Body Language

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  1. TheRob

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    does anyone have a link (or even the name of a book) I could pick up that is a good guide to reading body language
    especially female flirting type body language
     
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    I know someone who's good in that... But that is it lol :rolleyes:
    I think you can't really learn it from books, but from experiences...
     
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    Body Language is something that I'm also really interested in, I mean I like to think I'm tuned in but I'm probably not.
     
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    Thereare some pointers about it in the Queer Eye For the Straight Guy book they put out a few years back. The one thing I remember them saying is that if a woman is interested, she'll touch the parts of her body that turn her on when you talk or something to that effect.
     
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    That'd be nice to know, because then I'd know what to touch later on...or parts of her to ask questions about.

    God, cool shit.
     
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    I had a tiny book from a phone company when Video calls came out (i think) but it was real basic. I think Pieter is kinda right, but a book does make you learn certain signs, such as playing with hair meaning they are attracted etc.

    I really like learning about it though
     
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    When you're talking to her, make sure her chest and feet are directed toward you. The direction of feet and chest determine where she wanna go, so unlucky you if they're directed toward the exit door!
     
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    I tend to find looking at someone directly in the eyes is a good indicator of intentions. I find it really hard to look at someone in the eyes, so if i look at you right in them, im either very comfortable around you, or i like you.
     
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    I don't know of a book, but I think I have a few signs down as to when a woman is interested and when she's not.
     
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    that's kinda what I mean, I get the feeling fairly often that a girl will be hitting on me but often I think this about a girl that has a b/f and I'm like I must be missreading
     
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    that's just it, I recall bits and pieces I have heard from people who either claim to be or actually are good with body language, but I want to learn it for myself you knwo what I mean
     
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    that's good, I get both of the above from her quite often

    well share!
     
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    it's just flirting.
    lots of people flirt, even when they're not really interested.
    it's meant to be fun and make everyone feel good.
    i'm sure you must know married men who compliment and charm all the ladies but would never dream of cheating.

    coming on to you would be far more intense and unmistakable.
     
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    What are they so when I am interested I will remember to do them.
     
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    Oh another thing, a woman is more likely to laugh at your jokes if she's interested in you...
     
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    Guys, if a woman is interested in you... you get her attention and usually all of it. What you do with it is up to you.
     
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    Not saying this goes for all women, but it has held true for the women I've met. They automatically assume that every guy they meet finds them attractive. They expect to be hit on and ogled over. If you want thier attention then be indifferent.

    If a woman finds you attractive she will do something to get your attention indirectly. A flip of her hair, a tiny smile at you, moving around to stay in your line of sight, something. The odds of her making the first move are slim, but she will give ample chances to do so. She will give you a window. If you don't jump through it then it's over before it begins. Show some self confidence, take a breath and give it a shot.

    After your initial come-on (not giving away my line) start paying attention and watch her reactions. The reactions will be subtle but simple. Things like leaning in closer, crossing her legs with to top leg in your direction, slow blinking, or maybe touching herself (not like that... nasty minds) touching her face or her neck or some other visible part of her skin, etc... Whatever it is, it will be small.

    Like I said in the begining, this doesn't apply to all women. Just keep your eyes open and try to notice the small stuff. And girls try to remember... the male eyes are generally dull and likes curves and shiny things lol
     
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    Not always. I need to see some continued signs of interest from him.
     
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    when you are making ot with a girl and they start grinding their hips into you they want you to call me over to come take care of them. that is all you need to know
     
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