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Hey guys. I’ve just recently started seeing a guy who is amazing. I’ve had other sexual partners in the best who all loved by bj skills. I’ve never had any complaints. Now my new boyfriend says when I suck him it makes his dick very sensitive and sometimes I can notice him going soft.

anyone have any tips for me please?
 
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Everyone is different. You just need to heed his feedback. He is basically saying your style is too rough for him. This is common for guys used to sucking cut cocks who then swap to an uncut one.

So maybe less suction or slower movements. More tongue, less teeth. Hard to say without seeing really.

Pay attention to the swelling of his cock as a cue to keep doing something or to move on to something else.

Variety is the key, nobody wants a predictable blowjob. What works today won't work the next if he's expecting it. Because of porn, people's attention span is short so you need to rotate through different techniques.

Pay attention to which techniques he swells quickly to and return more to those.

Some guys need hand stimulus because they are conditioned from masturbation so throw some of that in while sucking his balls or rimming him.
 

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Sounds like you are a bull in a china shop when sucking cock -a cock has to be teased and titillated and all cocks are different so you'kll have to learn how to satisfy your man.
Best tip ever for cock suckers is never spit, always swallow
 

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My advice would be it's not a race. Slow down, so much more to a blowjob than up and down. Take your mouth off, go up and kiss him a bit...suck/gently bite his nipples and go back to his cock. Enjoy it. Rub it on your face...lick the frenulum, put it back in your mouth...leave it there and do not go up and down. Suck gently, then go up toward the head of his cock...lick around while still in your mouth....take your mouth off and go down to his balls.....always easy and never hard suck them, go back to his cock...tell him to kick back and relax and enjoy the waves....take him slowly in your mouth...there's no appts to get to, take your time...if you get the signs he is getting close, take your mouth off, wet a finger or two and GENTLY insert into his hole, go back to his cock and as you rub his prostate, SLOWLY, do the same with his dick, eventually take his dick down the back of your throat and simply "throat suck" as long as you can. I got a feeling you will be rewarded with several ropes of cum shooting down your throat...do not suck harder at this venture...slowly work up and if his dick is relaxing suck it nice and easy, yeah, like that. Good boy.
 

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Everyone is different. You just need to heed his feedback. He is basically saying your style is too rough for him. This is common for guys used to sucking cut cocks who then swap to an uncut one.

So maybe less suction or slower movements. More tongue, less teeth. Hard to say without seeing really.

Pay attention to the swelling of his cock as a cue to keep doing something or to move on to something else.

Variety is the key, nobody wants a predictable blowjob. What works today won't work the next if he's expecting it. Because of porn, people's attention span is short so you need to rotate through different techniques.

Pay attention to which techniques he swells quickly to and return more to those.

Some guys need hand stimulus because they are conditioned from masturbation so throw some of that in while sucking his balls or rimming him.

I couldn't have said it better
 
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Hey guys. I’ve just recently started seeing a guy who is amazing. I’ve had other sexual partners in the best who all loved by bj skills. I’ve never had any complaints. Now my new boyfriend says when I suck him it makes his dick very sensitive and sometimes I can notice him going soft.

anyone have any tips for me please?
Seems like your partner's sensitivity threshold is excessive. I don't know what your technique is like but it may be something as simple as applying less suction and if you are a person that strokes while you suck then you might want to stop stroking. I've experienced blowjobs where the guy sucking me is too rough with the stroking and I lose my erection or they suck too hard and it hurts. Try different rhythms also because some men prefer a slow wet gliding bj while others may prefer a dry but faster bj. We can sometimes get so excited that we lose focus of whether or not the recipient is really enjoying the favor. Something else you can do is gently massage his balls or his nipples while you suck as it will give him another sensation that is also stimulating. Someone else said it best in that he must communicate what he likes and doesn't like so that you know how to change up your technique so that he can enjoy it.
 

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You just need to slow down and apply less pressure. If you're using lots of tongue on his cockhead dial it down. Keep the tongue going but slow gentle movements. Like when you swirl your tongue around his cockhead you can spend ten seconds just doing this one action and without any up and down.

Also ask him if any areas of his cockhead are particularly sensitive. The top of my cockhead (the side opposite of the frenulum) gets really sensitive and too much tongue there is unpleasant.
 

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Sounds like the recipient needs to communicate what he likes instead of the giver just doing it how he knows to do it. It is very important to communicate what turns you on. No one can read minds. A moan might be a good moan or a bad moan so he has to tell you if it feels good or try something else.
I love a man that will talk his way through my blowjobs because it also helps to turn me on.
 

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Agree with all on the take it slow. And tell him to be patient too. It’s like they say, it’s about the journey not the destination
Ive definitely got much better at sucking dick and enjoy it so much now too. You gotta make love to it with your mouth ... which isn’t the same as fucking. Treat it like a delicious meal you don’t want to end.
Work out it he’s more sensitive on the tip or shaft. For uncut guys it’s often the tip. Lots of soft tongue and mix it up. Tease it by starting to go down a bit further and as you come back up get that tongue working. Make it unpredictable. Then when you’re all the way down to the base, again get your tongue licking. It might not feel totally like a natural move but it is.
I don’t use hands for the first while. Even if I’ve gotta get it back in mouth I try to just find it and move it with my mouth.
Use your hands when you’ve got you’re rhythm and get the in the same flow as your mouth. I also like showing my appreciation with some satisfied sighs rather than over the top moaning. This makes me wanna suck a big this dick now :)
 

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Also, even though I prefer to give head than receive it, there have been a handful of guys that have done it to perfection. Always soft generous tongue and playing with my g spots (tickling my balls, stroking my legs and feet) that I learned from. My head is way more sensitive than my shaft so I prefer when they just work that slowly. But most guys like working up to a deeper blowjob and like a bit of face fucking ... you just gotta guide them to what you can take and what you’re up for
 
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Guys like me to suck the head of their cock hard and use my tongue. Most guys tell me I give great head and don't want me to stop. So, that works for me. Uncut guys are more sensitive so I try to just stick with guys that are cut.
 

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From my experience, this technique of hand and head swivel works for most guys. Every cock sucker should at least have this in their bag of tricks.

This is one of my favorite techniques but unfortunately I can only do this with the guys who are exceptionally hung. The guys that I can do this to really enjoy it.
 
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My advice would be it's not a race. Slow down, so much more to a blowjob than up and down. Take your mouth off, go up and kiss him a bit...suck/gently bite his nipples and go back to his cock. Enjoy it. Rub it on your face...lick the frenulum, put it back in your mouth...leave it there and do not go up and down. Suck gently, then go up toward the head of his cock...lick around while still in your mouth....take your mouth off and go down to his balls.....always easy and never hard suck them, go back to his cock...tell him to kick back and relax and enjoy the waves....take him slowly in your mouth...there's no appts to get to, take your time...if you get the signs he is getting close, take your mouth off, wet a finger or two and GENTLY insert into his hole, go back to his cock and as you rub his prostate, SLOWLY, do the same with his dick, eventually take his dick down the back of your throat and simply "throat suck" as long as you can. I got a feeling you will be rewarded with several ropes of cum shooting down your throat...do not suck harder at this venture...slowly work up and if his dick is relaxing suck it nice and easy, yeah, like that. Good boy.
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