hey dude...I see you're gay so it's guys giving you head; same with me. guys typically give better head but an impatient cocksucker will never make you cum. whatever makes you cum when you jerkoff (nip play, rubbing balls, watching porn, etc) do the same thing when you get sucked off and don't worry about the dude sucking you...he's pleasuring you so give it to him, he wants it.