emilywee: Like most women, I've had some friendships with men that were platonic challenged- or ridden with sexual tension. Curious what others have done to deal with this? Sometimes I've found myself to be horny or even attracted to guy friends, even though I was attached or in love with someone else. A compromise I found, while still avoiding sex or other extremely intimate contact, was to give footjobs. I did this to two guy friends who i was very close to, but unable or unwilling to "be" with. Both were attractive and well endowed, so the way I'd relieve my own curiosity was to partially strip but keep close contact at bay- namely by giving them a footjob (wrapping both feet around their penis and stroking). it let me touch them but keep at a distance. found it to be really exciting and yet separate enough not to feel guilty or weird about it the next day.