BLOWJOB vs. SEX

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Id take sex if the girl was better at sex. BJs are good if the girl has no idea what shes doing lol.

But most girls who can give good bjs know how to have sex so thats a tough call.
 

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Well..from perspective as a penetrative banging banging woman most of the time..it much depends the BJ craving for specific man and his penis...dont know how many feel like I do..but..there are people you just crave to have in our mouths bad and others thrust deep hard bad. I do learn to respect my cravings leadings because the results were very fruitfull.

But there are situations you crave so much their masculine being laying all nude sexy there, making faces being man etc ...with such hunger that you get confuse where to start the journey...at this time of such confusion in me that I need organized man to keep his head on and just smille at me as understanding my behaviour..because I mess up in my act because he is all yummy food and I'm a kid again dont know for few secs or min where to grab and go for it first..but then I may grab another piece of yummy desmount and bj...than take back inside...

Finally a conclusion: depends of the appetite inside...:rolleyes:
 

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For me, being sucked by someone who's good at it, especially if we like each other (doesn't have to be love), is the greatest pleasure in life. Oral sex has always seemed more intimate to me, and as stated in previous posts to this thread, the attention paid to my cock while I relax & enjoy it is unbeatable.

I'm 61. I've been sucked by other guys (first time age 7, last time age 18), girlfriends, female co-workers, my wife, & myself (I can still do it), and every time has been a thrill. I get aroused just thinking about a woman making eye contact with me while I come in her mouth. My orgasms that way are much more intense than when I come in a vagina.

I like regular sex, but I'd prefer oral every time.
 

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I just learned how to give a BJ in the last few months thanks to you all kind folks. I never knew it could be so fun and delicious!!! I love to give my guy a BJ. To hear him moan and squirm is very sexy. He seems to really enjoy it as well. Fun! Fun! I also love vaginal penetration, to feel his body on mine, but we are still working on some ED issues so hopefully soon that will be resolved.
 

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Originally Posted by brown_eyed_lady07 [URL]http://www.lpsg.org/images36/buttons/viewpost.gif[/URL]
Lady here... I have to say.. I love givng oral more than anything ....Dont get me wrong, I love intercourse..... But I am into the oral....


I couldn't agree more.

Tell us more! Why do you like it? Is it for the same reasons I do--that you love big cocks, can enjoy them more when you can meet them face-to-dick? Is it for the sensation in your mouth/throat? Is it a sense of power, where you get to be the one in control? Is it because you get to turn the tables on the usual roles, where the woman gets to dominate and the guy gets to be like the "sex object" for a change? Is it because you get to visually admire and tactilly measure how hung he is? Do you think of it as giving more, or receiving more? To me, when a well endowed male gives me his cock this way, I feel like it's the ultimate in simultaneous mutual receiving and giving. I'm totally turned on by and get off on going down on a big dick, need no "reciprocation" of any kind whatsoever. Mentally, I feel like it's such a privilege, and get so much gratification out of the physical oral sensations, I would love to have a suck-buddy with 9 or 10 inches who just wants to lie back and let me suck him off all the time. Do any women ever feel this way? Or do you mostly just find it to be a head trip (pardon the pun) to "give" him a bj?
 

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BJ's are the best !!! After 23 years of marriage though they only happen once or twice a year now. But during our "dating" days, my then GF would think nothing of blowing me anywhere !!

I guess for her it was more of the thrill of it all than actually the enjoyment it gave me. And she's always been a swallower, which makes it even more special. I really miss those days....But that's what "busines trips" to Vegas are for.....wink, wink
 

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Of course sex is good but alot of the time i prefer to jive a blow job. I can control the situation and i get to see everything that is happening. Then usually afterwards i'll go masturbate of have him go down on me..so in the end we both win
 

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I prefer giving blowjobs then getting one. My orgasms are EXTREMELY intense by me giving head. I just love giving head It is what sex is all about for me. I can take or leave anal intercourse. If I could I would blow all day and all night, thats how much I love giving blowjobs.

As for the taste that people don't like. Try giving head after eating a breath mint like peppermint or spearmint Icebreakers. It is Awesome!. The mouth and tongue are cool and the cock is hot and the two feelings together are great for both people. All you taste is the mint and it helps out for those that don't like the taste of cock.
 
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Performing oral sex has been my most favorite sexual activity ever. There are days when all I want to do is suck cock for hours on end and making him cum, tasting it across my lips and swallowing every last drop..

i love you. :O

and i've never had a bj before, so i cannot compare. =/
 

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Head is great, but it's something I can take or leave...
I'm much more interested in licking pussy than I am in getting blowjobs. I LOVE muff diving and can spend all night down on her. I can cum from eating out. I get my greatest pleasure from giving pleasure, whether that's with my dick or my tongue. I'm also very oral...
Totally agree with Roger on this one. :tongue:
And perversely, I much prefer a woman who knows how to handle a big cock - I tend to find most women are scared to squeeze the penis really hard, which I love. I have to add that I have never come in a woman's mouth after a BJ; don't know why that is: a few have tried but I guess my cock just needs rougher treatment before it spurts!
 

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As a top, I prefer intercourse over a BJ. And even though I am mostly gay, I actually prefer vaginal penetration over anal penetration.

As a bottom, I MUCH prefer sucking to geting f**ked.
 

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And Oral can also be an intense portion of foreplay prior to pentration sex. Both are much fun.
 

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love a hot blow job. kick back and watch my dick being made love to, but only as a lead up to fucking. and then i love to fuck for hours and hours. edge it over and over again and when i finally blow...the world shakes.
 
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I have to add that I have never come in a woman's mouth after a BJ; don't know why that is: a few have tried but I guess my cock just needs rougher treatment before it spurts!

I can come during a BJ, but it's much more difficult than coming during intercourse. It might be the fact that thursting my hips helps bring me off, but I'm afraid that if I do that during a BJ I will hurt her or make her gag.

It can sometimes be difficult seeing a loved one in that position if you have conflicting feelings about sex. I think some men see giving head as being a "degrading" thing to do, and don't want to "degrade" the person they love. This is not a problem for me since I am constantly going down on my wife as well (so there's an equality there) and I have constant reassurances from her as to how much she likes to do it to me, and how meaningful it is to her to receive my seed that way.