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I often pop a boner as the result of vibration from operating my riding lawn mower. Should I "acknowledge" my sexuality as being 85% homosexual / 10% heterosexual / 5% riding-lawn-mower-a-sexual?

By your logic, if a guy has never even had an emotional attachment to a female, he is apparently not straight, bisexual, or gay.

In a sense. Sexuality is developmental. Until you've had those experiences, who's to say what you are? Although, your hypothetical scenario would never happen. Show me a sexually active person that hasn't ever so much as had a crush before.

Apart from people not seeing eye to eye, the opinions offered in this thread are mostly going to be slapdash; some hitting the mark and some very far off base, because there's a big difference between sexuality in practice and one's social identity as defined by their sexuality. For instance, my post was about how one defines one's place in society based on their sexuality, whereas yours was about the technicalities of sexual behavior.
 

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I really dont think a straight man would get turned on by the thought of another man in any sexual way, let alone a sex act being preformed on himself (unless it is of course watching/thinking of a man with a woman). And a man who could achieve an erection because of another man i would probably consider Bi-sexual and not straight
 

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I think alot of str8t guys get tired of "doin all the work" and would enjoy laying back and and letting someone(male or female)suck their cocks. With no recripcation needed. I know my doorbell trade does!What do I get out of it? Knowing I am giving pleasure and a GREAT TIME AND ORGAZM!I swallow too!alot of women WONT!
 

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My answer to the main question of this post is "Yes!"

I am a gay male whose preferred sexual activity is to perform oral sex with no reciprocation. Because of this, I have met many men over the internet who identify as heterosexual or bisexual and who were seeking no-strings head.

One of my repeaters identifies as a heterosexual and is married (but separated) with two kids. When it comes to blowjobs, however, he specifically seeks gay men. He likes being able to just kick back and not have to do all the work for once, which in his experience he has found only from guy cocksuckers. When asked to compare his experience with men vs women, he says "it's like comparing apples and oranges." I am convinced that he is heterosexual because only straight porn arouses him.

Another repeater also identifies as heterosexual. He was tipped into looking online for guy cocksuckers from an acquaintance of his who had tried it out and reportedly had a positive experience. When he learned of this avenue for finding blowjobs conveniently, his ears perked up, as he loves blowjobs more than anything else in the world. He says that his wife also sucks him and is quite good at it, but for him it was more a matter of getting it even more than he could from his wife. Again with him, I am convinced that he is heterosexual because only straight porn arouses him.

Situational factors may also contribute to heterosexual mens' transient experiences of letting guys suck them. I recently met a married man whose wife and kids had left him. He had been feeling lonely as well as horny, and posted an online classified ad, stating that he was looking for head from either a male or female. I offered, he accepted, and he reportedly had such an unforgettable experience that he has already been asking me for a follow-up session.

I am becoming more and more convinced based on these and other examples that some men are so comfortable and secure in their heterosexuality that getting guy-sucked would not pose a threat to them.
 

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I would have to say this is a very hard question to answer. On a purely physical standpoint I would have to say yes, cuz alot of guys can give amazing head and if you were to not know who was sucking your dick or you were to not think about anything other than just the sensations on your cock then it would feel good therefore you would be enjoying it, but thats only half of it, the mental aspect is just as important as the physical, and this is even harder to answer because this question would have to be answered on a purely individual basis, so after all this blabbering i've come up with nothing, I personally would have to answer yes but thats just me and everyone else probably feels differently, so i know thats not much help but thats just my two cents.
MATT,
 

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cruisinbcs,

I agree with you 100%! That was very well stated.

By the way, where were you when I was in College Station years ago?
 

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The whole idea of straight men/gay sex is purely circumstantial if it is a 90-95% straight male.

Someone mentioned earlier about a married man with kids. He was lonely and just needed someone to give him what he wanted.

Sometimes its desperation that leads guys down that path and sometimes it's plain curiosity. Alcohol, though, is probably one of the biggest players in that game.

I've said in other posts that when it comes to a hookup, I only want the straight ones...it can be a challenge sometimes, but it's also great fun, imho.

P.S. The "guys give better head" discussion is very circumstantial. I've seen chicks who can deepthroat shit that just shouldn't be possible, and I've seen guys who can't even take a pencil dick.

Personally, though; I do give better head. LOL!!!
 

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no way,i think it is disgusting and i wouldn't get an erections without two viagras or something not matter how good it could be.
 

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My opinion is you can't separate the head (or the mouth) from the rest of the body.
Let's put aside gloryholes because those who use it don't really care who is on the other side. I take it from some comments I've read that some gay guys wouldn't mind being sucked off by a girl, since "good head is good head" and they mentioned the gloryholes (there's no criticism whatsoever here, I'm just pointing what seems to me to be a fact).
Do you (gay, bi or hetero) think it is the same thing to get head from an extremely sexy person with a killer body and to get it from someone you find totally unatractive? My guess you wouldn't find it as satisfying, even if the latter were a great blower, because it's not just a mouth that is sucking you off, it is a person, a whole being, a whole set of characteristics and features.
I once saw a definition of homosexuality that was very simple: a homosexual is someone who is atracted to someone from the same sex. Just that. It didn't even get into the sexual details. It only mentioned atraction. So I guess the best way to describe someone's sexuality is the way it is put in this forum: how much percent gay/hetero =P
Therefore, a guy who is straight enough not to feel atracted to another man wouldn't feel any kind of pleasure in receiving oral sex from him. Men and women are veeeeeeeeeeeeeeryyyyyyyyyyy different. A mouth is a mouth??? Maybe, but the moaning isn't the same; the way the skin feels isn't the same; the scents are different; the beards are different too... I hope =P

Am I making sense?

If not, let's aproach the question from the opposite angle: Would a gay guy feel any pleasure in getting head from a woman, or doing her ass?
 

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Oh, I forgot. About the subject of guys feeling socially pressured into not admiting they like contact with other man for fear of being labeled as gay, I agree that it is a social issue but it is wrong. Each one is as he/she chooses and, as I say, as long as it doesn't involve children or animals, it's no one's business other than their's.

I say live and let live. The world is big enough for everybody.:smile:
 

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That's one thing, you just would be amazed at straight men that will run in xxx video arcade, walk in a booth, stick their cock in a hole, either get sucked or fuck the hole, drop their loads and it's home I go.
Now the best a man will see at times is a finger pointing to the hole indicating stick your cock in there, and sometimes lips around the hole.
There is no way, man can know what's behind hole#1,man or woman.
My feeling is that man playing some xxx rated titty flick while his cock is being sucked cares. Like I said, as soon as he shoots his load, he pulls his cock back out of the hole,wipes his cock off, puts it back in and zips up.
Again I believe sticking my cock in a hole, doesn't make me anything, any more than pulling it out of a fake mouth you can buy for that purpose or a paper towel. Neither one of those do anything to change my sexuality at all.
Neither does watching a women suck cock, while my cock is in a hole inside a moist hot mouth until he explodes have anyhting to do with his sexuality.
If that man is straight, he is going to keep being straight.
I sucked a man's cock for years, his wife hated it and he had a massive cock 10x6 3/4
That man never became gay, never left his wife and kids.
No he didn't putit through a hole, but other than grabbing my head and guiding it, his relationship with me pretty much was over once he shot his load.
He never wanted to fuck, suck, see me naked, see my cock,what he wanted is for me to drop to my knees,open my mouth and let him fuck while I sucked until he got off.
We had a good relationship, but it never got any better.
Not that his cock wasn't spectacular.
But in my opinion, that man was not gay or bi.
One thing, I started off having to puton xxx straight porn but at some point,he didn't have to have the pron to get hard.
The first time, he couldn't get a hard on and I asked him to just let me put my mouth around it, that helped.
It's impossible to make judgements about a person's sexualtiy but I feel that a person that is bi would certainly want to see or suck cock, or fuck an ass.
And gay men would certainly not go after pussy, but if a woman was squatting behind a hole and that gay man didn't know; he would stick his cock in it.
 

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As can be seen by the variety of responses to the OP's initial question, it varies a great deal from individual to individual. They say the most powerful sex organ is the brain and that is quite true. But it works both ways, the brain can easily conjure up thoughts that make your dick hard or it can just as easily cause your dick to go limp and stay that way. Also, individual cocks vary a great deal in how automatically they respond to physical stimulation. I, for one, have never had an erection during a medical exam even when the doctor was a beautiful woman carefully examining my genitals. But some totally straight men will go erect as soon as their male doctor examines their testicles or performs a digital rectal examination.

So in addressing the original question I'd say that a homophobic straight guy whose cock is relatively unresponsive to physical stimulation could never enjoy a blow job from another guy, and if he ever were to try it he probably wouldn't even go erect. A homophobic straight guy whose cock is highly responsive to physical stimulation could very likely go erect and reach orgasm with a guy sucking him but he probably wouldn't "enjoy" it. An open minded straight guy with the highly responsive cock would almost certainly enjoy receiving head from another guy and the same open minded sort of straight guy whose cock is less responsive to physical stimulation would probably just have to close his eyes and think sexy thoughts about doing it with a woman to enjoy the experience.

I'm in that last category, as sex to me is equally as much mental as physical. A guy going down on me is nowhere nearly as arousing as a pretty woman performing the same act. Yet, in my extensive experience, guys generally do a better job at physically giving head so I agree that it's like comparing apples to oranges. My own view on why guys are usually better practitioners at the art of fellatio is because it is invariably a labor of love for them and people tend to do best what they love most. With most women, at least in my experience, giving a blow job is considered more of a necessary evil. But the few women I have known (in the Biblical sense, hehe) who truly enjoyed giving head were every bit as good at it as any man and, because of my inherent heterosexuality, they were the ones who gave me the best head I've ever received.

But in contrast to my inherent heterosexuality I have a lifelong fascination with, and attraction to, male genitalia. Beyond normal male bonding and friendship I am not attracted to men in any emotional way. But put a nice looking cock (and that's a totally subjective thing) in front of my face and I get hard in a hurry. So for this "heterosexual" guy the best possible blow job I can receive from another guy is in a 69 with a guy whose dick I really like. And I can't think of a better example of who I'd most enjoy doing that with than a previous poster to this thread, Coveryerteeth. I'd gladly cover my teeth for that one, be it 69 or on my knees. He also addressed the social/orientation issues involved with the OP's question better than I've ever seen before. It deserves another read:

I find it extraordinarily funny and also sad how, in our culture, it's okay and even applauded when women have a healthy sense of sexual adventurousness that includes playing with other girls, but men have to walk this unbelievably precarious razor-wire tight-rope in order to avoid forever losing their "nothing less than completely straight" status. It's utterly homophobic and thoroughly pathetic.

My best friend and her boyfriend have a membership at a swingers' club and she called me all excited and went on and on about how much fun she had after she played with another girl for the first time. She's not at all bisexual. In fact, she can hardly stand to be in the same room with most other women. She's just sexually adventurous.

If a man experiments with man-on-man action but does not have the emotional capacity to ever fall in love or desire to pursue a relationship with another man, there's no need for him to "admit" that he's "bi." To think that way implies that a 100% heterosexual sex life is the ideal and anything else is inferior. In fact, if all the people you've ever been in love with are women and the only serious relationships you've ever had have been with women, I think it's rather insulting to people who've lived thru the incredibly profound experience of falling in love with people from both genders to flippantly refer to yourself as "bisexual" just cuz you busted a nutt, here and there, with another guy or two. That's why I think of myself as gay. I've had my share of women, but I never loved any of them, so I'm gay.

The answer to the question is, YES, a heterosexual man can absolutely enjoy getting head from another guy, provided he's not petrified by his own rampant insecurities. Problem is, in America, about 99.5% of the straight guys are completely debilitated by these kind of insecurities. Insecurity is what America does best. So much so that if we could export that shit, the dollar might actually be worth more than the pound.

As far as whether men give better head than women, I've been sucked off by a fair few guys who couldn't suck dick to save their life. As opposed to all of the women who've sucked me off. None, of which, could suck dick to save their life. :biggrin1:

It depends entirely on the individual, but men do have bigger (i.e.: more accommodating) mouths and throats. As mentioned, they do have more of an innate understanding of what's expected, they tend to be more enthusiastic about doing it and are more willing/better equipped to deep throat.

Although, in my experience, women are much more mindful not to drag their teeth on your dick. I consider that a huge win for their side. :wink:
 

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I've been blown by past girlfriends and one of my close guy friends that i've known since we were kids, i've even blown him. A BJ is just that - a BJ. A BJ with a guy (for me at least) is not really sexual - there is absolutely zero attraction and is just about busting a nut. However, when something feels so damn good you're not going to turn one down no matter who's offering.

This whole straight, bi, gay label thing is ridiculous! Everyone has different bounds and limits in their personality. There is nothing wrong with doing what feels right to you in the situation providing those involved are comfortable with one another.
 

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Of course, in the dark who can tell if it's a woman's mouth or a man's.
Not that I believe that all such bj's are in the dark.
Many are straight guys stopping by a XXX video arcade putting in a movie of a woman suckking cock or getting face fucked, then when they get a hard sticking it through the hole where there is a moist mouth and throat waiting.
99 % of the time, that's a man's mouth, but to the guy watching his porn and holding his erection, he isn't thinking about it any different than if he J/O and shot his wad in a kleenix.
Because when he finally does shoot his load, his already zipping up and on his way.
So I don't think it's a man that turns him on for one thing, it's kinda like one of those latex mouths a guy can get,stick his cock in and cum in.
Except the one on the other side of the hole is usually pretty warm, always wet and lubricated and if a guy with an enormous cock puts it in the hole; that mouth and throat can usually take every inch a lot like a pussy.
A man that says he would never let a man cocksucker suck him dry is a liar almost 99% of the time.
If a man isn't getting head or pussy, at some point after a lot of masturbation a situation presents itself. He WILL hang his cock in that cocksuckers mouth, cum and run.:smile:
 

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I don't understand? A straight man's cock don't shrivel fucking a fake face or ass and cummin in it. They don't shrivel jackin off and cummin in a rag?
But they would shrivel watching straight porn in xxx video arcade, while sticking that shrivelled cock which is growing in a hole there?
A hole that once your cock gets thru is hot and very moist and grabs your cock like a glove.
A man that says that if a drag queen sucked his cock and he didn't know it was a man, he would have cum like a geyser.
No man can say for sure what he would do, but I am telling you this, the man and they are straight, watch str8 porn stick their cock in a hole and shoot a load into IT have no regrets. It beats the hell out of a bottle of lotion and a rag!
And its just as disposable, once he cums, thats it.