blow job taking too long

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  1. magpies

    magpies New Member

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    girls what tricks do you use if your giving a blowjob and the guy is taking to long to cum? are you able to bring your guy off very quickly?
     
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    what gets me off is bobbing up and down quickly and shortly on the head of my penis... try it
     
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    My bf had never been able to cum from a bj before I met him. It took a few weeks and a lot of persistance, but what always works now for him is lots of teasing at first, and then just sucking, and then finally adding the hand with a lot of suction on the head/first couple inches. Keeping a fast steady rhythm once he is all worked up is key.
    He cums every time now :)
     
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    As a guy it always helps to get some head and actually get an occasional 1-2 minute break and then get head again. It makes me more sensitive.

    In addition I teach many women the importance of licking and sucking on the line on the bottom sign of the penis head that basically splits it in half. It gives you a whole different orgasm.

    And it helps when a woman is good with her hands because good twists and ups and downs always add to the sensation.
     
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    I used to take too long during blowjobs, I caused many sore jaws.

    I learned about a few things that helped me cum quickly:
    - Communication - I guided her to gradually build up the effort, a strong hand grip really helps!
    - My imagination - I would come quickly if I thought about an amazing sexual experience or porn scene
    - Getting a maximum erection - if the girl held the base on my shaft (clamping with fingertips on the top side) it would help keep me at my hardest and most sensitive.

    BJs went from lasting over 20 minutes down to a couple of minutes.
     
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    Enthusiasm. Enjoy what you're doing, let him know that you do and he'll enjoy you doing it to him even more.

    Tips. His tip in particular. Focus on the frenulum on the underside, as already mentioned. The ridge behind the corona is particularly sensitive also. Play with his foreskin if he has one.

    Involve your breasts. The contrast of soft pliant flesh against his rigid shaft is generally considered to be "MMMMM".

    Deepthroat or merely your best attempt at it is also generally appreciated.

    Hum.

    Learn to keep your lips cushioning his penis from your teeth. (absence of discomfort helps speed the process)

    Play with his balls.

    Massage his prostate through his taint if he's not keen on anal play.

    Anal play if he is.

    Any of these things or a few in combination can tip your man over the edge. Ask him what will bring him over and to guide you as he nears this point.
     
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