ya have to like, heck, adore the person taking up half your personal space.
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ya have to like, heck, adore the person taking up half your personal space.
i think you're right.
kinda.
guys have different tastes in guy looks than women have, in general.
for casual/easy sex.
for casual sex the charm/personality requirement is something like "smart enough to not talk themselves out of my panties/boxers/buttonfly jeans/leather jockstrap"
long term relationships gay dudes focus on things from the neck up. is kinda the same for everyone.
when living with/seeing someone daily/regularly the more import things like compatibility/companionship/conversation become. ya have to like, heck, adore the person taking up half your personal space.
like some personality to exposure equation.
It's amazing that the study says women think that muscular-brawny men are more violent. I find small men, who need to prove something, as more a worry to me, than a big man who knows his strength and is careful of it.
This is a gross generalization but I think most gay guys respond to more masculine looking men with strong secondary sex characteristics as opposed to women who find neuter or more gender neutral "pretty" men sexually desirable. Hugh Grant vs. Charlton Heston.
If you like Muscle and little to no attitude...go with the muscle bear or power lifter typesThey like to work out and eat! Personally, with women or men, I find that if a person works out and takes care of themselves, it shows a lvl of pride and the fact they care about their health. They do not have to be anywhere near bodybuilder status...just know how to take care of what they got.
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This is where gay men differ from women. Most gay guys would take the hot guy over the nice personality one since talking after the sex is an option. :tongue:
If you like Muscle and little to no attitude...go with the muscle bear or power lifter typesThey like to work out and eat! Personally, with women or men, I find that if a person works out and takes care of themselves, it shows a lvl of pride and the fact they care about their health. They do not have to be anywhere near bodybuilder status...just know how to take care of what they got.
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yeah. i wasn't picturing people (like me) who lift a few weights to keep strong & toned & healthy.I do wonder how we're defining bodybuilder? When I use the term I'm referring to people who compete specifically in bodybuilding, not just anyone who lifts to get better at another sport, or to be healthy, or because they want to look buff.
Be honest with us OC: Your traps are made entirely of dihydrotestosterone that you inject directly into them on an hourly basis. :tongue:I do have an issue with the "crazy, roid rage" comments. There are MANY types of steroids and they will have a different effect on each and every person. If a person is a hot head natrually...they will be the stereotype "ragers". HOWEVER, a more calm person is less likely to rage. They will be more horny and assertive...but I do not know that many muscleheads that fit in the rage catagory. Of course...many statements made are by people who know nothing about the stuff and only repeat what they hear others say or "report". I did a research paper in college on seroids and steroid abuse and there is a LOT people that do not understand the topic and keep repeating like it's gospel. *ok rant over*![]()
I do wonder how we're defining bodybuilder? When I use the term I'm referring to people who compete specifically in bodybuilding, not just anyone who lifts to get better at another sport, or to be healthy, or because they want to look buff.
Be honest with us OC: Your traps are made entirely of dihydrotestosterone that you inject directly into them on an hourly basis. :tongue: