Blow Jobs/ Oral Sex/ Getting Head

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Since we are all men....
we all have dicks.

Since we all have dicks...
(it shall be assumed that)
we all love getting blown.

Call it whatever you want:
blowjobs, oral sex, or getting blown, or add your favorite term.

On behalf of the penis-owners themselves,

[ FROM: All Men, TO: The World ]

this thread will be a huge advice column....
....on how to give the best blow job, as described by the ones who receive them.


Who would like to add their input?
:biggrin1:
 
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this thread will be a huge advice column....
....on how to give the best blow job, as described by the ones who receive them.

I'm not sure I can quantify it. I mean, I could definitely tell stories about some really, really great blowjobs I've received, but I have a hard time being sure how much of what I got out of it was due to their technique vs. how much was just where I was mentally at the time.

For example, there's one old friend who's sucked me several times. It always felt great, but I've only shot my load twice from him doing that. There's another friend who's sucked me many times, but there was only one time I really got anything out of it, and *boy* did I get something out of it that time!:biggrin1: I have a hard time believing that his technique changed all that radically.

On the other hand, I can remember a one-off where I had to stop the guy more or less immediately as soon as he started or it was going to be over very quickly. I don't think he was *that* good, I think I was just really wound up.
 
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-Enthusiasm
-Lots of spit, messy too
-Attempting to deepthroat, but ideally not able to make it all the way down
-Gagging/choking sounds
-And then when I want to cum, stroke two hands with the girl's mouth on the tip of my dead. Bobbing up and down.
-Willingness to swallow, spit, take on the face, etc
 

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I don't like sloppy Blowjobs. Deep throating is not a big deal, unless it is a domination session.

I like it when women do it without asking, moan, and get wet doing it.

I also like it if they can edge and tease me.
 

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i like it slow and with long deliberate pauses with as much of me inside his or her mouth as possible. i also love to have my ass played with at the same time.
 

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Oh good....
I was getting worried this was going to become a dead thread.

Anyone else willing to talk about what makes one bj better than another?
... or moments within ones that you wish could be repeated?
 

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the best blow jobs, as also stated above by some, must be given with desire and enthusiasm - not obligation or reward... and I really get off on tongue play between my balls and anus... lick under my balls and along perimium = heaven...
 

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The woman actually MUST enjoy what she's doing.
I don't care what the women's magazines say...eye contact throughout the session - IS NOT MANDATORY!!!
Saliva, no matter how it is generated, IS a necessity! If it's not slick and slippery, IT'S NOT FUN!
Variation, it's not a suggestion, it's a desirable trait. If you only bob your head and lick, You aren't as good as you think you are!
Pay attention to the blowee's vocalizations, a moan, or changes in breathing signify a pleasurable sensation. Mentally note what you're doing for future sessions, and or partners.
If you don't like giving head, don't expect to get any in return, or get any with enthusiasm!
If you get wet while giving head, the guy will ALWAYS remember that! You will /should be paid back with equal, or more enthusiasm/pleasure!
My motto - "Give good head, get ahead good"!!! My other motto is one word - "Headfirst"! Once they think about it, it always seems like a good warmup to a great date!
I have stickers on the back sides of my motorcycle helmets that say "Gimme head 'till I'm dead". Just a hint to chicks I let ride bitch on the back of my Harley. If I don't get any head, it's usually their last ride on MY bikes.
 
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The woman actually MUST enjoy what she's doing.
I don't care what the women's magazines say...eye contact throughout the session - IS NOT MANDATORY!!!
Saliva, no matter how it is generated, IS a necessity! If it's not slick and slippery, IT'S NOT FUN!
Variation, it's not a suggestion, it's a desirable trait. If you only bob your head and lick, You aren't as good as you think you are!
Pay attention to the blowee's vocalizations, a moan, or changes in breathing signify a pleasurable sensation. Mentally note what you're doing for future sessions, and or partners.
If you don't like giving head, don't expect to get any in return, or get any with enthusiasm!
If you get wet while giving head, the guy will ALWAYS remember that! You will /should be paid back with equal, or more enthusiasm/pleasure!
My motto - "Give good head, get ahead good"!!! My other motto is one word - "Headfirst"! Once they think about it, it always seems like a good warmup to a great date!
I have stickers on the back sides of my motorcycle helmets that say "Gimme head 'till I'm dead". Just a hint to chicks I let ride bitch on the back of my Harley. If I don't get any head, it's usually their last ride on MY bikes.


Now THAT's an honest response! Haha!!
 

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I've been told i give amazing blowjobs...

U usually cover my teeth with my lips and bite on the shaft while sucking on the said dick and with my tongue, simultaneously play with the head.

now doing that makes your lips hurt. (if you do it as much as i do.)

then i take a break and do a sloppy bj but this time i only focus on the head and p-hole. and do this kissing action with my lips on the head only. very softly... I know that drives guys crazy. well at least the ones i do it to.

after my lips have recovered I go in for a deep throat session. then back to my lip covered teeth routine and repeat. till the guy blows down my throat.

now uncut cocks are better cause i get to play with the foreskin too.
 

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1.rhythms: my bud keeps it varied
a. stroke length:
long short short short (repeat)
long long long long short short short short (repeat)
long long short short (repeat)
b. speed:
short strokes fast--hits the head and frenum and ridged bands of my skinned back foreskin
long strokes slow
2. sounds: he lets out short, low growls of satisfaction and encouragement mouth sounds
3. body hair contact:
my bud has a soft bushy stache and he strokes my cock and balls with it; he also uses the ends of his stache hairs to prick my cock and balls gently.
he's a hairy-chested fukr and I like to feel his chest/belly hair on my nutz and legs
4. he dry strokes my hole and exerts pressure with his finger or spit-wets it and inserts it when I cum.
5. position. While he sits upright I lie on my back with my thighs straddling his crossed legs--great for my nutz-his hairy chest contact. gets me really turned on to see his mouth and stache tooling my cock, and his head moving up and down. In this position I can feel his knob pressing on my hole.
6. sometimes he gets my nuts in a v-hold using the index and middle finger of his hands and rubs my nutz with his thumbs during the action.
7. Tongue. Pard likes to use his tongue to
a. make circular motion on the frenum
b. widen it out to work vertically on the frenum and ridged bands.
Dudes, I am well taken-care of!
 

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You sound VERY well taken care of! Good on ya! I imagine there must be a little reciprocation as well.... ;)

1.rhythms: my bud keeps it varied
a. stroke length:
long short short short (repeat)
long long long long short short short short (repeat)
long long short short (repeat)
b. speed:
short strokes fast--hits the head and frenum and ridged bands of my skinned back foreskin
long strokes slow
2. sounds: he lets out short, low growls of satisfaction and encouragement mouth sounds
3. body hair contact:
my bud has a soft bushy stache and he strokes my cock and balls with it; he also uses the ends of his stache hairs to prick my cock and balls gently.
he's a hairy-chested fukr and I like to feel his chest/belly hair on my nutz and legs
4. he dry strokes my hole and exerts pressure with his finger or spit-wets it and inserts it when I cum.
5. position. While he sits upright I lie on my back with my thighs straddling his crossed legs--great for my nutz-his hairy chest contact. gets me really turned on to see his mouth and stache tooling my cock, and his head moving up and down. In this position I can feel his knob pressing on my hole.
6. sometimes he gets my nuts in a v-hold using the index and middle finger of his hands and rubs my nutz with his thumbs during the action.
7. Tongue. Pard likes to use his tongue to
a. make circular motion on the frenum
b. widen it out to work vertically on the frenum and ridged bands.
Dudes, I am well taken-care of!