Blowjob dominance

When sucking someone's dick, who should dominate the action?

  • The one doing the sucking

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  • The one being sucked

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blackbottom2

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I enjoy being dominated.

Especially love it when he is hung and tries to get as much of his cock into my throat as possible. Its great when he doesn't care about all the copious amounts of spit and mucous on his shaft. if im choking or sick he backs off, clean up and resume again.

I also enjoy stinging slaps across my face if I do it wrong or simply for the sake of it , with some caressing afterwards

If he is of average or smaller size his fingers hooked at the back of my upper front teeth holding my mouth open wide while he fucks my throat gives me amazing satisfaction. He then is in full charge of where my head is, if im choking or my gag reflex, its even better if he applies pressure to the back of my neck so im forced down onto his cock and I cant move back, sideways or away.

If there are two tops then the same thing one stood behind me while im kneeling and he hooks his fingers behind my teeth controlling my head and mouth while the other fucks my throat. that way if they wanted they can control my head and use it like a fleshlight

Also enjoy it when he hawks a big wad of his spit directly into my mouth in between servicing him

sometimes I like it fairly straightforward but its amazing stuff with a controlled dominance and yeh I fucking love it
 
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My experieces took place betweem mariages. Gene with his very thick cock would sit me on the floor, back against the wall and just shove it down my throat, i could not escape the pounding if i wanted to. he knew just when i was about to blackout. Man i would love to hook up with someone who would work me over like he did. I was his to use as he wanted.
 

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I love to grab a head and thrust feeling the throat tighten and hear the person choke and or gag, I pull out and then the person goes right back down on my cock, stuffing their throat.
 
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For me it is dependant on the guy and the situation if the guy has a big cock and a very dominant attitude I'm more than happy for him to fuck my throat and slap me with his cock if he's smaller or more laid back I'm happy enough to bob up and down :)
 
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You've asked a somewhat complicated question. The simple answer is yes, it can be a dominance thing. A more complicated answer acknowledges that some guys get their fantasies from porn, and their decision to use force is entirely porn related. However, there are some guys who's cocks just aren't as sensitive as others, and your efforts may not be getting the job done, but that doesn't mean you have to let him do something you hate. If you like the guy, and it bugs you, ask him why he did it. Personally I'm very dominant in my relationship, but I don't really get blow jobs too often, but that's only because he can't open his mouth wide enough.
In any case, blow jobs are like any other type of sex, if you're in a submissive position don't get mad when the other guy acts dominant.
 

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I actually get rock hard when I choke on a fat cock! But that can only be so enjoyable for me. I like a bit of a combo, with the guy I'm sucking begin in total control to begin with, but eventually losing all control as he succumbs to my mouth and busts his load down my throat. It's best when they're begging to cum by the end :)
 
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Interesting thread. I always assumed that the cocksucker was submissive but I understand the guys who have posted that they are in control as the one sucking. It is great to read a thread that opens up your views and opinions.

For me my experiences sucking cock have been with guys who were dominant. The sight of a cock makes my knees buckle and I want to press my face into his groin. The shape of an erect cock with meaty balls hanging is a very dominant symbol. Being penetrated by that cock and then injected with sperm is a wonderfully submissive experience for me.
 

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Thanks for reviving this thread. As the OP, it's been great learning more about dominance from the comments here. I guess I feel sucking someone isn't submissive, but I certainly can see how it is for many people. And the recurring comment that it varies depending on the situation reveals that we are complex beings, sometimes wanting to be in control, sometimes wanted to be submissive.