Blue balls, and now ..... Erectile Dysfunction ?? Need some advice?

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  1. D_Bo_DiddleMe

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    OK, now I suppose nobody here would be interested in a long story... but to keep it short, I am 22 and 3 weeks ago I was jerking off to a porno.... I have this habit of edging orgasms and then shoot a blast of load, the problem started then that unexpectedly the 'one-eyed snake' started to get a bit limp... at that time I thought I might have edged too much and could be a case of 'blue balls'. As I started to feel a little pain in the balls ... I soothed them with an ice-pack... but after a day or two the pain was there, although it was not that much of a pain, but it was a bit disturbing ... I tried to jerk off again but the thing is that I am not able to achieve erection for no longer than a minute... I went to a doctor and told him about the slight pain in the balls he gave me 'dex-Ibuprofen' , I took the medication for 3 days and well, it didn't really helped... then I went to see the Doc again, this time he gave me some medicines to cure swelling or infection in the balls [if there was any]. Now after taking 2-3 doses, today I tried to jerk off to a porno ... But I am not able to maintain an erection for no longer than a minute.... :frown1: and I am not a guy who jerks off regularly, I remember I had a similar case of blue balls before but I was able to shoot a load after a few days, this time it's looks more troublesome
     
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    Ask your doctor to recommend a urologist, as there may be other issues. Are you on other medications? How is your health in general? Are you under any mental/physical stress lately?
     
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    No, I am not taking other medications.... and about my health, I think I fit or you can so normal and there is no mental/physical stress except that it's been three weeks and I am not able to shoot the load ... :frown1:
     
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    Urologist time. Also try a hot bathtub to relax the circulation. Edging is not harmful. Something else is going on with the circulation.
     
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    Weird, .... my doc has advised to put icepack on my balls specially the left one in which I feel some pain, and I don't own a bath tub... :confused:
     
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    Update....
    Today, I watched a few pornos, I am getting an strong erection but I am still not able to cum although it feels that it's been building up but it feels like that it gets stuck in the penis and more importantly, there is no sign of precum ...
     
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    Patience. Let your body react at its own pace now that you know there has been progress. Good luck with your junk.
     
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    I don't know what's going on but if it were me I would take it nice and slow with ma pecker. Maybe you had an inward ejaculation? Or some sort of urinary obstruction or seminal vessel obstruction? I'm no doc so I'm shooting in the dark here. But take it slow and try some warm baths? Or if ya don't have a bath try a warm soaked towel? To loosen ya up. And part of it could be your mental state. Don't put pressure on yourself. That in itself could cause problems. Hope you get it working bud.
     
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    the "weak erection - no orgasm" thing can also be psychological to some degree. if you are kind of obsessed with the thaught, that you HAVE to jerk off right now -even though you might not be in the mood for it- than its no wonder you cant stay hard/reach orgasm. you're body is not a mashine that produces cum just because you push a button. don't rush anything and wait for your balls to heal properly
     
  10. D_Bo_DiddleMe

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    Thanks for all the replies ... it's not just about ejaculation but about the slight pain in my left ball [which comes and goes], yesterday I feel a hell lot horny and even I felt the rush of semen in my penis but there was just no ejaculation, it looked if there was some obstruction there....
     
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    stop watching porn, leave your junk alone for a week, and in that week, try to find someone to have sex with instead of wanking to porn.
     
  12. D_Bo_DiddleMe

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    Man, it's not the solution of this problem, I have a gf but I am away from my hometown and I don't want to end up with hookers, I am not a guy who jerks off "religiously" everyday.... I occasionally masturbate for twice/thrice in a month and I am fine with it ... :cool:
     
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    At last, after a long, long time ... I had a wet dream last night... :biggrin1:
    I hope things are getting better
     
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