Blowjobs or face fucks - what do you prefer?

[boatnik]

Nothing beats a long, slow, teasing blow job for me. I love being completely relaxed and feeling all of the stimulation coming from my cock for as long as I can. The intensity builds over time until it just bursts over the edge. My orgasm is much stronger that way. I never would opt for an aggressive quick release.

 

[deleted1005462]

Blowjob. My girlfriend isn't a huge fan so on the rare occasions it happens it's a slow, teasing, glorious explosion of cum by the end haha feels awesome. She wouldn't enjoy throat fucking and alot of the pleasure for me is seeing and hearing her enjoy herself so blowjobs are the preferred option

 

[opinionman]

Blowjob. My girlfriend isn't a huge fan so on the rare occasions it happens it's a slow, teasing, glorious explosion of cum by the end haha feels awesome. She wouldn't enjoy throat fucking and alot of the pleasure for me is seeing and hearing her enjoy herself so blowjobs are the preferred option

Well phrased. It just kills me that so many women seem reluctant to blow a guy. I don't find the reverse is true; almost every man I know is fine with going down on a woman. Better get a blowjob buddy who's a guy.

 

[Jjz1109]

No question about it - blowjob.

I just want to lie back and be worshipped. I am allowing you to do whatever you want. You may have your way with my cock, and I’m going to give you free rein. You are pleasuring me, and yourself, at your pace, on your terms. I may give you feedback (“lick my balls more” or “yeah baby, a little deeper” or “oh fuck, do that again”) but it’s you who is driving the bus, and I’m the passenger.

And BTW. Thank you for your most wonderous gift to me.

I will add to my prior post that, if patient, I had learned that a good blowjob could evolve into some heavy pumping, perhaps nearing what might qualify as a face fuck. That said, I have never wanted to force my cock into my partner’s mouth or throat since it takes away from the pleasure of truly being worshipped, and that’s what I seek from having my cock sucked. I found if my partner was enjoying herself enough and took her performance to the next level, and it happened on ocassion, I got what some here are looking for. My patience paid off.

These days, I’m married, and not getting nearly the regularity of blowjobs I did in my single days. Join the club, right? I may get the one-off shaft licking or balls sucking for a minute or so, but the face fucking days are long gone.

 

[opinionman]

Why why why do so many married guys end up in a situation with wives who, theoretically, I thought, should give them whatever they want just stop having sex? What is UP with that??
In contrast to you, if I understood you, facefucking can be a great form of worship from the cocksucker. I know guys who love getting face fucked as hard as humanly possible, and to them it's as worshipful as a long, slow tantalizing blowjob.

 

[pippo89]

If she can handle it face fucks, otherwise a good and sloppy blowjob

 

[lapdog2001]

I define a blowjob as meaning I am in control of the cock whereas a face fuck (or throat fuck) means the cock is in control of me (talking oral sex, of course). Given a choice, what would you want: for me to give you a blowjob or for you to give me a face/throat fuck?

(I love both but have a preference for the face/throat fuck. It's just so incredibly hot to know I am being totally used by a hard cock!)

When I think of face fuck, I picture those videos when the guy is ramming his cock down a woman's throat, and she is gagging or generating tons of saliva. No thanks, that seem gross and violent to me.

Yes, I love a blowjob where a woman is controlling all the action, but I also completely enjoy being assertive in what I will call face lovemaking, to differentiate it from porno style face-fucking. Sometimes I like being the one moving my cock in and out of her mouth, but never making her uncomfortable in any way. Or, if she is in the superior position, a very gentle guidance of her head to go maybe a little bit deeper than she is currently taking me. Always no coercion or force in any way, and always leaving how deep she takes me up to her. Respectful face-fucking?

 

[Bohdi]

I define a blowjob as meaning I am in control of the cock whereas a face fuck (or throat fuck) means the cock is in control of me (talking oral sex, of course). Given a choice, what would you want: for me to give you a blowjob or for you to give me a face/throat fuck?

(I love both but have a preference for the face/throat fuck. It's just so incredibly hot to know I am being totally used by a hard cock!)

As I was reading this my first thought was,"if she likes me to take control then face fuck/throat fuck would be my preference. If the woman preferred blowjobs that would be what I would want."

Either way, it is SO much better if the woman is into it. They are both awesome, I like both and variety.

 

[opinionman]

When I think of face fuck, I picture those videos when the guy is ramming his cock down a woman's throat, and she is gagging or generating tons of saliva. No thanks, that seem gross and violent to me.

Yes, I love a blowjob where a woman is controlling all the action, but I also completely enjoy being assertive in what I will call face lovemaking, to differentiate it from porno style face-fucking. Sometimes I like being the one moving my cock in and out of her mouth, but never making her uncomfortable in any way. Or, if she is in the superior position, a very gentle guidance of her head to go maybe a little bit deeper than she is currently taking me. Always no coercion or force in any way, and always leaving how deep she takes me up to her. Respectful face-fucking?

Thoughtful and well-considered.

 

[spaj8987]

Blowjob. And that's mostly because porn has utterly ruined the other for me. Nothing like finding a vid you kind of like, getting down an dirty with it only to have the guy try to kill the woman with his dick. Needless to say, instant turn off. So much so that i sometimes used to fear doing it by accident. (sometimes because it's been awhile in general)

Also because there's nothing like a woman not just demanding sex in general but that she blows you before the sex. Normally being treated like a piece of meat isn't in any way a good idea. Being treated like a piece of meat with a woman blowing you though is extremely hot. As long as it's not often. Would ruin the mood.

 

[Jaytt8]

No question about it - blowjob.

I just want to lie back and be worshipped. I am allowing you to do whatever you want. You may have your way with my cock, and I’m going to give you free rein. You are pleasuring me, and yourself, at your pace, on your terms. I may give you feedback (“lick my balls more” or “yeah baby, a little deeper” or “oh fuck, do that again”) but it’s you who is driving the bus, and I’m the passenger.

And BTW. Thank you for your most wonderous gift to me.

God this was hot wish icould blow you right now

 

[deeperthanyou]

Face fucking honestly

 

[Markym01]

Both are fine with me

 

[MrMagnum]

Definitely prefer bj's, but if the mood hits, there's something visceral and kinky about a facefuck. Holding that back of a womans head or if on top of her, pressing down and feeling your cock in the back of her throat...love it.

 

[opinionman]

What about blowfucks and face jobs*?

* ya know, like Botox?

 

[DeepHardThrust]

It all depends on the mood I'm in. Sometimes I WANT my cock sucked other times I want to dominate the women and fuck her throat like she's a cheap whore I have no respect for just for my pleasure.

Nice

 

[bloboi]

That's something I've never had to decide. That's a question for a Real Man. I'm just grateful to be there.

 

[visorkols]

Ive only had 1 good person who was good at giving a blowjob where I would cum from it. Face fucked a few others and id take that good blowjob.

 

[deleted814719]

I'd love a good blowjob to completion. It just doesn't happen. My wife gets tired or bored with it and never brings me to climax. I love it when she sucks my cock to erection while playing with my balls - lightly touching, squeezing, flicking them. But I can tell when she's had enough and wants me inside her. Often, I'll put her on her side and kneel up so that I can fuck her mouth for a few minutes - again, never to completion.

 

[fullpak]

Prefer giving a BJ in contrast to receiving a face fuck...i control the method of providing the pleasure.