I consider copulative orgasms and fellatio orgasms to be more uniquely different than one better than the other. When I come in someone's mouth my orgasm is focused on penis, prostate, ejaculatory ducts, etc. When I come in a woman's vagina it's much more of a whole body experience. And yet I can still appreciate the idea that a fellated orgasm is more intense as one particular way of experiencing that intensity is my all time favorite way to climax. Of course it requires a female partner who actually enjoys sucking to completion and, in my experience, they are a sadly small minority.
Anyway, here is how it goes. I'll first bring my partner to one or more orgasms through foreplay, principally cunnilingus and fingering. Then penetrative sex involving multiple positions and techniques for whatever duration suits my partner and involving at least one more orgasm on her part. Finally, when I reach the point that I simply cannot hold off much longer, I'll withdraw and let her finish me off in a hot 69. For me that is the absolute ultimate in sexual nirvana.
Although I have never had a blowjob but I have given them before. I love to do it
