Blow Job???

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  1. Blorkin

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    So earlier this week my girlfriend was giving me a blow job (her first time giving head and my first time getting it) and as she continued I slowly got softer and before i knew it i was totally soft (I stoped it before this happened). Has this ever happened to anyone?? Also how can I fix this problem??
     
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    sounds like a lot of anxiety. just try to relax and keep practicing! if it persists, see a medical professional, but my guess is that you will rebound just fine. i do have a question, how do you come away with 70/30 straight/gay and this is your first blowjob? you sure it's her first too?


    back to your question, had you guys been drinking or anything else?
     
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    In my experince there are so many variables/reasons for you to become soft, without knowing how you felt or your feelings -- could not begin to offer a real opinion. sorry
     
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    Blow jobs are pleasurable when you're soft, too! Enjoy what happens as it's happening.
     
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    tired, alcohol, medication, drugs???
     
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    Apart from the good points raised above, please remember that this was her first blow job. It's a skill. It has to be learned. Maybe she just needs practice.
     
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    To answer your question. This has never happened to me. I get extremely excited from blow jobs and have to stop to prevent from cumming. How to fix it? There's a product called viagra..lol..Just hope that she doesn't tell all her friends how soft you got. Hopefully you were able to strip her down and bang her hard. If not then try to do it as soon as possible. Good luck!
     
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    After some thought I decided that it was 2 things:
    1) The fact that I had masterbated 4 times earlier that day
    2) Stress from upcoming midterms
     
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    Yeah, those are definite moderating factors :)
     
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