Blowjob question

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  1. Dwight

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    Hey guys,

    although I'm a straight guy I have the fantasy of giving another guy a blowjob one day just out of curiosity.

    Have any of you "straight" guys tried it? What was it like? Would you do it again?

    Another question for you straight and gay fellows: What was it like to give your first blwojob? Did you do the whole thing (cum in mouth/swallow)? What is i like to give a blowjob now after some more experience? Are there any special things i should take care of when giving my first blowjob?

    I know a lot of question but I'm really curios and like to know as much as possible from you guys.
     
  2. BigDallasDick8x6

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    I don't remember for sure, but I'm pretty sure I didn't let a guy cum in my mouth the first time. The Joy of Gay Sex has good info on giving blowjobs as does The Sensuous Woman. Not sure as a str8 guy how you go about discreetly getting a copy. What I did was go to the mall the MINUTE it opened on a Sunday morning, went directly to the bookstore and directly to the shelf where I already had seen Joy of Gay Sex and bought it when there was no one else around but the store manager. VERY little chance of running into neighbors, co-workers, friends, etc. Glad those in-denial days are over for me.
     
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    There are lots of threads here with "instructional" posts, or posts about what particular favorites are, but for me using my hand along with my mouth, with some various twisting and varied speed seems to drive partners wild.

    I just "voluntarily" swallowed for the very first time last week. It wasn't bad at all.
     
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    The first blowjob I gave, the guy didn't cum in my mouth.
    It wasn't until the third or fourth time.
     
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    I've never given a bj... so i can't speak to that.

    But, my first/only bj from a guy was his first time giving... and i can tell you what rookie mistakes he made (and what you should avoid).

    - He needed to shave. 5 o'clock shadow doesn't feel good.
    - He needed to combine it with some hand action. Maybe I was his first big cock, but if you can't at least take half the dick in your mouth, you're going to need to pump the penis to keep the momentum going.
    - Go EASY on massaging the balls. I think because he was nervous he just didn't realize how hard he was grabbing my testicals, but he literally had me in a vice grip a few times. Just play lightly. Some lighting fast tongue action usually does the trick.
    - STAW AWAY FROM THE ASSHOLE. I loved the way he grabbed my ass with both his hands and just pulled my cock into his face. Feeling two hands enjoying the firmness of your ass is nice, but don't go exploring while you're back there. If he's straight, just letting you blow him is probably more than enough adventure for one day. You can really ruin it for the guy if he has to remove your finger from his anus... particularly, more than once. If your hands get antsy, move them north. Everyone loves to feels hands enjoy their abs, chest and nipples.
    - Don't be offended if you can't make him cum. Yes a BJ is a BJ, but the penis is the penis. I can't cum unless I'm truly excited and I had trouble getting excited looking at this guy. He eventually asked me just to stroke it out on his face, and when I did, he bitched b/c it got in his eye.
    - At the end, be grateful. I'm not saying you have to genuflect your way out the door, but realize as great a gift a bj is, this was probably a milestone experience for the guy. If you're not appreciative of that, you're going to ruin it for him. On the flipside, don't try to get cutesy and cuddle or kiss the guy. As a "straight" man, he probably feels "gay" enough for the moment. Don't insist on making him act more gay than he's willing to in that moment.
    - Find out his sexual preferences before doing the job. Is his laid back or does he like to dominate in the bedroom. If he's chill you can give him a beer, turn on some porn, sit him down and go to town. If he's typically a domineering bull, you may have to let him know it's okay to be that way with you. I know with chicks, I fuck the shit out of their faces. I've had few bj's where i just sat there and let them idly play with it. That's what this guy did though and it may have been a contributing factor to my lack of "thrill" with the experience.
     
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    I was 32 first time I did it and up to that point, was certain I was straight. I did it with a good friend who was a couple years younger than me. Since I was an amateur and we were both intoxicated, I couldn't get him off. But, because of the way he was breathing and enjoying it, I was quickly hooked. It was several years before I tried it again. The first couple of times, it was difficult to get another guy off. With some experience, it got much easier. And, I always swallow.

    My advice is don't go too fast. Most times I have had my dick sucked by a first timer, they go way too fast whether they are stroking or sucking. Slow down and enjoy it. Pick up the pace as it gets close to getting off.
     
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    Thanks for sharing so far guys.

    And absolutjock thanks for the advice i will keep it in mind:)

    Another question: who was your first blowjob with a friend or someone else?

    Waiting for more experiences (if you want you can write me a private message)
     
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    Thanks for the advice Tex77632
    Do enjoy swallowing and what is it like? If heard a lot about the taste can you tell me something about that?

    Thanks
     
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    While I haven't done it with a lot of different guys, most of the time the taste is not too strong and may not have much taste at all. It's quite smooth. Probably 2 guys I did it with had a really strong taste and made me want to gag. I am not certain, but, I get the idea that someone who has gone a lot of time without cumming may taste stronger than someone who does it regularly. I masturbate at least once a day and any time I've been sucked off I have never had anyone gag or complain about taste when it shoots.
     
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    Oh, my bj was with a guy i met online during thanksgiving break in college.

    I'd decided not to go home for thanksgiving and stayed on campus. i was blue balling hard and thought it'd be fun to jack off while someone watched me. i wasn't going to ask my roommate, so i got on yahoo im. i met a high school kid on there though who only lived 15 minutes from me and offered to pay me 20 bucks if he could suck me off. i thought, why the hell not?

    A factor I didn't mention that may have soured my experience was the environment in which the bj occurred. I didn't want him to come to my apt b/c one of my roommates was there and we couldn't go to his house..... so i made him meet me in a parking lot behind a starbucks at 2am. We did it in the back of my Jeep. There wasn't exactly a lot of space and it was effing cold. Normally, public sex would be a turn on for me, but not with a guy... so i had that anxiety going on too. Needless to say - if you're going to do it, do it in a place where both parties can be super comfortable.
     
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    I think it is great to feel and watch a nice big cock grow as you work on it. The soft skin covering a firm piece of flesh is hot. I would not swallow your first time, but if you are so inclined you could lick some of it to get used to the taste.

    Two big things, which may have been mentioned. Watch the teeth. Use your lips to cover your teeth. Use your tongue liberally. Back and forth, up and down.

    Try to get the cock as wet as is possible using your spit.

    If you can buy a realistic dildo and practice on it first.

    Lastly you could watch bj porn, but becareful of the over the top shit.
     
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    First one was with a friend in hs. He wasn't that big, so I deep throated him easily. He came in my mouth and the strength of the shot hitting the back of my throat made me gag a little. If he had been longer he would have shot past it.
     
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    I'm ready! Where and when? :tongue:
     
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    Suck his cock. Do not use your hands. It's really bad when I'm getting a blowjob from a guy and he'll suck me and then start to use his hands instead of his mouth.
     
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    again absolutjock thanks for the advice, i will definatly consider the place issue :)

    hud01 thanks as well great advice. Did have more experiences with sucking cock? How did the other times go? (pm if you want)

    Can't wait to read more blowjob experiences from you guys, so far the really helped me and gave me a picture of what to expect.

    Dwight
     
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    Excellent advice all the way.
     
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    If his dick is down your throat when he cums you aren't going to taste it. If you can't manage that and are worried about the taste, have it as far back in your mouth as possible and you won't taste is as much.
     
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    I've got 20 bucks..... :biggrin1:
     
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    back off biatch, I was here first!!!!


    :eek:
     
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    I'll go 40. :bj:

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