Black Men Who Love White Cock

B_cricketsliar

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Posts
245
Media
0
Likes
11
Points
161
Age
34
barbarluna said:
I work at a large Financial Services firm in Philadelphia. In the Executive Suite the urinals don't have dividers so you get to see what all the higher ups are working with. I once had a White Executive tell me that he loved standing next to Black Guys lower on the Corporate ladder, and dwarfing them with his hugh penis. He told me that dwarfing Black guys was a sort of sport for him, much like Black guys fucking white chicks is a act of "Racial Revenge". I was stunned. I mean I was speechless. This guy then proceeded to ask me what most Black guys really think about White guys cocks.

I mean who the fuck speaks for any one Race, on any subject, right? Most average guys might internally be curious, but they would'nt say shit? This ideal of Black Men Loving White Cock is big news to me, though really it is'nt.

Is there some group dedicated to Black Men loving white cock??
There could be a group, but I don't know of one. As far as what you experienced is concerned, it simply illustrates the mutual curiosity between men of both races about the size, and shape of each other cocks. We waste so much time talking about the myth of this, and the myth of that- when the reality is that men believe cocks signal concrete power differential's in our society. I have to ask myself why a White Executive would single out his Black subordinates in such a manner? Because he's a twisted SOB, or because in a Male Dominated Racialized Corporate environment- his Cock size reifies his high position in the strata. Indeed, it does soud like sport- debunking a myth that would make otherwise supreme white men lesser than
Black men. Is it by chance, that this guy used the word Dwarf, which connotates being of lesser stature, diminuitive, weaker, I even submit less Male. Is the end result then, that this guy want's to make Black Men feel less Male, less human?

Is there more to the story?
 

D_Kirkhaus Komandohanger

Just Browsing
Joined
Oct 12, 2005
Posts
74
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
151
cricketsliar said:
A little homophobia-yes. But also Black boys are taught much earlier not to experiment with their private parts, and also not to let other look or touch their "things".

What the fuck are you talking about? You keep making these ridiculous generalizations, that have absolutely to basis in fact. Show me scientifc proof that blacks are taught this at a young age.
 

D_alex8

Member
Joined
Dec 15, 2005
Posts
8,055
Media
0
Likes
1,296
Points
208
Location
Germany
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
Ifrit said:
This is absolute bullshit.
It certainly seems like an attempt to rewrite 'desire' and 'personal preference' along some kind of pseudo-intellectualized racial/racist lines, rather than to accept that such elements of personal taste are defined by any number of factors, most of which likely have a lot more to do with barely-pinpointable fleeting moments, influeces and impressions that at some point stuck deep in that individual's subconscious, as opposed to any long-term socio-cultural factors.

Cricket seems also to be rewriting the lust and love of black/white relationships in terms of a power struggle and a social hierarchy ... two of the social constructs that such relationships actually do much to contradict through their very expressions of desire and emotions.

The title of this thread is also highly unfortunate (to say the least), in that it seems to suggest that black men may be interested not in white men, but merely in white cock. In this way, it reinforces the stereotype of black hypersexuality by establishing black interest purely in a sexual rather than an emotional/whole-person-oriented goal.

I also have to concur that most of cricket's assertions appear 'made up' on the spot in order to suit his cod-psychology arguments. These assertions --- never having encountered the term 'snow queen', for example --- to me bespeak someone who may well have very little experience of the phenomena he is seeking to describe. Never having heard of terms like luau queen, kosher queen or communion queen I could almost understand, ... but snow queen is such a widespread usage in the contexts you are claiming knowledge of that I am left almost speechless (he noted at the end of his fourth paragraph of near-speechlessness :rolleyes:).
 

B_RoysToy

Cherished Member
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Posts
7,119
Media
0
Likes
284
Points
283
Age
33
Location
memphis, tennessee
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
Ifrit said:
What the fuck are you talking about? You keep making these ridiculous generalizations, that have absolutely to basis in fact. Show me scientifc proof that blacks are taught this at a young age.[/quot]

Thanks, Ifrit. After reading all this thread, the one thought that 'jumped out at me' was this generalization. Generalizing is so easy to avoid and I never cease to wonder why some are so incessantly addicted to its use. The practice usually seems to raise its ugly head when anything connected with race is discussed!
 

ChuckRich

Experimental Member
Joined
Feb 21, 2006
Posts
319
Media
0
Likes
15
Points
163
Location
SC, USA
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
Alex8 said:
pseudo-intellectualized
And with that you have summed up Cricket's posts pretty well. No offense meant Cricket, that was just my honest reaction to your posts here. It seems like you put a lot of effort into making your opinions seem logical with the way you write them rather than actually basing them on logic.

The funny part is, "snow queen" I've heard plenty of times but this is the first I've ever head "dinge queen".
 

Lex

Expert Member
Joined
Jun 11, 2004
Posts
8,253
Media
0
Likes
118
Points
268
Location
In Your Darkest Thoughts and Dreams
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
Ifrit said:
Actually they do. It's called a "snow queen".
...
Yup. I get called this at least once per month, by GASP--other black men~! I get nasty emails CONSTANTLY on the subject. The following are all real quotes sent to me via email on eiter BMB, BM , or bear411 over the past 90 days.

"I see you like to play in the snow"
"Why you with that big old white boy?"
"You must date a white guy"
"Tell me you're not caught up on the whole white thing"


I try to tell guys to examine what they are really thinking when they spew such nonsense and that it is irrelevant, but alas. Few seem to feel (As I do) that finding love (mutual attraction, respect, intellectual stimulation, etc.) should be most important, followed by, well, nothing really.

I am so glad that *I* am secure enough to not care about the race of other peoples partners. Sigh.
 

inkubus963

Experimental Member
Joined
Mar 6, 2006
Posts
258
Media
0
Likes
23
Points
238
Location
Galesburg (Illinois, United States)
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
Hopefully, cricketsliar is still around..

Cricketsliar, pick up a book titled, "Traitor to the Race" by Darieck Scott. It's a short novel detailing the relationship between two men, one Black, one White, and delves into each of their psychologies. Of particular note was a passage beginning in the middle of page 92, that dealt with Kenneth's desires for White men, and it's possible origins.

I found it a fascinating read, and found that it had parallels to some circumstances that you question.
 

D_Elijah_MorganWood

Expert Member
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Posts
5,220
Media
0
Likes
127
Points
193
Lex said:
Yup. I get called this at least once per month, by GASP--other black men~! I get nasty emails CONSTANTLY on the subject. The following are all real quotes sent to me via email on eiter BMB, BM , or bear411 over the past 90 days.

"I see you like to play in the snow"
"Why you with that big old white boy?"
"You must date a white guy"
"Tell me you're not caught up on the whole white thing"


I try to tell guys to examine what they are really thinking when they spew such nonsense and that it is irrelevant, but alas. Few seem to feel (As I do) that finding love (mutual attraction, respect, intellectual stimulation, etc.) should be most important, followed by, well, nothing really.

I am so glad that *I* am secure enough to not care about the race of other peoples partners. Sigh.
It's funny, I used to hear the same thing when I had two Latino boyfriends in succession. My first BF was a good guy, a student at UCLA, very cute with a great bod and a hot ass...and I was ALWAYS getting shade from other white queens. One night someone yelled "what's that hot blonde muscle boy doing with that Mexican?!" My bf convinced me not to go kick the guy's ass. My second BF came from an aristocratic Central American family. His father was a 4-star General. He had an air of regality about him. He served in the USMC. His English was perfect (Ricky Ricardo accent), his clothes always starched. People still had the nerve to treat him like a wetback. More white guys tried to break us up...As far as we've come, many people still can't stand to see two guys of different races together. With me it's ALWAYS been gay white men who had a problem with it.

When I went out with black guys I got some "I know what he likes" but it wasn't as bad. My favorite club to go out to back then was called "Catch One" and had a largely black clientele. A funny thing happened with me when I dated black guys...it brought out my submissive side a.k.a. oooh, pound my white ass with your big black cock! Out of bed there was really no difference, we were just two men. That was my personal twist. The last black guy I dated was really sweet and right when the tables were about to turn (my tearing his ass in two)...I had to dump him. I told him not to get attached...I'm now with a white guy and it's still strange not having to tell people to mind their own business in regards to the race of my partner. The funny thing is that people have assumed I've not given other races a chance. If they only knew that I didn't date one white guy for 7 years...heh heh.
 

Lex

Expert Member
Joined
Jun 11, 2004
Posts
8,253
Media
0
Likes
118
Points
268
Location
In Your Darkest Thoughts and Dreams
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
I hear you Sorceror. When the BF and I have gone out--the white guys don't give him or me any shit. They are friendly and respectful (amybe they are oogling his enjoying a fantasy of theirs). In the same bar, the black guys give me the drama. Some guys are even flabbergasted that it's still even a "issue."

I could see how someone with you obvious beauty (more venom seems to be spit the hotter the guy dating outside his race is percieved to be) would get that shit from other queens.
 

D_Elijah_MorganWood

Expert Member
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Posts
5,220
Media
0
Likes
127
Points
193
Lex said:
I could see how someone with you obvious beauty (more venom seems to be spit the hotter the guy dating outside his race is percieved to be) would get that shit from other queens.

I was a real pussycat when I first came on the scene. I was warned but didn't see myself as that attractive. The venom came up frequently in many situations but the race thing seemed to be the worst.
 

Lex

Expert Member
Joined
Jun 11, 2004
Posts
8,253
Media
0
Likes
118
Points
268
Location
In Your Darkest Thoughts and Dreams
Sexuality
99% Gay, 1% Straight
Gender
Male
Sorcerer said:
...I was warned but didn't see myself as that attractive. ...
Yeah. I still am humbled by compliments and attention (and I prefer that over seeming conceited). I am beginning to see what guys see in me (all the things I got teased for growing up).
 

B_cricketsliar

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Posts
245
Media
0
Likes
11
Points
161
Age
34
Ifrit said:
Actually they do. It's called a "snow queen".
Dumbass.

Excuse me you late bitch, someone already pointed out the perjoritive term "snow queen". Perhaps if you were'nt so eagerly perched to respond like a "Dumbass" would, you realize that the spirit of this thread was not isolated to silly labels.
 

B_cricketsliar

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Posts
245
Media
0
Likes
11
Points
161
Age
34
Ifrit said:
What the fuck are you talking about? You keep making these ridiculous generalizations, that have absolutely to basis in fact. Show me scientifc proof that blacks are taught this at a young age.

What is you're background freak? Have you done any ethnocentric research? Are you even remotely familiar with Black culture? Do some fucking participant research with Black peoples in the diaspora, focus on the progression of Black Folklore in the U.S., or if you're such a badass quote five sayings in the wit and wisdom of blacks extant since the Antebellum period.
Go home lightweight!
 

B_cricketsliar

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Posts
245
Media
0
Likes
11
Points
161
Age
34
alex8 said:
It certainly seems like an attempt to rewrite 'desire' and 'personal preference' along some kind of pseudo-intellectualized racial/racist lines, rather than to accept that such elements of personal taste are defined by any number of factors, most of which likely have a lot more to do with barely-pinpointable fleeting moments, influeces and impressions that at some point stuck deep in that individual's subconscious, as opposed to any long-term socio-cultural factors.

Cricket seems also to be rewriting the lust and love of black/white relationships in terms of a power struggle and a social hierarchy ... two of the social constructs that such relationships actually do much to contradict through their very expressions of desire and emotions.

The title of this thread is also highly unfortunate (to say the least), in that it seems to suggest that black men may be interested not in white men, but merely in white cock. In this way, it reinforces the stereotype of black hypersexuality by establishing black interest purely in a sexual rather than an emotional/whole-person-oriented goal.

I also have to concur that most of cricket's assertions appear 'made up' on the spot in order to suit his cod-psychology arguments. These assertions --- never having encountered the term 'snow queen', for example --- to me bespeak someone who may well have very little experience of the phenomena he is seeking to describe. Never having heard of terms like luau queen, kosher queen or communion queen I could almost understand, ... but snow queen is such a widespread usage in the contexts you are claiming knowledge of that I am left almost speechless (he noted at the end of his fourth paragraph of near-speechlessness :rolleyes:).


You've questioned my background because I was unfamiliar with one term, is that really scientific? I question you're familiarity with any research on this subject? What studies have you READ, what part of your coursework focused on this area? Name the Major players, oh i'm sorry since, you don't know- you much be ignorant? Try that shit on a amatuer, you brokedown queen.
 

B_cricketsliar

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Posts
245
Media
0
Likes
11
Points
161
Age
34
RoysToy said:
Ifrit said:
What the fuck are you talking about? You keep making these ridiculous generalizations, that have absolutely to basis in fact. Show me scientifc proof that blacks are taught this at a young age.[/quot]

Thanks, Ifrit. After reading all this thread, the one thought that 'jumped out at me' was this generalization. Generalizing is so easy to avoid and I never cease to wonder why some are so incessantly addicted to its use. The practice usually seems to raise its ugly head when anything connected with race is discussed!

A SAYING IS A PART OF THE WIT AND WISDOM OF ANY CULTURE, ROYSTOY. THERE DOES NOT NEED TO BE A SCIENTIFIC PROOF FOR A SAYING WITHIN A CULTURE WHICH PEOPLE USE TO EXPRESS A CERTAIN BELIEF SYSTEM.

WHEN SOMEONE SAYS "THE BLACKER THE BERRI..." TO EXPRESS A CULTURAL BELIEF ABOUT BLACK BEAUTY- DO YOU REQUIRE A SCIENTIFIC PROOF TO SUBSTANTIATE IT. YOU ARE ATTEMPTING TO REDUCE THE WORLDVIEW OF BLACKS BY REQUIRING THEM TO PROVE STATEMENTS IN THEIR WIT AND WISDOM USING THE SCIENTIFIC METHOD. SORRY TO SAY ROYSTOY, BUT THAT IN AND OF ITSELF IS A BIT RACIST.
 

B_cricketsliar

Experimental Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2005
Posts
245
Media
0
Likes
11
Points
161
Age
34
ChuckRich said:
And with that you have summed up Cricket's posts pretty well. No offense meant Cricket, that was just my honest reaction to your posts here. It seems like you put a lot of effort into making your opinions seem logical with the way you write them rather than actually basing them on logic.

The funny part is, "snow queen" I've heard plenty of times but this is the first I've ever head "dinge queen".

ONLY A MYOPIC, ILL-INFORMED FOOL WOULD LET IT REST ON THAT POINT