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I want to talk about some of my experiences with what has generally been mild erectile dysfunction in hopes that they will help another guy.

PART ONE: The past six years – I don’t want to take medicine!

I didn’t mark it down on my calendar because it was a day I had hoped to forget, but I’m guessing this happened when was when I was 52: My wife and I were having sex, and while inside her, I lost my erection. I felt embarrassed, and I didn’t know why I’d deflated. I was definitely enjoying myself, but I couldn’t get to the climax.

Over the next few months, and years, it happened again—and again. It seemed to be happening more often. For a while, I took some L-arginine, as I’d read that it might help. I thought it did, some—but I also wondered if it was acting as a placebo. For reasons I can’t explain, however, I stopped taking it after a few months.

I’m 58 now. I can’t put a specific timeline on the following, but over the years, the problems became worse. I generally had no problems getting hard (though it would take longer than it used to), but it was difficult for me to stayhard while inside my wife. Let me stress that during foreplay, my erection felt great. But during penetrative sex, there were often problems—and the frequency kept increasing.

I think the ED problems were made a bit worse by a couple of things: (1) Post-menopausal, my wife is really dry, so we have to use a lot of lube—lots of lube means less friction, less stimulation. (2) Once ED started happening, I’d get nervous that it’d happen again—anxiety about performance likely makes performance problematic. (3) While I think my cock is pretty big, my wife hasn’t been all that tight since she gave birth to a large (over 10-lb) baby after age 40. Before he was born, there’d be lots of queefing due to the tight fit, but I haven’t heard those sounds since he came along. Again, lack of tightness meant less friction.

Because I couldn’t stay hard easily, my “bag of tricks” became smaller. For example, while I loved giving long, slow strokes, those strokes weren’t sufficient to keep me hard. So, to ensure that I’d cum, once penetrative sex began, I’d stroke hard and fast so that I could shoot before I lost the boner. So, eventually, my only “trick” was fast pumping.

And sometimes even that didn’t work. I’ve faked several orgasms when I could tell that I was starting to lose it. Sometimes, after stroking awhile, it was obvious that I wasn’t hard enough to keep going, and I’d just stop. A couple months ago, I reached the point that probably half of the time, I wouldn’t be able to ejaculate while having sex.

Sometime within the last year, I started taking Horny Goat Weed (Walmart brand, and it has a few other ingredients in it). I also took L-Arginine. I thought these maybe made a bit of a difference, but I wasn’t sure. (I was quite willing to take supplements, but the idea of taking medication made me feel like I would be less of a man.)

Through it all, even though our sessions weren’t satisfying to me, and I’m sure weren’t as pleasurable to her, my wife still usually had an orgasm from my finger.

Things got quite a bit worse a few months ago, and while I could get hard during foreplay, by the time we’d shifted our bodies around and I started going in, I had lost so much of my erection that I wasn’t hard enough to enter my wife. I felt like shit. Performance anxiety made me want to avoid sex, so instead of our customary once a week session, it was stretching out to an attempt every couple of weeks. I think we went about six weeks like this.

You may be thinking, “Why didn’t he go to the doctor a long time ago?” General embarrassment is the main reason, and I was unwilling to admit to myself what was going on. I felt like admitting the problem and seeking a medical solution made me less of a man. And, seeing the doctor even less appealing was that my doctor was a family friend, and female—someone we go to church with. When she became my doctor about 15 years ago, I worried that I wouldn’t be able to talk about anything sexual with her should it ever become necessary. My worries were accurate. And I stopped going even for my annual physical. A few months ago, I tried to do an appointment with Roman (www.getroman.com), but one of their questions was about when I’d last had a physical, and when they found out it had been a few years, they said I needed to have one before proceeding further.

Let me add in a couple of points about me/us:
  • During my 40s and maybe even into my 50s, I was still jacking out an explosion most nights. My wife really only wanted to have sex on the weekends, but my drive was such that I really enjoyed, as part of my routine, a good squirt every couple of days (if not daily). Plus, I found that if I jerked it on, say, a Thursday, I’d have much better control when we made love during the weekends. When these ED problems started, my goal became not to cum from jerking, but just to edge (and edge and edge).
  • It’s implied by the above point, but I generally had no problem getting hard for masturbation. I could tell it wasn’t as hard as it used to be, but it seemed hard enough, and I almost always could bring myself to cum.
  • I’m in shape. I run 3 miles, 3 times a week. I don’t have any health issues, though my cholesterol is higher than it should be (I don’t’ take any medication, though my doctor has recommended it).
  • One of the things I’ve noticed over the last couple of years is that while I still think I get hard fairly easily, it has been more difficult to stay hard. For example, if I get a boner and want to take a picture, by the time I had my camera ready, I’d usually deflated more than I’d wanted. During foreplay, the same thing would occur—if I ever let my mind wander, the wood would weaken.
  • Another downside of this is that my dick was smaller. Whereas a few years ago, I’d typically measure about 6.75 inches, gently bone pressed (and even 7 a few times), I was tending to measure at about 6 inches. I knew that I wasn’t getting as hard, and so I didn’t have as much length. (That’s a tough thing to admit.)
  • My wife and I don’t do a very good job communicating about sex. (Or other things, for that matter, but that’s a whole other story.) We were both raised in very conservative homes, and I think even after nearly 30 years of marriage, we still feel somewhat embarrassed talking about our sexuality—especially my wife. So, while we had a few brief conversations about my struggles, they were more of the nature of me saying “I’m sorry” and her saying “That’s OK.”
Is anyone still reading? Sorry this is so long.

Part Two coming soon: Getting BlueChew
 

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I want to talk about some of my experiences with what has generally been mild erectile dysfunction in hopes that they will help another guy.

PART ONE: The past six years – I don’t want to take medicine!

I didn’t mark it down on my calendar because it was a day I had hoped to forget, but I’m guessing this happened when was when I was 52: My wife and I were having sex, and while inside her, I lost my erection. I felt embarrassed, and I didn’t know why I’d deflated. I was definitely enjoying myself, but I couldn’t get to the climax.

Over the next few months, and years, it happened again—and again. It seemed to be happening more often. For a while, I took some L-arginine, as I’d read that it might help. I thought it did, some—but I also wondered if it was acting as a placebo. For reasons I can’t explain, however, I stopped taking it after a few months.

I’m 58 now. I can’t put a specific timeline on the following, but over the years, the problems became worse. I generally had no problems getting hard (though it would take longer than it used to), but it was difficult for me to stayhard while inside my wife. Let me stress that during foreplay, my erection felt great. But during penetrative sex, there were often problems—and the frequency kept increasing.

I think the ED problems were made a bit worse by a couple of things: (1) Post-menopausal, my wife is really dry, so we have to use a lot of lube—lots of lube means less friction, less stimulation. (2) Once ED started happening, I’d get nervous that it’d happen again—anxiety about performance likely makes performance problematic. (3) While I think my cock is pretty big, my wife hasn’t been all that tight since she gave birth to a large (over 10-lb) baby after age 40. Before he was born, there’d be lots of queefing due to the tight fit, but I haven’t heard those sounds since he came along. Again, lack of tightness meant less friction.

Because I couldn’t stay hard easily, my “bag of tricks” became smaller. For example, while I loved giving long, slow strokes, those strokes weren’t sufficient to keep me hard. So, to ensure that I’d cum, once penetrative sex began, I’d stroke hard and fast so that I could shoot before I lost the boner. So, eventually, my only “trick” was fast pumping.

And sometimes even that didn’t work. I’ve faked several orgasms when I could tell that I was starting to lose it. Sometimes, after stroking awhile, it was obvious that I wasn’t hard enough to keep going, and I’d just stop. A couple months ago, I reached the point that probably half of the time, I wouldn’t be able to ejaculate while having sex.

Sometime within the last year, I started taking Horny Goat Weed (Walmart brand, and it has a few other ingredients in it). I also took L-Arginine. I thought these maybe made a bit of a difference, but I wasn’t sure. (I was quite willing to take supplements, but the idea of taking medication made me feel like I would be less of a man.)

Through it all, even though our sessions weren’t satisfying to me, and I’m sure weren’t as pleasurable to her, my wife still usually had an orgasm from my finger.

Things got quite a bit worse a few months ago, and while I could get hard during foreplay, by the time we’d shifted our bodies around and I started going in, I had lost so much of my erection that I wasn’t hard enough to enter my wife. I felt like shit. Performance anxiety made me want to avoid sex, so instead of our customary once a week session, it was stretching out to an attempt every couple of weeks. I think we went about six weeks like this.

You may be thinking, “Why didn’t he go to the doctor a long time ago?” General embarrassment is the main reason, and I was unwilling to admit to myself what was going on. I felt like admitting the problem and seeking a medical solution made me less of a man. And, seeing the doctor even less appealing was that my doctor was a family friend, and female—someone we go to church with. When she became my doctor about 15 years ago, I worried that I wouldn’t be able to talk about anything sexual with her should it ever become necessary. My worries were accurate. And I stopped going even for my annual physical. A few months ago, I tried to do an appointment with Roman (www.getroman.com), but one of their questions was about when I’d last had a physical, and when they found out it had been a few years, they said I needed to have one before proceeding further.

Let me add in a couple of points about me/us:
  • During my 40s and maybe even into my 50s, I was still jacking out an explosion most nights. My wife really only wanted to have sex on the weekends, but my drive was such that I really enjoyed, as part of my routine, a good squirt every couple of days (if not daily). Plus, I found that if I jerked it on, say, a Thursday, I’d have much better control when we made love during the weekends. When these ED problems started, my goal became not to cum from jerking, but just to edge (and edge and edge).
  • It’s implied by the above point, but I generally had no problem getting hard for masturbation. I could tell it wasn’t as hard as it used to be, but it seemed hard enough, and I almost always could bring myself to cum.
  • I’m in shape. I run 3 miles, 3 times a week. I don’t have any health issues, though my cholesterol is higher than it should be (I don’t’ take any medication, though my doctor has recommended it).
  • One of the things I’ve noticed over the last couple of years is that while I still think I get hard fairly easily, it has been more difficult to stay hard. For example, if I get a boner and want to take a picture, by the time I had my camera ready, I’d usually deflated more than I’d wanted. During foreplay, the same thing would occur—if I ever let my mind wander, the wood would weaken.
  • Another downside of this is that my dick was smaller. Whereas a few years ago, I’d typically measure about 6.75 inches, gently bone pressed (and even 7 a few times), I was tending to measure at about 6 inches. I knew that I wasn’t getting as hard, and so I didn’t have as much length. (That’s a tough thing to admit.)
  • My wife and I don’t do a very good job communicating about sex. (Or other things, for that matter, but that’s a whole other story.) We were both raised in very conservative homes, and I think even after nearly 30 years of marriage, we still feel somewhat embarrassed talking about our sexuality—especially my wife. So, while we had a few brief conversations about my struggles, they were more of the nature of me saying “I’m sorry” and her saying “That’s OK.”
Is anyone still reading? Sorry this is so long.

Part Two coming soon: Getting BlueChew
Wow. I read your story thinking how similar my story would be written. I started having trouble in my late 40’s where any distraction would make me lose my erection. Morning but better than evening but I would rush through sex not to get soft. Due to a prostate infection I visited a urologist and he asked me how my erections were. I answered honestly they weren’t great. He asked me to join a test trial for Viagra and wow. 18 again and wife lives that I didn’t rush. Over the last 14 years I have used all of the ED meds with Cialis still my favorite. Erections even with the meds aren’t always great. I take 20mg early Saturday morning and go back to bed. In about an hour I get a rock hard erection. Have good sex but for some reason it doesn’t stay as hard. Then I have trouble cumming. Ugh getting old sucks.
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I want to talk about some of my experiences with what started as mild erectile dysfunction (and got worse) in hopes that they’ll help another guy.

PART TWO: Getting BlueChew

A few days ago, @Mr. LPSG posted that he’d made arrangements for LPSG members to get $20 off at BlueChew. I decided just to take the plunge, and without even thinking about it, clicked on the link he’d posted. It was really an easy process. There were options of getting generic Cialis (Tadalafil) or generic Viagra (Sildenafil). Fortunately, there were some questions that would enable one to choose which would be better, and I chose Tadalafil (primarily because it would last 24-36 hours, whereas Sildenafil would last 4-6 hours). The next questions were about dosage, 6 MG or 9 MG. I didn’t know which to choose, so decided to go low. What I didn’t realize when I started was that I was signing up for a monthly plan, but once I figured that out, the next questions made sense: how many pills did I want to have per month? Options were 4 ($20/month), 7 ($30/month), 14 ($50/month), or 28 ($90/month). From commercials on TV, I’d thought Cialis was a daily medication, but I wasn’t willing to start at $90 a month for something I wasn’t sure would work, so I decided to go with the 7 pills ($30/month). During this online process I also had to answer some other medical-related questions (including those about what other medications I was taking, and whether I was taking supplements), photograph my drivers license, and upload a selfie. Then, I was in a queue to speak to a nurse. It felt weird to wait for them; not only was I nervous, but I still hadn’t even combed my hair since getting up, and I was just sitting on the edge of the bathtub. Fortunately, the queue was short (there was a time estimate from the moment I was put in the queue), and I figured the nurse likely had seen bedhead before, so I waited—it only took about two minutes. She asked me a few questions, mostly about what supplements I was taking. She said I had to stop taking the Horny Goat Weed while using the medication, as both it and Tadalafil lowered blood pressure—the combination would be too much. We discussed my choice about whether to get the 6 MG or 9 MG tablets, and she confirmed that I should start at 6. She explained that I could take two pills if one didn’t work. The consultation took about 5 minutes. She emailed me some things to read, got my prescription approved by a doctor (not while I was on the phone, but later in the morning), and then my pills were on their way.

I’d opted to have the pills sent to my office, hoping that the company wouldn’t indicate on the packaging that they were BlueChew. But I didn’t want to have to talk about “what was in the package” with my wife (I wanted to see if they would work first), or worse yet, with my kids. I figured that since the guy in the mailroom and I were friendly with one another, he wouldn’t tell anyone else at work even if he saw what I was getting. Fortunately, the return address showed CXDC as the sender, and so I figure he didn’t know what it was unless he gets it, too.

One of the other reasons starting to take medication for ED was unappealing is the fact that I knew I would have to disclose this fact at both my optometrist’s office and the dental office. My optometrist is a female friend, so that seemed embarrassing. My dentist is also a friend. By coincidence, my optometrist appointment was on Friday, the day that I hoped the medication would arrive, so knew I could get through at least one appointment without having to deal with the embarrassment.

Part Three Coming Next: Sex with BlueChew - Yes!
 

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I want to talk about some of my experiences with what started as mild erectile dysfunction (and got worse) in hopes that they’ll help another guy.

PART THREE: Sex with BlueChew – Yes!

The package came on Friday, and I read the instructions—it said to take tablets 30-45 minutes before sexual intercourse. But it also said that it should enable performance for 24-36 hours after taking the medication. And it said to that the medication worked best on an empty stomach. So I wasn’t quite sure about when to take them.

About 90 minutes after supper, I chewed one tablet. My wife and I watched a movie. Afterwards, I went to the bathroom and jacked a bit—I could tell that my erection came faster and harder than before. I was excited to try having sex.

My jacking actually occurred while I was taking a bath. I enjoy sex more if I know I’m clean, and while I have big nuts, they’re usually really tight—but they hang down loose if I take a hot bath, and I feel sexier. After the bath, I was ready.

When I got into bed, I dropped my pajama bottoms just before crawling between the sheets. I was pleased to find my wife naked also.

(Let me mention that it had been over 2 weeks since I’d last ejaculated, as I’d been afraid that cumming would lessen my ability to perform. In that time, I’d jacked a lot, maybe every day, and had edged some days for 2-3 hours in a couple of sessions.)

The bottom line: Sex went well. The foreplay got my hard much quicker than has been the case in recent months or even years. As mentioned above, in the recent past, during foreplay my boner would often weaken for a while, and it seemed rock hard throughout. Here’s something that is kind of difficult to explain. Sometimes during foreplay, my wife will do things that I don’t especially enjoy—for example, stroke me really aggressively. In the past, that would cause me to lose the wood, but Friday night, I stayed hard during those not as pleasurable moments. And when it came time to enter her, there was no question that I was hard enough to enter. It felt great. Fucking great. Literally.

The only thing that didn’t go so well is that I didn’t last as long as I wanted to last. Part of it was, I think, still related to performance anxiety. I wasn’t sure if I could do long slow strokes and remain hard, so I pumped pretty hard and fast—and when I was reaching the point of no return, whereas several years ago I would have backed away knowing I could get there again, since I wasn’t sure I could stay hard (or get hard again) if backing away, I kept going. I needed to cum, and that was more important than good sex. (And my wife had had an orgasm from my finger, so I knew she would feel satisfied.) I suppose the fact that I had gone so long without cumming also meant that it was harder to last.

I went to sleep feeling satisfied. And I was also wondering why I’d waited so long to solve my problem. (FYI: I did not tell my wife what I had done.)

Part Four coming next: Sex with BlueChew – Not really!
 

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I want to talk about some of my experiences with what started as mild erectile dysfunction (and got worse) in hopes that they’ll help another guy.

PART FOUR: Sex with BlueChew – Not really

The sex described in the Part Three post above happened Friday night. The tablet had said it would last for 24-36 hours. I was curious about whether I could perform again Saturday night without taking a second tablet, even though a significant part of me wanted to take another tablet so that I could be certain about performance. To check to see if the medicine was wearing off, I spent a crazy amount of time Saturday afternoon jacking. (Another reason I jacked so much is that it felt so good to once again have such a firm boner. It really was amazing; as I’ve indicated above, I jack quite a bit, and while I knew that my erection wasn’t as strong as it had once been, I don’t’ think I knew how much my “power” had slipped until I experienced the new boner. It was like discovering something new.)

I checked to see how my wood was after supper, and it still felt strong. We once again watched a movie, and I took a shower afterwards. When we got into bed, I wasn’t sure if my wife would want to have sex, as it has been probably a couple of years since we’d tried sex on two consecutive nights. But she responded to my initiative, and the foreplay was enjoyable. However, I could tell that my erection wasn’t as strong as it had been a few hours before when I’d last “checked.” (It was now about 27 hours since I’d taken a tablet.) And unfortunately, when she tried to ride me, I wasn’t hard enough to go inside. She had to lube up again before getting on me, and during that time, I lost the wood and couldn’t get it back. Fortunately, she’d had a pretty intense orgasm during foreplay, so I knew the session had been pleasurable to her.

After we were lying side by side, I explained that I’d taken BlueChew the night before and explained how I’d acquired it, etc. I also explained that I had not re-taken it because I wanted to know how long the effects would last. It was a bit awkward to talk about, but the conversation went fine.

Today, Sunday, I’ve also spent a lot of time jacking. My hardness level, etc. is definitely back to what it was before I took the BlueChew.

That’s all I can think of to say now. I’ve typed this series of four messages in a word processing program before uploading it to the forums, and it’s 3,000 words long, and over 5 pages single spaced. It’s probably enough!

I don’t know how long I’ll keep posting in this thread, but I want to record what happens with my next few experiences at least. Feel free to ask me any questions. I want to put the SUPPORT in LPSG.
 

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Wow wow wow wow Rohar that was incredible. What a read. Thank you for sharing. I'm looking forward to hearing more about your experiences. Do you mind if I share this with the owner of Blue Chew?

Also, any headaches, heat flash or hot head or feeling flush? I know Viagra and other similar ones sometimes have that side effect.

If anyone would like to check out Blue Chew you can do so here and a promo code for a free month is included. Blue Chew
 
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You may want to consider taking the daily 5mg dose of Cialis. It is available as a generic with 30 pills costing about $25. You can get a prescription from your primary care provider.

Similar to Blue Chew, you can get a 2 month prescription from HeyDoctor by GoodRx for a $30 consultation fee. They'll send the prescription to your local pharmacy of choice.

It takes a few days to kick in but by the 3rd day you're ready to go at any time.
 

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You may want to consider taking the daily 5mg dose of Cialis. It is available as a generic with 30 pills costing about $25. You can get a prescription from your primary care provider.

Similar to Blue Chew, you can get a 2 month prescription from HeyDoctor by GoodRx for a $30 consultation fee. They'll send the prescription to your local pharmacy of choice.

It takes a few days to kick in but by the 3rd day you're ready to go at any time.

@Rohar ... Thank You for sharing ... Yours story is normal for a lot of men who are in the beginning stage of Erectile Dysfunction

I just wanted to add that Cialis 5mg once daily can be prescribed as "Physical Therapy Medication " My Urologist put me on it several years ago. What it does for PT , it helps in you getting night time erections. Which is important in erectile health. You should take this medication under a Urologist Care .
 

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Wow wow wow wow Rohar that was incredible. What a read. Thank you for sharing. I'm looking forward to hearing more about your experiences. Do you mind if I share this with the owner of Blue Chew?

Also, any headaches, heat flash or hot head or feeling flush? I know Viagra and other similar ones sometimes have that side effect.
Thanks for the response—and go ahead and share it with him.

So far, I’d say no to the above negative side effects.
 
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You may want to consider taking the daily 5mg dose of Cialis. It is available as a generic with 30 pills costing about $25. You can get a prescription from your primary care provider.

Similar to Blue Chew, you can get a 2 month prescription from HeyDoctor by GoodRx for a $30 consultation fee. They'll send the prescription to your local pharmacy of choice.

It takes a few days to kick in but by the 3rd day you're ready to go at any time.
Thanks for the info about another option!
 

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@Rohar ... Thank You for sharing ... Yours story is normal for a lot of men who are in the beginning stage of Erectile Dysfunction

I just wanted to add that Cialis 5mg once daily can be prescribed as "Physical Therapy Medication " My Urologist put me on it several years ago. What it does for PT , it helps in you getting night time erections. Which is important in erectile health. You should take this medication under a Urologist Care .
Thanks man for the info!
 

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Thanks man for the info!
No problem Rohar ..... I read in your story, that you have not been to a doctor about your ED. Many factor can be the cause of ED, it's best to get a diagnosis from a urologist that specializes in Erectile Dysfunction. They can help you figure out what is the cause of your ED. No need to be embarrassed either, after all Penise Problems are their specialty.

You also mention about your penis getting smaller, there are a few things that can cause shrinkage.
1. Atrophy of the penis, yes this happens as we age. The penis is a muscle, the less it is used. It will begin to lose some of it's ability to stretch. Causing us to lose length.
2. Weight gain, the added weight will hide some of the penis.

It's not to late if you seek medical advice for a Urologist, notice I did not say a Family Doctor.... We all seem to build a friendship with a family doctor over time, which make it's difficult sharing this type of problem.
 
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Its really funny that guys will talk about most things but not the ability to maintain or even get an erection.
At 60 I was really in my prime and able to attractant a lot of younger guys and have amazing sex. Not only long hard erections for foreplay but long hard penetrative sex with good orgasms. And even when being penetrated I maintained a hard cock and had terrific climaxes.One day while doing a bit of role playing with a 20 something lad It came to the games and all was well but when it was time to fuck nothing, my cock wilted and I couldn't gain entry. I couldn't even get sucked hard. End of session. But the next time we had a game all went well till and bingo, so, by the third time I was in panic mode and yes, nothing. So I laid off wanking and edging but even with other partners I couldn't keep an erection for more than five seconds.
I bit the bullet and saws the doc. He looked at me like what the fuck are you doing still having sex at your age, but he prescribed a bluey.
Nervously I tried it out and hey presto, a boner for pleasure, no wilting and a cum shot of magnitude. So I carried on, a little bluey and a fuck till one day I got caught out with no pill and hey, guess what, no fears about it going down, it rose, waved and poked as it should have. So often it would seem an incident can lead to the mental side, min d over matter.
I do have some blueys still but only as a fall back and so far, a few years on, haven't needed them to stimulate my cock into a rock hard erection.
 

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I highly recommend prescription Bimix or Trimix over any of the PDE-4 based ED drugs (viagra, levitra, cialis). they have several advantages:
1) overall cost per dose is far cheaper
2) you'll be hard and stay hard no matter what
3) the effect stays localized to your penis so you don't have the potential side effects like headaches
4) te doses are personalized and as you learn your body's reaction you can dose to how long you want to stay hard
 

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No problem Rohar ..... I read in your story, that you have not been to a doctor about your ED. Many factor can be the cause of ED, it's best to get a diagnosis from a urologist that specializes in Erectile Dysfunction. They can help you figure out what is the cause of your ED. No need to be embarrassed either, after all Penise Problems are their specialty.

You also mention about your penis getting smaller, there are a few things that can cause shrinkage.
1. Atrophy of the penis, yes this happens as we age. The penis is a muscle, the less it is used. It will begin to lose some of it's ability to stretch. Causing us to lose length.
2. Weight gain, the added weight will hide some of the penis.

It's not to late if you seek medical advice for a Urologist, notice I did not say a Family Doctor.... We all seem to build a friendship with a family doctor over time, which make it's difficult sharing this type of problem.
Yes indeed your penis can get smaller and yes its down to weight gain. As the years roll on so the shape of the body changes, all that gym and working out wont help that much, and so the weight gets redistributed to the front making your cock smaller in appearance. Lie back naked, get an erection and see how bit your cock is, a bit of gravity helping there guys, then stand and see your pride and joy reduce in size. Hey guys, its called life, it happens.
 

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I highly recommend prescription Bimix or Trimix over any of the PDE-4 based ED drugs (viagra, levitra, cialis). they have several advantages:
1) overall cost per dose is far cheaper
2) you'll be hard and stay hard no matter what
3) the effect stays localized to your penis so you don't have the potential side effects like headaches
4) te doses are personalized and as you learn your body's reaction you can dose to how long you want to stay hard

I have seen you in action @MuscledHorse at our parties... Your injections really do help you with maintaining an erection with that fat dick of yours.... Guys please seek the advice of a Urologist when considering Injection Medications.
 

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I have seen you in action @MuscledHorse at our parties... Your injections really do help you with maintaining an erection with that fat dick of yours.... Guys please seek the advice of a Urologist when considering Injection Medications.
Thanks! It is great being able to stay rock hard even if a guy is punch fisting my hole into jell-o and another steps up right after to fuck me some more while another guy wants me to fuck them. I love your parties. They are exactly how male sex is meant to be: open, casual and promiscuous.
 

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Thanks for the info about another option!
Enjoying hearing about your journey. As I mentioned earlier I have been dealing with ED for a number of years. Since I read so much as erection ability and heart disease and I have a family history of the later I reached out to a Cardiologist who I went to High School with and I told him my erection issues and he did tests and although I had no blockages he did see plaque and treats me for that to keep it from getting worse and 14 years later I am doing great but my erections suck.
I keep a supply of generic Cialis and generic viagra. GoodRx through Walmart is very inexpensive. At this point in life we only have weekend sex so early Sat morning I take a 20mg tablet of Cialis, empty stomach works best. If we have sex then great but it still is usually good for Sun morn also. If I wake on Sun with good wood then I am fine, if not I will take 40mg of the Viagra and have a rock hard erection. I find viagra gives me a stronger erection but Cialis gives me more options for time. Cialis also lasts a bit during the week for a jerk off session
 

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I'll second the motion for tri-mix! My doc prescribed it about 6 weeks ago, so I'm still slowly escalating my dose to find the perfect dose. But my doc's advice was the same, tri-mix is the silver bullet compared to pills as a shotgun treating your whole body - with the attendant side effects.

In my experience, Cialis has far fewer side effects than Viagra. I highly recommend asking your doctor to prescribe daily Cialis. It's FDA approved to shrink BPH (enlarged prostate), making urine flow much better. I think because of my age (I'm 76) he prescribed 5 or 10 mg Cialis per day (at my option) and also prescribed it as 20 mg tablets, which I can halve or quarter daily. At participating pharmacies, using the GoodRx card (free, sign-up on-line), I get 30 each 20 mg tablets of generic Cialis for $24. Since I take half a tab per day (10 mg), that's a 60 day supply (or 120 days at 5 mg) for $24 (no insurance required). I used to think the GoodRx card was just hype, but it's quite real - they negotiate deals with major drugstore chains - I get mine through CVS. And it saves a bundle on other of my scrips, too. Taking 10 mg per day makes me pretty much ready any time ... and, even when soft, it hangs bigger, almost semi-hard. And pissing feels like I'm 25 again. But for all-night fucking, nothing beats tri-mix injections at the right dose - you do have to be careful with the dose - too much and you'll exceed 4 hours of rock-hard time. The emergency treatment for minor overdose, in case you ever need to know, is two 30 mg Sudafed tablets. If that doesn't kill it, get to an emergency room ASAP - seriously!