The opportunity to suck a huge cock is a great honor! Huge throbbing cocks deserve to be serviced regularly! 
I will always swallow
I can cum from most BJs. The only time a guy blowing can’t get me to cum is if it’s uncomfortable - teeth or he’s pounding his throat on it too hard. If it’s a good comfortable rhythm, I’m cumming for sure.
Most guys that I've blown cum after 10-15 minutes. My first could go for about an hour and cum twice. I miss him!!!
I don't swallow. In fact, I try not to let them cum in my mouth. Partially because I don't want it in my mouth, but also because I want to see them cum.
I don't swallow. In fact, I try not to let them cum in my mouth. Partially because I don't want it in my mouth, but also because I want to see them cum.
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I always cum from a bj and love it much more than a handjob. I guess based on what I read here, not always the case. My b/f used to be like that as well, but once I got him to relax and ride the almost waves until he cums; now he prefers my mouth instead.
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I think what it is for me is i do not like fast, sloppy, oral where guys just throw my cock in their mouth and immediately start slobbering all over it and choking on it. That is not hot to me and lately alot of guys have been resorting to giving head like that. When a dude takes his time and makes love to my cock with his mouth and just slowly speeds things up and how much he takes in to his mouth, thats what gets me going and turns me on.
Yes, it's all about savoring the experience, and not rushing through it. I usually like to start by kissing and licking the neck and ears, working my way down the chest and stomach, teasing to the cock. And then it's some licking and kissing of the dick before taking it in my mouth and doing my thing. You have to build that anticipation in your partner.
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Usually, I'll cum from almost any fair to good BJ but if I'm not going to cum, I'll know it in couple of minutes and just relax and try to get a short edge going.... I try to stay hard for at least 15 minutes or so, just to enjoy my cock getting sucked but then, I don't want to cum, just go home or to another GH and start over. If it's home, I'll try to go for a few more hours. I't's a nice way to start a good edge.
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I totally agreeThe opportunity to suck a huge cock is a great honor! Huge throbbing cocks deserve to be serviced regularly!
As a guy who really enjoys having a cock in his mouth, I don't experince any time the guy doesn't cum. And I believe it's up to me to help make him that excited. Good eye contact. Making sounds when your deep throating him, blowing him in front of a mirro is good.
It's rather rare to come directly from a blow job, no? (Or as Jence77 rightly puts it, "I mean by only blowing me. no hands at all.") For all the fun talk of "swallowing or spitting," this isn't really a real-world choice IME.
But licking up or wiping up is a real-world choice, to be sure. I'm currently reading Paul Monette (a writer unfortunately long dead)'s harrowing and riveting 1988 AIDS memoir, Borrowed Time, so HIV/AIDS is on my mind in a way it isn't normally in this PrEPpy era, and I'm revisiting the guidelines about what I thought I knew about oral sex.
(As an aside, we truly lost an erudite generation from AIDS. It's sad and scary how illiterate modern gay men are even when compared to Baby Boomers, who have been decried as pop-culture-obsessed zombies for most of their lives.)
Hey, there's a very low possibility of HIV transmission from blowjobs alone. As another said, the swallowing isn't the issue (stomach acids kill it off quick) but rather the very remote chance that HIV will make it through a cut in your inside lip.
Let's put it this way: oral sex is described as even less of a risk indicator for HIV than it was even in the 1990s, when I first started having sex and far less was known about the disease than is known today.
This is not (not, not, not) a recommendation that you lick up the random spooge of all your tricks. There are risks to doing that that go beyond HIV. But oral sex in general is far less riskier than anal sex. If you get a guy's cum in your mouth, don't freak out -- and of course, most people don't freak out.
But licking up or wiping up is a real-world choice, to be sure. I'm currently reading Paul Monette (a writer unfortunately long dead)'s harrowing and riveting 1988 AIDS memoir, Borrowed Time, so HIV/AIDS is on my mind in a way it isn't normally in this PrEPpy era, and I'm revisiting the guidelines about what I thought I knew about oral sex.
(As an aside, we truly lost an erudite generation from AIDS. It's sad and scary how illiterate modern gay men are even when compared to Baby Boomers, who have been decried as pop-culture-obsessed zombies for most of their lives.)
Hey, there's a very low possibility of HIV transmission from blowjobs alone. As another said, the swallowing isn't the issue (stomach acids kill it off quick) but rather the very remote chance that HIV will make it through a cut in your inside lip.
Let's put it this way: oral sex is described as even less of a risk indicator for HIV than it was even in the 1990s, when I first started having sex and far less was known about the disease than is known today.
This is not (not, not, not) a recommendation that you lick up the random spooge of all your tricks. There are risks to doing that that go beyond HIV. But oral sex in general is far less riskier than anal sex. If you get a guy's cum in your mouth, don't freak out -- and of course, most people don't freak out.
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I think subconsciously you may have it in your head (no pun intended) that it's going to take a long time and won't happen. That happens before whoever it is enjoying you starts. Kick back, let him enjoy, ride the waves if you get them and don't worry about how long it takes.
I normally always do. The only time I won’t is if I’m too tired. I prefer receiving head to anything else really. Especially if it’s really good head too. Sometimes, depending on how horny I am, if the guy gets it in the right spot then I’m done in a couple of minutes. Those are normally pretty explosive shots though if they get that!
I was with a guy that you can suck his dick forever and he would never cum…… he says it’s not where he didn’t like to be sucked it’s just that he never has gotten off while getting a blowjob.. so he was perfect as I sucked his dick and he was really into it then time passed by…
Then this is where gets weird.. I bend over he slides his dick inside me and fucks me for like5 minutes and he is cumming either inside me or pulls out and shooting up my back….. I really wished it was the other way around so he can fuck me forever then I can suck his dick few minutes then he cums
Then this is where gets weird.. I bend over he slides his dick inside me and fucks me for like5 minutes and he is cumming either inside me or pulls out and shooting up my back….. I really wished it was the other way around so he can fuck me forever then I can suck his dick few minutes then he cums
With me I can last a long time getting sucked … just as long as don’t touch my asshole.. you do that and I will cum instantly
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I can't think of a time i've ever NOT made a guy cum from giving him a blowjob. I can generally tell what I need to do when I see their cock. If It's already hard, or half chub, i know they are ready to go. If I have to get them hard, I know to go slow and gentle and work my way up.
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