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Eventually after an insanely overworked summer the last 2 weeks have been pretty wild, I hooked up with 5 different guys that were looking to suck cock. Some of them were actually very good we met again and they sucked me off repeatedly like 5-6 times. None of us had any problem with my "delayed" ejaculation, it ususlly takes about 30 mins for meto shoot a load. However, after a couple of drinks i do become a bit numb, which leads to even longer delays... with two of these guys it took me more than an hour to cum and, like it or not, it was even better... I guess it has to do with how much u are into your hookups or most important, if a guy really ilikes slow and prolonged blowjobs. But to reply to the original question, yes I do enjoy having my cock sucked. Even if it takes long to cum
 

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I think what it is for me is i do not like fast, sloppy, oral where guys just throw my cock in their mouth and immediately start slobbering all over it and choking on it. That is not hot to me and lately alot of guys have been resorting to giving head like that. When a dude takes his time and makes love to my cock with his mouth and just slowly speeds things up and how much he takes in to his mouth, thats what gets me going and turns me on.
i hate that too or when a guy spits on my dick before he even sucks it it's like get it wet first by sucking on it then spit on it after awhile i think guys do that because that's what they do in porn instead of just start slowly sucking and teasing the shaft then start using your hands and suck a little faster
 
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Do most of you guys cum from a really good blowjob quickly? I find unless im really horny or have been edging myself prior it takes a really really long time for me to cum from a guy just sucking my dick, even when its a great BJ. I often warn the guy before that it may take a long time for me to bust so they dont exhaust their jaw lol.
Funny thing though if its a mutual BJ scenario that will help speed it along, especially if the guy has a nice cock. But most of these skilled cocksuckers want to [did you mean "don't want"?] reciprocation.

Any of you guys share the same experiences? I love getting sucked but i feel its more like an appetizer than the full meal.
Although I usually prefer to be on the giving end when it comes to blowjobs, my husband is a wonderful cocksucker and has gotten me off many times. It usually takes anywhere from 5 to 10 minutes, but sometimes it happens more quickly if I'm exceptionally horny or if it's been a few days since we last made love. The key to getting me off is the combination of skilled sucking plus simultaneous nipple stimulation.

To me, a blowjob can be (and often is) the main event of a sexual experience—or at least that's how I tend to approach it. So if it takes longer for me to get my man there, that's part of the joy of the journey. I don't have to have reciprocation each and every time because the thrill of giving him a blowjob to completion is fulfilling in and of itself, but I certainly welcome and thoroughly enjoy it.
 
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It takes me a long time too… but i guess it s normal if u don t cum quicker
 

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"Even if it takes long to cum."? OMG... To me, that's the best!
Trust me, there r tons of guys who easily get bored. With those fellows, the ability to last long is not a privilege... however there are guys who are completely the opposite, it's like , an hour long slow blowjob is the main event for them. I just make sure i leave a tip before leaving....
 

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In general It takes me awhile as well but I tend to do it on purpose as I don't want it to end as its just feels so damn good and I love it teased. I can totally understand though cumming quicker when I'm playing with his cock or jerking him off.
 
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If the person is at least decent (say a B-minus grade) at giving head, I can easily cum anytime from a blowjob. I prefer the true cocksuckers who are completely into worshiping dick. Put one of those guys on his knees in front of me, and I will stay rock hard for hours and can cum whenever I want, from 2 mins to 2 hours. Although I have met a handful of guys so good, I can't resist wanting to cum in their mouth in about 10 mins.
You described me to a "T"!
 
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I used to get question myself if a guy had trouble cumming with me giving oral. Usually it was with a guy who was inexperienced having another guy service him; and/or was nervous about the entire experience, his wife finding out, etc. In the past, I had attributed it to me but I just don't think that's the case as most of my feeders cum so darn quickly that I end up the one disappointed because I didn't get more penis time.
 
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Do most of you guys cum from a really good blowjob quickly? I find unless im really horny or have been edging myself prior it takes a really really long time for me to cum from a guy just sucking my dick, even when its a great BJ. I often warn the guy before that it may take a long time for me to bust so they dont exhaust their jaw lol.
Funny thing though if its a mutual BJ scenario that will help speed it along, especially if the guy has a nice cock. But most of these skilled cocksuckers want to reciprocation.

Any of you guys share the same experiences? I love getting sucked but i feel its more like an appetizer than the full meal.
Every cock is different in terms of the exact type and level of stimulation. I've always cum reasonably fast from blowjobs and usually have to work to not cum too fast. It also depends on the skill of person giving the blowjob. But, for you younger guys, be aware that as guys get older it takes more stimulation to cum, so now (i'm in my mid 50s) it does take longer (not a bad thing at all as it extends the fun part).

The thing I don't often see discussed in these blowjob threads is the importance of the tongue in blowjobs. How the sucker uses his tongue can make all the difference between a boring blowjob and a toe-curling blowjob. I had one lover once who gave fantastic blowjobs that would get me to the edge really really fast fast. I would beg him to pause, and he would look at me and stop for a second and then continue even harder. His technique was putting my cock deep in his mouth and massaging the base of my cock with his tongue. Guys, if you want to improve jour BJ technique focus on using your tongue. My current partner gives great blowjobs too. When sucking my current partner it takes a while to get him to cum and requires me constantly rubbing my tongue at the top of his shaft. It takes quite a bit of focus and if I allow myself to get too into sucking him I sometimes lose focus. Lat night I sucked him for a long long time and I was really LOVING it, as was he. I was able to keep focus on the job and be really excited and hard for the whole thing. When he came I smacked his ass and briefly took his cock out so I could swallow his tasty load. It was pretty fantastic for two older guys who have been together ages. When he was done he asked what he could do for me and I had him straddle my face with his cock in my mouth. I jerked off like that for a while and moved down and started rimming him. I splattered his chest with cum while my tongue was poking and prodding his asshole.
 

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Any true cocksucker wants to work 60-120 minutes
For me, it depends on the guy doing the sucking. Some guys, now matter how much they like dick, are unskilled suckers. I have one buddy that loves to blow me. He's hot as hell, but treats the cock like a popsicle on a 90° day. It's all mechanics with him. I cannot cum from this guys blow jobs.

On the other hand, the guy behind the neighborhood glory hole who has me rock hard the moment my cock lands on his tongue. I have to work very hard to not cum within minutes. His skill is unmatched - and I'd call it 'catch and release' - he knows how to edge a cock using only his mouth.

My knees buckle every time I cum at his glory hole.
 

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For me, it depends on the guy doing the sucking. Some guys, now matter how much they like dick, are unskilled suckers. I have one buddy that loves to blow me. He's hot as hell, but treats the cock like a popsicle on a 90° day. It's all mechanics with him. I cannot cum from this guys blow jobs.

On the other hand, the guy behind the neighborhood glory hole who has me rock hard the moment my cock lands on his tongue. I have to work very hard to not cum within minutes. His skill is unmatched - and I'd call it 'catch and release' - he knows how to edge a cock using only his mouth.

My knees buckle every time I cum at his glory hole.
May I have a go?
 

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Varies for me of course if the guy knows what he's doing.
If it's just suckin me, then yea takes longer time for me to cum. Which is great cause it feels good, I'm not in a rush and I love getting edged.
But if the dude is also working my balls and fur/nips, then I get closer much faster.
I don't mind if the bj is the full meal, getting sucked is one of my favorite ways to cum.
 

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Every cock is different in terms of the exact type and level of stimulation. I've always cum reasonably fast from blowjobs and usually have to work to not cum too fast. It also depends on the skill of person giving the blowjob. But, for you younger guys, be aware that as guys get older it takes more stimulation to cum, so now (i'm in my mid 50s) it does take longer (not a bad thing at all as it extends the fun part).

The thing I don't often see discussed in these blowjob threads is the importance of the tongue in blowjobs. How the sucker uses his tongue can make all the difference between a boring blowjob and a toe-curling blowjob. I had one lover once who gave fantastic blowjobs that would get me to the edge really really fast fast. I would beg him to pause, and he would look at me and stop for a second and then continue even harder. His technique was putting my cock deep in his mouth and massaging the base of my cock with his tongue. Guys, if you want to improve jour BJ technique focus on using your tongue. My current partner gives great blowjobs too. When sucking my current partner it takes a while to get him to cum and requires me constantly rubbing my tongue at the top of his shaft. It takes quite a bit of focus and if I allow myself to get too into sucking him I sometimes lose focus. Lat night I sucked him for a long long time and I was really LOVING it, as was he. I was able to keep focus on the job and be really excited and hard for the whole thing. When he came I smacked his ass and briefly took his cock out so I could swallow his tasty load. It was pretty fantastic for two older guys who have been together ages. When he was done he asked what he could do for me and I had him straddle my face with his cock in my mouth. I jerked off like that for a while and moved down and started rimming him. I splattered his chest with cum while my tongue was poking and prodding his asshole.
Wow that hot thanks for share your experience.
 

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As a cocksucker, I take pride and pleasure sucking monster cocks with the skills and talents I have honed with time and experience. They may doubt I can suck them off in little time at all, but my lips, tongue, mouth, and throat prove otherwise. :)
 

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i never worry about if the guy cums quickly or takes a while--if the guy cums quickly--- and wants me to kep sucking him off for rounds 2 3 4 then my mouth will gladly do the work--- one guy i sucked off lasted a good 40 minutes-said most guys would qquit sucking him or just jerk him off- then suck his dick as he came--- but i am a guy thats been in a few threeesomes--a few circle jerks turn suckfest--sometimes fuckfest-- and my mouth has been known to suck dicks for over two to three hours at a time---so its all fun and good for me

i met one guy said he had problems keeping a date after 15 minutes--and it was mostly them talking--so we met and talked and he wanted to do a little showing so i agreed---i pulled my dick out and he played with it and next thing i see was cum oozing through his pants--he didnt last long enough to even get it out of his pants--he took of and left as i figured he was embaressed --i messaged him a thousand times told him i wanted to talk-- so we met at my place this time--- and this time i pulled his dick out and stroked it like 3 times--he cums in my hand--he turned his head in shame--i licked what was in my hand and kneeled down and sucked his dick which was still hard---2 minutes later he came again--- and he was shocked that i kept on sucking him--

he may been a quick cummer but one thing for sure his nice cock stayed hard the entire time---he went to fuck me and soon as his head touched my hole he came--i told him rub it on his cock and slide t in--so he had some lube on his dick plus his own cum using it as lube--and he felt so good inside me-----when he had enough as i let him do it all he wanted--- he either sucked me off or i fucked him-- then we would talk and he said he never met anyone like me before--he was 22 at the time i was only 28--i just told him some guys are just jerks--and forget that both people are supposed to enjoy the time together not just one--

for few months we got together and it remained same --but i told him he could fuck me with that nice dick all night long if wanted to--few years later he found a boyfriend--and introduced him to me and said i was the one that made him feel special at the time we were together--and his new bf was same way---