates. It was obviously a 11"-12" incher and everyone knew he was packing. Even the girls knew and more than half of them advised others to have sex with him. From time to time he liked to taunt me with it while calling me all sorts of homophobic slurs. One time in the swimming pool locker room he came up to me with his semi-erect dick in his hand shaking it in my face calling me a "fag". Those days have long passed and I'm a bigger man now but I still have a complex. My dick is not big enough and so I must become the bigger man I wished I were all those years ago. It's sad but I figured out I suffer from a form of body dysmorphia. As a black man I have suffered racist statements from non-blacks that has lead me to believe if the only thing I have of value is a larger-than-average penis then in the eyes of a fucked-up society it really isn't much. I recall a time two years ago (I have posted it here before) during filming where I was searching for bathroom to remove my clothing and put on another set of long underwear for the exterior scenes. It would have required me to strip down completely. When asked by a white man twice my age why I needed a rest room I confided that I needed to put on an extra pair of underwear and I didn't want to that far strip down in front of other men in the dressing room. He then told me out loud in public that if he had what us brothers were packing he wouldn't have any problem changing in a public dressing room with other men around. I was somewhat shocked and disappointed at his racist comment but this is what we have to deal with in america as black men and it's sickening. It's clear penis size obsession is just another creator of status anxiety. Ask anyone who has heard of Emmitt Till.
 
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And that's the elephant in the room: White culture's lust for, fascination with, and simultaneous twisted envy of, Black men's (often mythically) huge penises.

Everything else--the long history of lynchings in this country, including the sexually explicit aspects; White women's fear of Black men, often crossing to the other side of the street; Black men perceived as being more physically aggressive in school and in general; Black men being locked up and even executed at a rather disproportionate rate compared to their crimes and their numbers in society; and any number of other instances of institutionalized and culturally sanctioned racism--stems from this. It's obvious that it occurs, and it's obvious that it's pathological.

Sure, I stare if I see a huge dick. I also stare if I see huge pecs or glutes, or big breasts on a woman, or fantastically attractive faces. It's because they're outside the norm.

But after a moment of absolute awe, I collect myself and remind myself to treat the person as an individual and as a fellow participant in the joy and suffering of humanity. (And besides, often those physical attributes are simply the result of chance: the person had won that particular genetic lottery. Nothing they'd done had made an impact on how they looked.)

In a nutshell, we all need to learn how to appreciate difference without obsessing over it, particularly in the twisted ways that White culture treats Black men out of sheer stereotyping and envy.

NCbear (who doesn't usually avoid saying in public that "the emperor has no clothes")