Blowjob dominance

[whosyourdaddy_999]

I like sucking cock. It's enjoyable, and I like being creative as I work on getting the guy off. I guess I think of it is my gift to him. Sometimes I go as deep as I can, other times it's a swirl on the head, or maybe even some nice tongue action on the balls. But why do some guys insist on grabbing my head and skull fucking me? Is it a dominance thing? Is it from watching too much porn (straight or otherwise) where the owner of the dick wants to be in total of control of what is happening? Sometimes I'll respond by stopping everything until the suckee gets the picture--he's not calling the shots on this.
What do you guys think? Is it the cocksuckers privilege to plan the choreography, or the guy being sucked?

 

[TaigaStar]

Both, but sometimes the guy getting head just needs to tell the sucker where to be.

 

[thebiggulp]

It's okay for things to get a little out of control; but I think the sucker needs to be in charge. I've had guys who were a little too enthusiastic, and have given me a neck injury, and a bloody lip. There's also always the risk that you'll shove too much down the throat, and end up with a lap full of sick. I think the supremely famous John Holmes ended up going to prison because he choked some girl to death on his dick.

 

[beachnsurf]

goes both ways kinda depends on the guys involved both ways can def be fun

 

[AtomicMouse1950]

It's okay for things to get a little out of control; but I think the sucker needs to be in charge. I've had guys who were a little too enthusiastic, and have given me a neck injury, and a bloody lip. There's also always the risk that you'll shove too much down the throat, and end up with a lap full of sick. I think the supremely famous John Holmes ended up going to prison because he choked some girl to death on his dick.

Actually that's not true. You can look it up to see why he Did go to prison. Turns out towards the end of his career and life, John Holmes did make a porn flick w/a young blond woman who Did in fact deepthroated him.

 

[mallak]

i'm kind of surprised that many people, 44 percent, think the sucker should control. I find i get a lot more turned on when sucking when the guy im sucking takes charge, almost uses my throat as his 3rd hand, or something lol

 

[DukesFan]

I love it when a guy grabs my head and starts pounding my mouth it means I am doing my job getting him off and he is just so horny and the pain is to the point he needs to get off sooner than he wanted.

I feel it is a privilege for a guy to do this because then I know I am doing my job and giving him the best blow job he could've ever imagined of getting.

 

[myChock]

Can we get a both option? lol

It really depends on the situation for me. Just like some other posters have said, it really depends on the guys and the mood. Sometimes I like being in control, but other times it's just nice to relax and let them have at it. Variation is always good ;P

 

[thebiggulp]

I like sucking cock. It's enjoyable, and I like being creative as I work on getting the guy off. I guess I think of it is my gift to him. Sometimes I go as deep as I can, other times it's a swirl on the head, or maybe even some nice tongue action on the balls. But why do some guys insist on grabbing my head and skull fucking me? Is it a dominance thing? Is it from watching too much porn (straight or otherwise) where the owner of the dick wants to be in total of control of what is happening? Sometimes I'll respond by stopping everything until the suckee gets the picture--he's not calling the shots on this.
What do you guys think? Is it the cocksuckers privilege to plan the choreography, or the guy being sucked?

That's exactly what I hate. It's like, "Hey, there's a person here" while they go wham wham wham. It doesn't allow you to do anything skillful, and all you can do is lock your lips as tight as you can, and hoping he blows soon. It almost makes me wish I could get braces on my teeth for a bit of revenge.

 

[bigtoad]

Tell me, what feeels good...I'll try some things,,,watch you, yet: TELL ME what's workin. I'm hungry for you.:tongue:

 

[bigtoad]

Tell me, what feeels good...I'll try some things,,,watch you, yet: TELL ME what's workin. I'm hungry for you.:tongue:

(Guys-straight/gay/bi/whatever: Please do not say anything like, "If you....I'll LET you blow-me." ) :smile:that said, man am I hungry! Truly, to give and recieve... Blessings Journey-ON!!!!

 

[D_Bobby_Saux]

Duke you sound like you enjoy servicing as much as the one being serviced. Some I found just go through the motions.

 

[MisterSlave]

I am happy to provide a lil perspective to this thread.

This is a thread that I do not feel I can give an answer to . . one way or another, with regard to the Poll. The reason for this is simple.

There are those who in the Dom / Sub world (switch- hit),. . or are Vers.

Some men fluctuate between wanting to be dominant at times, and submissive in others. Especially in a long term relationship. Sometimes, it can be fun for a sub to try dom role. . or dom to try sub role.

In the past there used to be the Old guard system where roles were clearly defined and people never stepped out of the one role they were trained in, and were known in the leather community to be: (Dom or Sub). . but. . this system has eroded into what some call (New-Guard).

I suppose, there will be stereotypical thoughts of (once a top. .always a top. . and once a bottom. . or sub. . always a bottom/sub. ).

But, again. . think about long term with your lover. . Most people in long term fear that their sex life gets (stale). Sometimes it can be fun to try new things. That's what keeps things exciting and fun.

Just my thoughts. . Sorry to not be able to give a vote, one way or the other, here. . for me. . it just depends on mood and chemistry with the guy I am gonna suck.

 

[D_22]

I like both. I like when my bf is blowing me and he's in control as I'm too weak to fully do anything but then I love to face fuck him. And the same with me in return. He'll face fuck me or some times prefer me to just take control and do the work. Either or in both situations (whether I'm going down or he's going down), I'm happy.

 

[nate5000]

I think sucking cock is an art by itself, as different guys react differently to different styles.
This is me sucking a DL dude. He came fast with constant dick-head sucking with great suction coupled with noisy slurping sounds.

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One guy I sucked came fast just by gentle and quiet lip rubbing and some by tongue-on-bottom-palate-rub-on-top sucking style while some prefer that you literally wage a war on their cocks.

 

[Martin8Style]

I only blew a guy once so I don't know how valid my input is but, I preferred him to just use my mouth. His cock was hot and I wanted to do whatever needed to make the bj great and so if letting him use my mouth to his pleasure so be it. However there should be some communication because if your getting him balls deep and you don't like that then he has to stop. Also it's always fun to show your appreciation for his cock by doing your thing. So I guess I'm somewhere in between on this issue but I lean more towards the suckee taking control.

 

[firecaptain]

Being a Fire Captain and an alpha dog all the time, I really get jacked up being dominated during sex. Throw me on the floor and fuck me how you want. Grab my head and fuck away, I'm there for your pleasure not mine.

 

[johnweek1]

When I sock a cock I want to be in complete control. I take note of body language and verbal ques/ suggestions, but thats that.

 

[VoyeurEx]

My regular was the type who liked grabbing my head, but it was a matter of give and take as I was also fairly aggressive about SUCKING his HUGE, BOOMERANG-SHAPED DICK! Usually, I would grab him by his waist, legs, or ass and pull him DEEPER while he BONED UP in MY MOUTH! His hand(s) would normally be on my shoulder(s)! Then he would GRAB MY HEAD and PUMP MY FUCKING PIEHOLE till I couldn't TAKE it anymore! He'd let me catch my breath after that while he regrouped!

He would also have me SUCK only the head and some of the shaft while he had a hold of my head! If I would go TOO DEEP, he would squeeze my shoulder, push me back, or step back HIMSELF...I guess it gets TOO intense sometimes!

Too bad he's locked up right now! I miss him SO much! I miss hearing him tell me how NObody else can satisfy him the way I do!

 

[belowaverage1]

When giving I prefer either. I enjoy being facefucked but it's rather impractical in setup and execution. Guys tend to start out by letting me do my thing and it branches out from there.

Some will just lay back and moan and cum when they shoot.

One friend facefucked me very roughly the last time to the point of injury, it was a very hot situation and he shot a very nice load in my mouth but he was using my hair to pull my head back and forth rather than my head. I'm a little worried about giving up my ass to him.

The last guy I sucked was kind of withheld, but I got the impression he liked it rough so I coaxed him into doing as he pleased - he then climbed over me, put his knees to my ears, and facefucked me into his bed post - - pulling out occasionally to sit on my chest and jack off, sliding his dick back in my mouth when he needed lube. I could tell he was having fun choking me and letting loose and he was nice to make sure I was okay and to stop when I was noticeably choking. *(He was so cute. I stood him up and got him really excited and he dropped to his knees and started worshiping my dick the second I gave him the impression that I owned him.)

A favorite has been when certain guys are sitting on the couch and I'm on my knees in front of the couch. They start pushing my head down on it and fingering me - occasionally yanking my ass towards them to get their finger in deeper.

My first ex and I had really...interesting...issues with dominance. Wrestling would turn into sex and we'd start fucking each other during every day occurrences like phone calls, atv riding, and the one that turned me on the most and made the least sense was when I was using the bathroom (I pee sitting.) he would come into the bathroom, yank down his pants, put his shirt over my head and facefuck me until he came. Then he'd just pull up his jeans and walk out.

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When guys are giving me head I generally let them do their thing. Occasionally I'll grab their head and facefuck but usually I'll just run my hands through their hair gently.

I like to slap my dick into their face and cum on it so I can lick my cum off their lips.

If they aren't good at it I'll grab their head and give them some tips and make them suck my dick until they get better.

My dominance while giving extends to me always wanting to kiss down to their hole or bite their ass cheeks. I tend to do this to "top only" guys and they don't really like it. Sometimes I lift their legs over my shoulders and do it anyways and once I got lucky and a long time top only guy sat on my face while I rimmed him.

Haha. Tops be like "I'm confused."