Hello all; first post, I have lurked on here for a while, but decided to register to ask a question. So, I am an independent contractor and I was talking to the lady for whom I work. She and I have talked a lot, but today she goes "Oh I have a question for you!" I of course, was like, "shoot" and she goes "So, are you gay? I need the opinion of a gay guy." and I was like "Sorry to disappoint but I'm not gay" Then I was like "So, why'd you think I was gay?" to which she responded "Well you have a few gay friends, so I just figured." I was taken aback a little and initially I was like, it's 2009....then I started thinking, why the hell is it that if you are a guy who is 1) Active 2) Decent Looking 3) Outgoing, and 4) Diverse Friends you are assumed to be gay... I know it's pandering to stereotypes, to a degree, but I am just wondering why it's such a big deal. Then that's not even the weird part, she hen continues to ask if I'd ever be with a guy, because she doesn't have a problem with hooking up with a woman. I kinda felt uncomfortable, and I think my response of "My faith teaches me that I am not to engage in homosexual acts, so it's never been something I've wanted to do...though I do not think there is anything wrong with being homosexual" She just kinda looked at me like "I don't understand?" I don't know how to approach her about this, or to stop this, or even the legality of this...it's just awkward...I dunno.