Recently I had several friends tell me that they worried about me, I apparently have fallen into a state of depression that worried them, this combined with a recent string of "bad Luck" in family issues and generally life they worried that nobody could come out of what I was going through intact. Since they had planned this intervention I felt that they must obviously see something happening that I didn't so I visited my doctor. After a few tests and a lot of discussion my doctor decided that yes I was indeed suffering from depression he gave me a prescription for a antidepresant called Effexor. After a few days of taking Effexor I noticed an obvious change in my bodies general feel, things seemed different, I would soon find out how different. Being single I sometimes enjoy casual sex with several of my "friends", its safer than one night stands and I always found that we get a long a lot better now, lol. I've always been a laster in bed, having run long distance stamina always seemed easy, this combined with a 9.5 inch dick has made me a very fortunate man when it came to rumours of my prowess. After about 2 weeks of taking Effexor I was with a "friend", she and I had had some wild nights enjoying each other thoroughly, that was until we had sex for about 2 hours, me never once having an orgasm, by the time we were done she was exhausted and I had yet to cum. Not thinking it was a big issue I considered it a feather in my cap that the next time we met up, she would try extra hard to get me off. She tried, and failed again, this time having spent more time giving me head than any woman had ever even bother tried. I gain figured it was nothing, then it happened again, then with another partner, so far its been over 3 months, I've had sex about 40 times and never once had an orgasm, I jerked off for nearly 2 hours to various porns using various lubes and techniques, still nothing. After I visited my dr. I soon learnt that it was one of the possible side Affects, either never cumming or impotency, begging me to ask "and this is supposed to help my depression". Basically my point is this, if there are so many women out there who never have had an orgasm, I am here to tell you I now understand your frustration, also if I might suggest finding a partner who might be mildly depressed, the two of you might be able to help each other. My other point is that in a day and age where men cum so quick that there wife or girlfriend is never satisfied, why is it that anti depresants like Effexor, aren't sold as sex aids? Just a thought.